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This girl I been talking to for about 3 weeks. Some time she take long time to respond. Like past 10 hours+ mark. Someday she respond quickly sometime doesn’t. So couple days ago I ask her out on a date and she available the next after 5pm. So I was like okay I’m excited to see you. She arrive on time ( she live an hour away from me), on a dot! Dress nice and happy to see me. So we go get some boba tea. And we went on Long drive just to talk. She share her drink with me 5min after we got into the car. We both little shy at first but night went on we got comfortable and we both have really great time talking each other and enjoy each other company. Say we laugh like 90% of the time!. As I get comfortable I start asking if her hand is cold so I hold her hand, and she doesn’t seem to be bother, so we lock hand. After couple mins I let go cuz is getting sweat! And I did that couple of time and doesn’t seem to mind. Seem pretty happy and smiling about it. So I start moving in to her personal space and she didn’t care either. And she hold eye contact with me when I talk to her, and I’m the one who break the eye contact, look at her again and she still look at me. Her eyes is beautiful🔥. I did playful touch her lot but she doesn’t seem to mind. At the end of the date i playful said oh so we going to kiss? And she said with playful tone: I don’t have gum, now u make me overthink, and you got let it happen naturally u can just say it like that. So she hug me and kiss me on the cheek instead. And said I got wait for next time! And she said it again when we went for another hug. So next day I follow up with her. Say I enjoy our date and she enjoy it aswell! So I text her the only thing bother is no kiss, and she said don’t complain or you won’t get any. So I just laughs it off cuz is was funny. Next day she went back to long responding. What do you guys think is she actually into me or she just playing game or is she giving me hella test right now?

I do feel some guilt for getting own my ex gfs hopes up. As I got to know her better I came to the conclusion that a future with her was not a good idea.

But when I broke up with her she psycho ballistic and seriously threatened to kill herself. I did break up with her face to face and I answered all her questions. I let her get everything out. However I do feel a lingering since of guilt for getting her hopes up.

Okay long story

I’ve known this chick for a little while. We just started getting closed. We decided we didn’t wanna see other people but neither one of us was ready for a relationship.

There is this person she previously dated awhile ago. She broke up with this person after only dating for a few months. They stayed friends. She started dating this other person2 and person2 had a problem with person1. She she completely cut off person1.

After a few years she broke up with person2 and started having a rebound with person1. This is where I came into the picture. I expressed that I don’t care person1 is her friend as long as she can tell me it isn’t like that. She swears it not however person1 admitted to being inlove with her. She keeps saying “it’s not like that for her, they are a good friend”

Person1 does shit relationship shit for her. (Taking her car to get it repaired, stuff like that) she swears she does that for all her friends.

She had a trip planned for a week to go back home and see her family and go to a concert. She made it seem like it was a solo trip. When she actually left, I hit her up because I had a feeling person1 was there. Surprised! Yup she admitted that this person is indeed part of the trip and she gave person1 the ticket while they were rebounding with each other.

I’m uncomfortable with this and I wanna honestly just pull back but another part of me doesn’t know if I am just being in my feelings? Thoughts?