Do you agree with Henry Cavill's reasoning for being afraid to approach women in today's dating environment?

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In a lengthy interview with GQ Australia, Henry Cavill opened up about how the #MeToo movement has had a direct impact on his love life. “There’s something wonderful about a man chasing a woman. There’s a traditional approach to that, which is nice. I think a woman should be wooed and chased, but maybe I’m old-fashioned for thinking that,” he said. But Cavill says it’s “very difficult” to pursue a woman that way “if there are certain rules in place.” “Because then it’s like, ‘Well, I don’t want to go up and talk to her, because I’m going to be called a rapist or something,’” he continued. “So you’re like, ‘Forget it, I’m going to call an ex-girlfriend instead and then just go back to a relationship, which never really worked.’ But it’s way safer than casting myself into the fires of hell, because I’m someone in the public eye, and if I go and flirt with someone, then who knows what’s going to happen?”

FMJ_Guy · Accepted Answer

I think that the #Metoo thing has really blown up, and scares a lot of guys. Originally, I thought it was about women that were abused, confronting it, the men that did it, and so on.
Now, for many, it seems like a 'Witch Hunt' where just about any guy is accused of 'something inappropriate'!! I think a lot of guys are going to the position of 'I don't need this' and are focusing their time on being with guy friends, more sports, cars, and so on.
I think that #Metoo actually has hurt a lot of women, that have never been abused, and made the nice guys, the respectful men, that would have approached those, reconsider, especially when someone like Henry comes out with something like this.

Pineapple_Boy · Accepted Answer

He's a public figure and a huge target. I totally get where here's coming from. Obviously the women in the comments here aren't going to understand because they only see men are perpetrators and women as victims. However in the celebrity world , men are the biggest target of blackmail/extortion when it comes to shit like this.

yasii · Accepted Answer

Understandable. I've just red on instagram that if a men lies to get a women to sleep with him it's rape. And almost all the comments on this post agreed with the statement. There are soooo many crazy women out there who think their ridiculous opinions are justified because enough women believe the same shit. I get what he means.

MrsCJW · Accepted Answer

I don't blame him. It seems like everyone is raping out there and they're always presumed guilty before innocent. The woman's side is always taken as soon as she opens her mouth. It's a dangerous place for a man to be dating these days.

JSmuve · Answer

I think he probably embellished things when he compared flirting/approaching with being accused of rape, but the fact that many women on social media blew up over this comparison kind of proves his point in a roundabout way: women tend to misconstrue things and blow things that weren't meant to be offensive way out of proportion.

We all know that women get uncomfortable easily and nowadays harassment is being defined as "how someone feels" and not "what you actually did", so in a guy's mind, you could just walk up to a random girl and say "hey I think you're attractive and wanted to come over and get to know you more," and if she feels uncomfortable that you approached her or how you approached her, even if you're polite and well-intentioned, she can say you "harassed her", even though to any reasonable person, you didn't. And all she has to do is go on social media and post "OMG, this total creep came up to me today and tried to hit on me," and everyone would believe her. She'd get sympathy comments denigrating this guy for doing nothing more than approaching her. Now how often does this happen? I don't know. There's this
www.telegraph.co.uk/.../
and this
www.cbc.ca/.../...lse-assault-allegations-1.797780
But the fact is, there are some immature women out there that are either emotionally stunted, socially inhibited, or just downright cunts that can't tell the difference between a guy actually harassing her and a guy wanting to get to know her.

Women have the power to ruin a man's reputation with the click of a mouse button and no guy wants to be on the receiving end of that. Going into an approach, you have no idea how you're going to make her feel or how it's going to be received. It doesn't matter if a guy does his best to be polite, if she feels uncomfortable, that's all people look at. He gets lumped in with sexual harassers, predators, rapists, etc.

I think you'll see a lot less stories like Henry's when society actively shits on women for being ridiculous about being approached when he wasn't legitimately harassing her instead of jumping to her support every time they make an unsubstantiated claim on social media. I imagine it's worse for celebrities because they're scrutinized more than the average person, so any story, however untrue it may be, will fuck them over.

Celq532 · Answer

He's terrible at explaining his reasoning. I get the gist of it, and ultimately I disagree on most of his points.
Any form of imbalanced expectation, including "woman should be wooed and chased", is what caused gender inequality. Because the mentality behind it "only X should be A, Y should do B". You are encouraging this kind of thinking. The same kind of thinking of any discrimination or false expectations.
Everybody is different. There are (small number of) girls who like to do the chasing, and there are (again small number of) guys enjoyed being wooed and prefer to be chased. Who on earth is Henry to say "no, that's not right. Because men should do the chasing, and girls should be wooed?" Denying these minorities?
The fear is semi true-ish. Fear of being judged wrongly is an immature reaction. You're not being confident enough to be sure what you're doing and be able to justify/defend yourself. But rejection is simply a negative outcome that nobody likes to bear regardless of what. Because it destroys dreams and potential happiness. Fearing such outcome is a logical and appropriate reaction that anyone should have. And if you don't have such fear (of rejection), then can you say you genuinely cared and loved? These are my opinions.

Anonymous · Answer

Ok first what he needs to do is grow a pair of balls and learn to take a few risks life is to short. You’re never gonna know if a woman likes you unless you go out there and start talking to them. Second in his case he needs to keep it low key and use a fake screen name to meet women online. His problem is he’s to nice to wimpy and a pushover with no balls to take risks he needs a choir girl 24 hour going church girl because if he goes after a woman who’s into street gangbanging thug guys or tough guys she will chew him up and spit him out emotionally and mentally and he will be so drained by her that he’ll leave and he won’t be able to keep her in check or be able to fight back verbally to her when he needs to stand up for himself. He’s to much of a whimp when it comes to women and to much of a nice guy which is both a good and bad thing. He needs to make a fake online account and talk to people online that’s the only way to know if he’ll be compatible with someone. The guy is to much of a pushover and I can’t see him settling down with someone who isn’t an advocate church goer and a virgin or very few sexual encounters. That’s just the impression I get when I see this guy or hear about this guy on the news. He suffers to much from shyness.

vishna · Answer

Henry is so damn fine. Like so damn fine. When he was rescuing those oil guys in the beginning of Man of Steel, my ovaries FIRED. And then when he was angrily eyeing the Flash in Justice League, my cervix widened... I was ready. take me Henry.

But nah, I think he stuck his foot in his mouth. Unless you're coming at women all wrong, you have nothing to be afraid of. Ya know, like what is his game plan? What does he usually do, what does Henry usually do to approach a woman. Bc I wanna be chased and shit, but like not by a sleazy guy and even though I think he's hella hot, if he came at me sleazy (oh my this would NEVER happen) I would be upset.

But god damn, Henry I'm here.

bubble_tea · Answer

I find it ironic that he as an successful actor seems to think he's incapable of reading body language and facial expressions of women who are open to being wooed and chased vs. those of women who don't want it, or at least not from him.

No one's going to call anyone a rapist for saying hello. But if you insist on wooing and chasing someone who clearly shows no interest in you, then sorry, handsome or not, you are a creepy narcissist who doesn't care what the object of your desire feels and wants.

DinaM · Answer

If you regularly get called a rapist every time you approach a woman, then you MIGHT want to re-evaluate the way you approach women. There IS a line between flirting and, you know, harassment.

It's actually very easy: No means no. If you start flirting with me and I tell you I'm not interested, then that doesn't mean I'm playing hard to get, it means I'm not interested.

MOST guys seem to get this just fine, at least the ones I've met. If they tried to come onto me and I said no, then they didn't decide I needed to be "chased." Quite the contrary; they respected that I wasn't interested and left it at that. You know, like decent human beings.

AuroraRoseat · Answer

... I have to comment that this man is SO gorgeous. Love him.

But as for your question, I do think that's he's right. I feel like (at least in America) a lot of men are afraid to say what they feel because they might be labeled and scrutinized harshly. So many men don't even compliment women at the workplace because of numerous sexual harassment complaints (and just for the record, a man telling a woman that she looks nice is NOT harassment. Ladies, if you have some issue with a man giving you a compliment, the issue lies with yourself.)

On the other hand, I don't feel what he says applies to himself. Cavil is considered overwhelmingly attractive and I doubt he'd receive the same reaction as an unattractive man would.

soyboy999 · Answer

Yes. I find it outrageous that he was forced to apologise for it.

My whole life, the messaging has been "guys are creepy", "guys are old dirty bastards", "look what this creepy guy did", and "oh the poor woman", "girl power", "how can we help women achieve more equality", etc.

So on top of having to initiate and fearing failure or public humiliation, women as a group have also made it very clear that they view men with suspicion and general skepticism.

I understand that guys do horrible things. I suppose the fear and mistrust will never go away.

But I'm tired of only women being allowed a voice in the public debate. Men are immediately shamed and blacklisted if we give our perspective.

truthbeknown · Answer

1000%, yes, thousand! He is handsome, rich and famous. Women would throw themselves at him. If something doesn't go right or he pisses her off, the avenue of Metoo is too wide and easy to take and society is way too quick to ruin and destroy men's lives and their careers. Like he said, simply saying "hi" can be misunderstood and be interpreted as sexual harassment, buying her a drink can be interpreted as sexual assault. This isn't all women, but you won't know how she will respond until after you ask or offer her. So again, men take all the risks. Better to hold back and say/do nothing.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, we're in the strange social place now where people can't be honest without some millennial SJW jumping down their neck to collect a pound of flesh.

Henry did absolutely nothing wrong - he expressed an opinion. And the usual bunch of fucktards pretended to lose their shit and he had to do a reversal/apologise/etc... in an attempt to soothe the savage beasts.

We're in the third stage of the #MeToo movement, where false and stupid accusations are going to bring the movement to ridicule and disrepute. That's the last stage before it dies and goes away, and the abusers start to feel free to abuse women again.

Celtero · Answer

For me, it just desexualizes women and makes them seem like they dislike sexual attention from men. Like... they don't pursue guys either, so I can see why there's theories on the internet that women are all aesexual and only use their vaginas to trap men who can provide for them.

I think of the story with Aziz... Girl had his dick in her mouth, yet somehow she felt this was sexual assault even though she didn't say anything? And she could have just bitten his dick off if it was rape. What did she say again? Something along the lines of "he was ignoring my nonverbal queues."

I can understand his stance on this since he's a public figure, but average guys shouldn't be as worried.

I also know it's wrong to grope or touch a woman in a professional setting, but in a casual setting women don't have to tolerate unwanted advances and can just leave.

Ярило · Answer

I understand what he's saying, but I think he could've worded it MUCH better. The way he uses the word 'chase' makes it come across as a little outdated and creepy. I think if he had just said he thinks a man should instigate a relationship and put in effort to win over a partner I don't think it would've come off as bad.

I don't really understand what he's getting at about being afraid of being called a rapist. If he means that because he's in a public position he's afraid someone could lie and wrongfully accuse him, thus staining his reputation then I get it. But if he's just saying he doesn't know how to interact with a woman appropriately then that's his own problem.

Selena2418 · Answer

I don't necessarily agree... being very direct in asking a woman her expectations and what she wants isn't difficult... I've noticed men have started doing this and I think it's a great thing. The last person I slept with did this, we were making out and things were getting hot and heavy. We had been dating for a couple months by this point. He simply asked "Are you okay with sex being on the menu tonight?" A simple yes or no response required... and being direct puts the man at ease. I think there are plenty of ways around it.

KAF87 · Answer

F No!

Women do not think you are some kind of rapist for simply approaching them and trying to woo them.

Being wanted feels good no matter what gender you are.

As long as you take no, not interested as an acceptable answer and leave it's fine.

Why would you go back to something dysfunctional when an amazing person could be waiting for you to ask?

Most people I suspect are "me too" because they've been rejected a lot or don't have the courage to ask. If you are good at asking, attractive and experienced at dating, why would you join that movement? Total BS

CurLyF · Answer

I understand what he means as I'm very close to my brother and have witnessed how many girls nowdays have become unaproachable because they are all like "I'm independant, why do you come flirt with my, I'm getting coffee you macho!", and stuff like that, but deep down they still want to be porsued... I'm deeply sorry for the women who have been victims of abuse and harrassment and they have my complete support, but not the women who fall in excesses and condemn other inocent men.
P. S. Henry Calvill can woed at me any time he likes hahaha had to be said.

Anonymous · Answer

all the women on here saying he's wrong because he's hot. he has nothing to worry about. haha. What about if he wasn't so good looking? We all know you scream sexual harassment whenever a guy you don't find attractive asks you out. That's his point. He's not saying that "no girl would ever turn me down because i'm famous and hot". He's standing for every guy (ugly ones included) until women stop thinking "eye rape" is a real thing. Sorry ladies, but asking you for a date isn't a crime, isn't harassment, and isn't your punch card into the "mee too" bullshit movement.

TripleAce · Answer

Hahah. he's got a point you silly girls lol. You want old fashioned well its old fashioned for us to talk to girls 😛
Oh wait. Its true. Girls are only old fashioned when it comes to money 😂

Men taunt the pussy, women flaunt the pussy. Has always been that way 🙊

winterfox10 · Answer

Honestly, yeah... and it wouldn't even be that bad if the rules were consistent, but they change with every woman, and they change in every situation. Fuck. That.

That's the same thing that actually stopped me from dating and hooking up in college. I've had so many life experiences with women doing full 180's on me like nothing, that the thought of hooking up with a totally consenting girl, and then having her call me a rapist to save face the next day or something, literally paralyzes me with fear.

I'm in the entertainment industry as well, so as a future public figure; that threat is especially present.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Yep. I've seen how this can destroy lives first hand, you can read accounts of it everywhere. They keep saying "just don't be a rapist" except that they have accused men of rape even as they admit that they willingly had sex with them, accused them of rape even though they never even met the guy or their was no physical contact so yeah, he would have his life destroyed more then likely. Turns out women can be crappy people too, who knew?

jason_1233 · Answer

Yes I do because.
If it's in person, you have to:

• Make eye contact
• Walk up to her
• Say Hi
• Ask her questions and build interest
• Ask for her number
• Text her
• Ask her out on a date
• Pay for the date
• Ask her out on another date
• Go in for the kiss
• Make escalating moves that lead towards sex
• And so on...

If it's online via a dating site or app like Tinder, you have to:

• Send interest
• Message her
• Ask her questions and build interest
• Ask her out on a date...

I think you get the damn picture.

You have to make all the first moves!

And that's a lot of work to invest in one woman who could toy with your emotions for fun or simply reject you because she has so many suitors.

maiave · Answer

There’s nothing wonderful about a man chasing a woman. I should just stop reading there. If the man can’t take a no that’s a huge big red flag? Makes you want to get even further away from that creep!

Another big red flag: A man saying any conversation with a woman will end up her accusing him of being a rapist. I doubt anyone’s actually encountered that situation in real life.

Gypsy_x · Answer

If you think the way you approach women may make someone think you're a rapist, then you need to change the way you approach women. He sounds like an absolute loser.

Kurαȷ · Answer

He is a celebrity, any accusation, no matter how unbelievable, could ruin his career.
So, yeah, it is pretty reasonable of him to think that way.

To be fair, someone like that can be accused of harassing a person they have never even met, but at least he doesn't go around giving people motivation to do that.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not just this Metoo issue, people are picking on each other for just any reason these days. It's like this trolling habit on the internet has extended its dirty arms into serious social and legal areas. Some people are using sensitive social issues to harrass and isolate others. They are haters who just want to lighten their heavy burden of negative feelings by hurting others. I hope we can find a way to stop this. They are ruining it for those of us who truly do need help.
Although I still agree with some posts that one or two no's from a lady mean enough is enough. I also see lots of comments about people's behaviors in bars. Honestly, someone in a bar is most probably pretty intoxicated, and may have quite a heap of issues if taking to alcohol is their release. So I wouldn't really say they are very responsible for their actions at that point. I'd be surprised if they were! I wouldn't COUNT on them for anything.

SleepingSnorlax · Answer

It is a very real concern among men that they can be punished for doing nothing or next to nothing because of the feminist attitude society is taking on
Tho I don't know if i would blame it on the me too movement, that feeling has been around much longer
Now obviously there are creepy fucked up men out there
But there are also fucked up women. You here about women who lie about being raped and have no regard for ruining the guys life
So yea its scary, i would imagine even more so for a famous man

Trolldad · Answer

Dr. Day said sex will be separated from marriage and reproduction ( i. e. "sexual liberation") to break up the family and reduce population. Abortion, divorce, promiscuity and homosexuality will be made socially acceptable. Gender-neutered and promiscuous, fewer people are able to bond permanently with a member of the opposite sex for the purpose of procreation.

He said that there are always two reasons for anything the Illuminati do: the pretext which makes it palatable to the gullible public and the real reason. Thus, we are being turned into homosexuals in the name of "women's and gay rights."

Kiran04 · Answer

Absolutely. The irony of it all is that what feminists call "the patriarchy" exists in the rift between men and women. The more divided we are, the stronger the patriarchy becomes. It exists when men and women stop trusting one another, because men in power begin shunning or avoiding women as a matter of legal and financial survival. They stop mentoring young women. They stop interacting with them. Work places become more segregated. All of these things promote the us vs. them mentality. The powerful do not flock to women's defense. What they do is isolate women and call it defense, when in reality it's just risk assessment. A man can't even be accused to sexual harassment if he never interacts with a woman, at least not at the work place, and the segregation of men and women in the work place hurts women more than it hurts men.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I would simply hate to be a young man in this environment trying to get a date now. Us old guys have it much easier. There isn't as big a chance for misunderstandings.

But I hardly think Henry Cavill has much to worry about. There are millions of women who would gladly wait in line just to meet him.

As for the rest of these young guys, they are just average fellas. They are dealing with something entirely different.

Anonymous · Answer

I definitely feel likely lately the line between predation and seduction has been blurred to the point that many men just are inactive in light of it. I definitely am hyper self conscious about making advances and that stops me a lot of the time.

For me to approach and really get sweet on a girl she'd have to be so forward and friendly as to indicate it is almost a sure thing. But I have an anxiety disorder and a lot of issues with depression and self esteem so I don't know how much this is an extension of that or the times, but both are definitely a factor.

Swaggirl1 · Answer

I understand where he's coming from. I do think it's a good cause but I also feel u have women who will use it to get revenge or get something outta it. So can u really blame him. Not really.

SupernovaV10 · Answer

I do to ane extent. I'll likely never approach a woman randomly as in see her at the grocery store and go up to her and hit on her. It would be we bump into each other (literally), I need to ask her a question, we're at the same event looking/talking about the same thing... etc. Many women these days are just rude. If every girl who rejected a guy would be polite and turn us down like this "thank you for the interest but I'm not looking to date right now/have a boyfriend/no thank you you're a gentleman but no thank you" it would be a lot less intimidating. And honestly if a girl is interested, she should do the same and approach the guy. It's a lot of effort making all the moves. Putting ourselves out there. If you like someone, do something about it regardless of gender. If you don't then clearly you don't think they're worth the effort anyways so move on to someone who will be worth it.

splashofyellow · Answer

I can understand where he's coming from but I would also like to think that women aren't generally that sensitive and wouldn't shout rapist at everyone who they don't want to be approached by. I'm not saying women like that don't exist, though, because sadly they do.

I can see how a public figure like him would have to be extremely cautious about what kind of women he approaches, though.

Smegskull · Answer

Misogyny hate crime is classed under the new policy as “incidents against women that are motivated by an attitude of a man towards a woman, and includes behaviour targeted towards a woman by men simply because they are a woman”. Examples of such incidents may include unwanted or uninvited sexual advances, physical or verbal assault, unwanted or uninvited physical or verbal contact or engagement, and use of mobile phones to send unwanted or uninvited messages or take photographs without consent.

Guanfei · Answer

The US set up that atmosphere, that environnement. I think the problem is much worse in the US where it started and spreaded.
But it's spreading around the world. You already have women in germany complaining that no guy dares to approach them. In France we have a feminazi as a state secretary to men-women equality, who is openly using the concept of manspreading and mansplaining.
Now I see 2 outcomes for it. Either it stays and dating is definitly fucked up, or people finally have enough of it and get rid of the idiots promoting that.
In the US, it will probably last at least a couple of years more.

Ellie-V · Answer

I understand where he’s coming from. But a person is labeled a creep when you do something creepy. It’s hard to come off as a decent human being. If you don’t approach someone with a sexual agenda, you won’t be accused of having one. (Well, there are SOME crazies out there ready to hurt your reputation, but on average, you won’t have to deal with that 😂)

Cr1s714n0 · Answer

I was just talking to a female friend about his Henry Cavill interview. The first thing that astonished me is that he is very much admired and desired by MANY women and takes no advantage from it (most men would do just the opposite). And I agree with him when he does not want to be called a rapist. There are so many cases of women being abused that the wrong approach may be confused with some kind of sexual harassment. Henry's got a point, I totally agree with him.

MrKinktastic · Answer

I've approached a lot of women and never been accused of anything. You generally only have issues if you're being a creep and actually sexually assaulting people.

Times change, cultures evolve. Our dating practices have gone through a lot of variations over the years and trying to fix it to a certain point in time is an exercise in futility.

alex_4rex · Answer

(Comment from my gf) while his statement is understandable as in, women could simply dislike the sex and say its rape (and thats why i would vote yes and my boyfriend did), there's the facts that 1. a healthy 80% of women are sane enough to not do that and 2. there might be a misunderstanding of what rape, sexual harassment and normal sexual habits are.
Even then, i still agree with him

devilish-cutie · Answer

he's fear is unrealistic, noone will reject you or call you rapist if they like you.. if a woman is acting back off to you means she is not into you

its the same issue to women that approach guys; most guys dont actually prefer it cause exactly like said, they want to be the hunters
won't stop me to do it cause one for me would appreciate it
its a stupid excuse not to try

tartaarsaus · Answer

Meh, the statistical likelihood of ever being accused of rape, while not doing it, here is basically infinitesimal.

Usually they get filtered out by the police either way, or don't hold in court.

For him, it's more logical since he is a public figure so it could ruin his reputation. But for regular folks it is rather stupid to not approach people because of a basically non-existent risk something malicious might happen.

Mrwonder · Answer

I was going to make a joke saying “he’s no super man he’s a super pussy” but when I actually read the reason yeah he has a lot to lose and the girl doesn’t, so it can be really dangerous for him and his image but I guess that’s dating right now you have a chance to lose it all over a crazy girl

ScaryCool · Answer

I think he is making a very bad argument for perhaps an understandable issue. Most women won't call you a 'rapist', but there are definitely some who will call you a creep for simply walking up and trying to talk to them like people have done for a millennium or two now.

Littleinfamous · Answer

The only people that are afraid of the metoo movement are actual rapists or guys who intend to force women to do things against their will. Flirting can't be construed as rape. Get real.

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

It’s understandable. Besides he isn’t the only guy who thinks like that, there are many guys who have similar opinions because of this new type of McCarthyism known as the Metoo movement. It’s not misogyny, it’s just being cautious.

Anonymous · Answer

Just talking to a woman doesn't make you a rapist. What sane person thinks that? What he's really saying he's concerned about is when things "go to fast" and/or after a one night stand that the woman will hold it over him. Easy solution. DON'T SLEEP WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW AND LOVE! It's honestly not that hard to have some level of self-control.

JDavid25 · Answer

I see his point really... He makes sense.. But I also feel it's a little bit paranoid to think you can't approach a woman..

Steve37 · Answer

It is a genuine concern that innocent flirtatious behavior will be construed as harrassment by a woman. Unfortunately, all it takes is a misinterpretation of a guy's intentions and a social media account to ruin a guy's life. Of course that makes guys think twice before approaching a woman.

Byakugan · Answer

As women i`m sure you won`t really understand him, But as a guy, i do know what the`s trying to say. Gotta be careful now a days. Cos you could just be staring at a girl or woman and she`s scream HARASSMENT lol if you get what i mean

Anonymous · Answer

Yes he's right. Making a false allegation of rape or sexual harrassment is very easy but impossible to disprove. Men are very vunerable and a lot of lives have been ruined.

Anonymous · Answer

His viewpoint is ridiculous. I’m sure he will become the poster boy for Incels everywhere. If a man is simply approaching a women he is interested in, he will not be called a rapist. The issue is that there have been many men who sexually assaulted or harassed women in Hollywood to have spurred the Me Too movement. If he is afraid, it likely means he feels guilty for his past actions towards women.

Maxemeister · Answer

To an extent, yeah. I mean, I don't think most girls would criticize you for just asking them out, but there is the occasional crazy, especially for celebrities like Cavill. Now, there is an exception: When a male thinks he's entitled to her. Then, she's allowed to cast him into the pits of hell.

rahul_24 · Answer

He has a point. It's a perspective and a powerful one. I've seen it happen to one of my close ones. It's difficult to see because even I wouldn't believe but when it happens, it is just shocking. This comes out of nowhere, somewhere I too got shocked and needs to be careful

ryancg · Answer

What the fuck is he bitching about? He's like super handsome and has a fuck ton of money, he has absolutely nothing to complain about. As though he would even need to chase a woman, there's a gotta be millions lining up just to spend a second with him. I knew they never should've cast such a whiny twat as Superman.

Anonymous · Answer

There have been LOADS of women who have falsely accused men of rape. They don't seem to be punished for ruining men's lives, but men's lives and careers are ruined the moment a woman claims rape. The man are seen as guilty before any proof has even been shown. Something needs to be done about this.

lea556 · Answer

I think he’s slightly overstating it, but he has a point.

Malita55 · Answer

Nahhh i mean maybe some women are dipshits and think that every man who tries to talk to her had bad intentions, but i think most intelligent women aren't like that

johnboymuscles · Answer

I was at a bar a few weeks ago. A girl looked over.. for an extended period. I said "hello" from my seat at least 5 meter away. Her reply "fuck off" .. yet she was looking over for the full length of the bar 😂😂 Womens voices have been credited too much power. Back down to earth you trolls

VinChin · Answer

Nah... Ridiculous. Dude just talk to the girl. This whole...  "Oh no im a rapist"  Crap is such bullshit. I always talk to girls in clubs, bars and even cafes. Just chatting and they haven't assumed anything. Maybe fair few guys have a creepy look in their eye 😂

Yatagurusu · Answer

Yes and I will absolutely be taking measures to protect myself. I will not put myself alone in a room with a woman, I will not go out with a woman that's not somewhere very public, even a walk on the beach at morning is risky, and I absolutely will not help a drunk woman. Sure 99/100 women may be good, maybe even 9999/10000, but it just takes one to ruin my life forever

boulshyte · Answer

this is the dumbest response I've ever fucking heard

Do you agree with Henry Cavill's reasoning for being afraid to approach women in today's dating environment?

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