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So my mom is never content of my achievements. She doesn't support nor believe in me. She says I will end up like her.
There are some bright times when she encourages me and tells me she just tells me bad things to motivate me and in truth she believes in my success and abilities but these days are very very rare. Usually she tells me opposite.

Today we had a light argument, she's very controling and nosey when It's about me. She thinks I should hold myself more professionally and don't upload unprofessional things on social networks. I guess she wants me to act and look like old person, but I am young, have my interests and social life, why should I hide it? I told her I am not gonna hide my less professional and youthful side just because of the positions I hold. I want to be seen as young not some old ice queen who cares only about her career and I told her that doesn't matter what she thinks I am going to do whatever I want and she answered

"Did you notice that you got fat?"
I was like wtf? I am 47 kg and slim, I lost 1 kg and she says I got fat.
I answered "No I didn't notice because actually I am in a perfect shape".
Thinking about her words I wonder why would she want to make me feel bad and why she would tell me I got fat especially since I am really in a good shape.
What might be the reason behind her words?

This guy obvi likes me. He told me he did and said we don’t hang out enough for him to develop feelings for me ( like love) so I said why don’t we hang out and we made a plan to hang out Tuesday ( today) we have done stuff like make out and I gave him head. He said he wanted to have sex with me and I agreed. He wanted to obviously because he told me. But when I talked about sex with him to his face he acts awkward and pretends he doesn’t here my statement or just acts like really shy and awkwRd about it but looks REALLY interested. So I decided I wanted to have Alex with him and asked if he wanted to when we hung out. He said yea he does. And then now today we are suppose to hang out he told me he would contact me during the day and it’s 4pm so I texted him “ ouch” cause I don’t understand him. He said he liked me he said he wanted to have sex so... we both like each other we’re both adults. But he acts heavily shy about the sex thing. I did tell him that I can’t have sex without having deep feelings developing which he didn’t seem to care I said. But not he’s not answering and he never answered my “ ouchhh” text.