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Me and my friends were having a house party last night and I invited my boyfriend to come along
I had so much drinks and then I got really drunk before everyone else
My friends and my boyfriend were playing "never have I ever" and I joined in
One of the questions was "never have I ever had a threesome" and my boyfriend took a drink
I got pissed off! Because he never told me he had a threesome
He said he did tell me in the beginning of our when he told me about his holiday in Thailand 2 years ago before he met me
I was drunk and got pissed off so I started hitting him and telling him to "fuck off" whenever he tried to calm me down and hug me
Then I saw one of my girlfriends making out with one of the boys and then I heard my boyfriend saying "bro, she's onto you, if I was you, I'd bang her"
Then I got even more pissed off and yelled at him right infront of my friends "what the fuck? So you wanna bang my friend?" and started pushing him
Then my boyfriend tried to calm me down again and he said "wtf? I was talking about the guy. Not me"
So I called one of the boys and one of my girls that was there as well and told them to come out and I asked them "my boyfriend said he wants to bang her right?" and they said "wtf? No. He was talking about that guy making out with her"
And then my boyfriend came out, tried to sit me down and hugged me and said "babe, i fuckin love you. You dont know how much I love you. I came here for you. You introduced me to everyone here. Your friends. And I thank you for that. Im making new friends. Babe, I really love you"
And then I went inside and sat with everyone (all my friends) and then the girl that was making out with the guy was like "girl, he loves you"
And then my boyfriend was telling everyone "Im so sick of this. We always fight over stupid shit. I really love her. I never cheated on her. I've been with her more than 1 year. I love this girl. Im just fed up with all her drama"
And all my friends telling me that he loves me and that I'm drunk right now and talk it out when I'm sober.. etc

Have you ever got into a situation that you think your boyfriend is the problem, but in reality, you're the problem?
That's me right now. Let's called my boyfriend A, and the girl he has feeling for B.
I've been with A for a year (we started dating in January) and in September, I started to notice he talked to this specific girl and I warned him that she had feeling for him but he didn't listen to me. I was uncomfortable about it so i started to give him attitude and we started to fight over petty stuff.
When we finally talked about our problem, he told me that he talked to his friend (B) more than talking to me because I gave him attitude, and he started to treat B as if she was his girlfriend (hanging out with her, going to concert, bring her to dance practice,...). When I confronted him about his feeling for B, he told me that he only liked her as a friend but when he posted her photo on his Instagram stories (twice), he always hid me and told me that he knew i would be jealous even though i told him i was cool about it. Plus, he didn't celebrate my birthday (or get me a gift) with me but he celebrated her birthday instead. He put a bunch of heart emoji in her contact, and they never stopped talking (Every single day). B has two Instagram account, one that she posted her personal but the other account, she posted a bunch of photos of her and A. She puts caption like "He's cute", "me and a routine: wake up, play game for 5 hours.", "get a man like him". It was really hurt for me to see those photos but why would he tell me that he didn't have feeling for her but she would post photos as if they're dating? Furthermore, he blamed that this relationship is doomed because of me, and he didn't change or anything. My friends said that i'm really feeble-minded to stay with him but I felt like it's all my fault in this relationship.
P/s: I'm 17 by the way, i accidentally put the wrong age on my profile.

Here is the situation: You have been with your partner for 10 mths. You recently broke up for 3 weeks and have been back together for just 3 weeks also. The reason behind the split was due to your partners unhealthy lifestyle which was affecting the relationship in many ways namely they were being secretive and lying to you to cover up their issue.

Since getting back together your partner has made an active effort to get their life back on track and although it's only time that can help you learn to trust again you have been trying to be encouraging and supportive as well.

However your partner gets upset over something you say and overreacts and he refuses to try and see your point or even take on board how you feel. He then proceeds to sit at the dinner table with his 2 young kids, your young child and you but won't eat anything, instead he chooses to sulk, roll his eyes at you when you ask why he isn't eating and rudely state that he has lost his appetite.

He then once kids are in bed, goes to sit outside to ignore you for hours, you go out after a while to see if he wants to talk and he still refuses to see your point and just argues, raising his voice at you, swearing at you and telling you to fuck off. Bear in mind you don't live together and this is your home, him and his kids were just staying for the weekend.

You walk away because there is no point in continuing the argument. You go to bed, he eventually comes up and grabs his pillow from your bed and goes to sleep with his son on the spare bed instead.

You are so mad that he is acting this way after only being back together for 3 weeks that you decide to send him a text message :

I can't handle your Shitty attitude and I'm not interested in starting 2018 off like this, you ignoring me, shouting at me and telling me to fuck off in my own home so perhaps just go home tomorrow. Go and enjoy your New Years Eve with your kids, I will do the same with my daughter then their will be no further arguments.

3 weeks ago, me and my boyfriend broke up because of my trust issues and how I kept accusing him of wanting other girls
But he has never cheated on me and we have been together for over 1 year
He was the one that broke it off abruptly coz he got fed up with me over it
He blocked me on everything so we had no contact for 2 weeks straight
Then 1 week ago, he called me up and said he wants to talk to me so he drove to my place
We sat in the car and talked about the break up and our relationship
He told me he wants to be together but I need to trust him more.. bla bla
So anyway, then I asked him if he thought of me during the break up and this is our conversation:
Me - did u think about me after u broke up with me?
Him - no. I was mad at u. I didn't give a fuck about any girls. I was focusing on myself. Just going to work and gym
Me - so during those 2 weeks u never thought of me? Or sad about it?
Him - nope
Me - are u srs?
Him - I was angry. And you're not my first girlfriend. I've had few break ups before. I get used to it
Me - but im your longest relationship
Him - yeah but i was so fed up with you. And then i went on Tinder and then I saw you. You full went on Tinder on the first week after we broke up
Me - so what? You went on it
Him - yeah but I went on it on 2nd week. I didn't think of anyone in the 1st week. When i saw u on it, i got annoyed and made me want to talk to a lot of girls.
Me - ah well. We were both single. So since u never thought of me during the break up, what made u call me then?
Him - crazy story but i was going through my cupboard where i chucked our anniversary photo frame. I wanted to find something and then the frame nearly dropped. I saw it and then all the memories came back to me. I started missing u and thought to myself "i really miss this girl" and then i just called u
Me - ok.. thats weird
Do you guys think he never thought of me during the break up? Or is he trying to act tough about it?
And is that story believable?
Its so weird

3 weeks ago, me and my boyfriend broke up because of my trust issues and how I kept accusing him of wanting other girls
But he has never cheated on me and we have been together for over 1 year
He was the one that broke it off abruptly coz he got fed up with me over it
He blocked me on everything so we had no contact for 2 weeks straight
Then 1 week ago, he called me up and said he wants to talk to me so he drove to my place
We sat in the car and talked about the break up and our relationship
He told me he wants to be together but I need to trust him more.. bla bla
So anyway, then I asked him if he thought of me during the break up and this is our conversation:
Me - did u think about me after u broke up with me?
Him - no. I was mad at u. I didn't give a fuck about any girls. I was focusing on myself. Just going to work and gym
Me - so during those 2 weeks u never thought of me? Or sad about it?
Him - nope
Me - are u srs?
Him - I was angry. And you're not my first girlfriend. I've had few break ups before. I get used to it
Me - but im your longest relationship
Him - yeah but i was so fed up with you. And then i went on Tinder and then I saw you. You full went on Tinder on the first week after we broke up
Me - so what? You went on it
Him - yeah but I went on it on 2nd week. I didn't think of anyone in the 1st week. When i saw u on it, i got annoyed and made me want to talk to a lot of girls.
Me - ah well. We were both single. So since u never thought of me during the break up, what made u call me then?
Him - crazy story but i was going through my cupboard where i chucked our anniversary photo frame. I wanted to find something and then the frame nearly dropped. I saw it and then all the memories came back to me. I started missing u and thought to myself "i really miss this girl" and then i just called u
Me - ok.. thats weird
Do you guys think he never thought of me during the break up? Or is he trying to act tough about it?
And is that story believable? Lol wtf