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I personally don't think love is real. Humans by nature are built to just sleep around. Marriages and relationships are not natural at all. I think the modern world showcases this perfectly. People these days just fuck around with different people, mainly when they are young. Young people do not want "love" or relationships. They only want sex. Lots of it and with many different people. They hate the thought of relationships and refuse to commit. Especially modern girls. People only want "love" when they start getting older and realize that they don't want to be lonely for the rest of their life. People then "settle". That's what people do. They spend their youth sleeping with hundreds of different people and then one day they wake up and suddenly just want one person. They claim that they "Love" this one person and just wanna be with them. I do not beleive this at all. So many people cheat on their supposed "loved one". Not to mention young people hate relationships and just wanna sleep around yet when they start getting old they suddenly want a relationship. It's complete nonsense and it proves that "love" is fake. Men and women cannot "love" each other. People use each other to prevent lonliness and also to have a steady supply of sex. That's all dating is.

I am not sure about all of you but I am never gonna date a girl. There is no point as girls sleep around just as much as guys so if they wanna "date" it's because they are using you to settle. Not because they care about you. So "love" and having feelings for people is complete bullshit. It's how humans lie to themselves to justify their actions.

Why date? When you can sleep with new girls all the time? "Love" does not exist and people date to "settle" or "use" each other as they don't wanna be lonly. That's all dating is. It's pathetic. What do you think?

So maybe when people get older (late twenties) then women really wanna marry and stuff but in relation to young people, I think girls don't want relationships. At least not as much as guys. From my experience, many guys would love a great girlfriend and be exclusive and all that. Many young guys (I'm mainly talking about college students) want relationships. Not just sex but they'll take sex if girls come on to them.

When it comes to girls, I think they are the opposite. Many young girls don't want a relationships. I guess the media, feminism and culture these days is that women don't need men and are better off alone or some shit. Not to mention how everything encourages women to sleep around. I guess many girls are too ambitious these days. Every girl wants to be successful and therefore they don't have the time to date. This is just the way I see it. But I see a lot of girls avoiding relationships, and instead having casual sex in the veins of having fuckbuddies, fwbs as well as the odd hookup with a rando. I am not saying all girls hate and avoid relationships but I do think most girls these days, especially college girls hate dating and just wanna have fun, while they focus on career.

I also hate the way guys are labelled for only wanting sex and girls are labelled for wanting love and stuff. That couldn't be more false in my opinion. To me, the averge American girl wants to have fun and not get tied down, and a lot of guys want more than just sex but hey I could be wrong. This is just from my experience which is naturally linear, I guess it might just be my area but I've seen things like this on the internet and stuff so many it's the norm, I'm not sure.