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Small disclaimer: I don't buy into the marketing gimmicks. I know their dirty and shady tactics to make customers buy their products (Cyberpunk 2077). I know when they're tryna low-ball customers or overcharge them for such things (it comes mostly with first-hand purchasing experience).

But what I am asking here is whether AXE is a good enough deodorant to wear on the regular. And if so then my next question would be if it's something women would like to smell on men like do they even care if it's AXE or not? I mean like probably almost anything beats nothing at all. Part of maintaining personal hygiene includes using deodorant.

Background.

• From the very beginning of our dating experience I was very open about my trauma of abandonment of my parents and lies growing up as a child. "I have a vulnerability of trust. I have a hard time trusting people. I feel people I care for may betray me."
• Because of this I am not okay at all with flaky behavior or canceled dates.
• In the past I have almost broken up with her due to flaky behavior. For example inviting me over and then a minute later changing her mind. Etc.
• She has explained herself as being an off the cuff planner. She has stated that when she texts me invites she is "thinking out loud". She doesn't view statements like "Do you think you can come over Today/Friday/etc" as setting a "definite" date.
• On Monday morning, I leave her place and she says for the first time "Bye, I love you!"
• On Monday afternoon, she says she has a busy schedule but invites me over on Friday. But 30 seconds later pushed back saying that she didn't know about her schedule that day. I was annoyed and told me to discuss this Friday so she has a better sense of her schedule. I told her to get back to me on Wednesday because I am a busy guy and I don't set "maybe" dates.

The Story:

She emails me randomly on Wednesday a family zoom invite. The zoom invite is for Friday night. It was the night of our plan date at her place that was still in dispute and being discussed. She had forwarded an email from an aunt and it showed the emails of her mom, dad, brother, etc. When she forwarded the email she left NO message. There was no explanation. Nothing.

About 2 hours later she messaged me asking how I was, saying she missed me, etc. Then I asked her about the email and she says, "I totally forgot I organized.. a family zoom call on Friday!" She says she sent me the email "Just to show you that I'm busy.. I'm not inviting you to it. I was informing..."

Why no explanation for sending the email and "forgetting" she sent it?

so i went out with a girl from different race (first date) , however she keep asking me questions about comparing between women from my country and her country , i answered first question once and try to change topic , but several minutes late she brought the same topic again.

i am white , she is japanese