Guy asked me out on a second date but texts a lot less. Uninterested?

[Anonymous]

After our first date, he no longer asks about my day or talks about his, unless I initiate a text. He asked me out by asking if I have any idea of what we should go out and do together. He waited 3 days before asking. He texts a lot less than before we met in person. Uninterested?

[heatherlou]

Go on date 2 and see.

It seems odd he'd be excited about a second date if he wasn't interested. Maybe he gas stuff going on. Maybe he wants to save conversation to in-person. Who knows? But if he's down for a second date, and so are you - go, and see how things work out.

[Anonymous]

Some people prefer real life interaction more than text, me included, so wait to talk about such things until meeting. But I can text more with someone if they show this interest. Maybe he is just not into that, and keep the texting low this way. Stupid way, he should at least answer you. So please tell him that it is important to you to text in between seeing each other if that is the case for you. Else I would say he should still have interest since he wants to see ou again.

[Lucretio]

Unsure. It may just be he doesn't want to overload you now, and have less to talk about when meeting in person?

Could be anything, can't just assume they're uninterested girl... especially if they're seemingly keen on a second encounter!

[Asker]

I told him that I won't be able to meet until next week because I'm busy this weekend, and I suggested we get lunch or dinner. He said it sounds perfect and he looks forward to it. I said I look forward to it too. But he stopped responding after that, its been 2 days. He doesn't text like he did before we met in person.

[EyebrowChewie]

Once he's got the date fixed he doesn't need to text you. He wants to have something to talk about.

[bobalife]

Same situation, I just don't wanna overload texts until the next date that's also similiar to your timeframe of another week. Wait til what happens next week or just initiate msgs if you wanna keep talking.

[Waldoe]

not interested... you tried, let it go...

[harry7825]

Maybe he's not interested

[Asker]

Why would he ask me if I had any idea of what we should do together?

[harry7825]

Maybe just a little conversation
That's it nothing serious

[Asker]

So a guy would say that even if he doesn't plan on meeting up?

[harry7825]

Yes of course

[Taylor_C]

He’s not interested

[Asker]

Positive?

[Asker]

When I gave him a suggestion of what we should do, he said it's perfect and he looks forward to it.

[Taylor_C]

Put a little more effort into it to find out if he is in fact interested or not.

[Asker]

Good idea.