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I've had a hard time finding someone to date or marry. I dated one girl for a long time and almost married her and she decided we couldn't be together over her religion and went and married another guy.
It took a long time for my heart to heal and I tried dating again. Only to be a rebound the next girl was only stringing me along until she found what she wanted.
Last girl I talked to was a connection so much like the first girl, I thought it was a game changer. But she told me she's not looking for a relationship and she's not all that attracted to me.

Losing the religious girl shattered me and I was in a state of depression for a few years. I got hurt at work, I gained 60 pounds and struggled with work.

I'm trying to turn it around but I don't think I can. I'm tired of getting hurt and wasting my time on people who don't feel the same about me. I just don't feel good enough anymore.

My confidence and respect are just absolutely shot and I don't know what else to do. I've tried putting myself out there but it keeps biting me.

I don't know what else to do except stop looking and keep to myself and just do nothing.

So i met this girl in a class in uni and i immediately noticed that she has feelings for me. As time passed, we became friends and we started spending time together. Whenever i mention her name in front of her friends, they raise their voices in amusement and cheer for her. I also get those looks from them whenever i walk with her or even sit with her. To be honest, she’s cute and everything but i am attracted to another girl and i feel bad that i am leading the first girl into a heart break. I always feel bad whenever i am dating other girls and i consider how she would feel if she saw me in the action. That being said, i would like some advice on how to approach her in such a manner that we stay friends without hurting her feelings.