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Me & my girlfriend have been having problems every two weeks for the whole summer. Last week we decided to take a road trip to Seattle. We took her car since mine is in the shop. The trip was going good until this morning. This morning on the way driving back an oil truck swerved in front of me. I got scared and hit the brakes, we launched forward. The guy in the truck was at fault, but she didn’t see that because she was on her phone. She lost her temper at me and yelled “WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? You’re such a bad driver!”. I explained to her why it wasn’t my fault and that she should apologize. She refused to apologize and cancelled the rest of our plans. We had plans to do a photo shoot on lake Washington for memories.

We were running late for the photo shoot because she wanted to stop at a restaurant. I told her since last night we’re not gonna make the photo shoot on time due to the busy long weekend, and so said so done. Then she starts blaming me that she didn’t have to do her hair n make up. She even blamed us being late on me driving slow. I was doing 5 miles under the speed limit because I was driving and looking a my gps when I was wasn’t sure of where I am. Once I got things in order I was going over the limit.

I said let’s forget this fight happened and continue with our plans. She said “no” and told me I’m selfish. And that she’s not taking pictures because they’re not gonna be good memories. I told her “we never have good memories”. She said “then why are you with me?”. I told her I don’t know. I drove her car back to my house grabbed my stuff and that was the last time I heard from her. Should I bother trying to get her back? Or just let her go?

I discussed with a friend about going to Germany in September since February ( no real plan: an exact date or sth, just that we'll go), a couple a days ago we also decided to go in a citybreak. Somehow talking about the second trip made first also more important and we decided about a date. She told me she wants to ask some more people and I said ok, except X week. Next day she tells me that they want to go in exactly that week. I say.. Ok.. This is Wednesday, Thursday she tells me we'll bring 2 more people with us in the citybreak. Like.. I am driving, we were the ones that created the plan together and without any question the 3 people team became 5. What makes me more angry is that i I wouldn't have asked sth that day about the citybreak probably I would have found out only when they were entering my car.

I got a bit angry, I found an excuse and told her we'll go nowhere.

What do you think? Is it ok what she did or not?

I think every Asian teenager has fantasized about getting drunk, taking an old man's car and driving it into a lake.