The Devil I escaped from church

[jennifer_bloom]

In 2018 I went to a church where a younger guy around 24 years old was interested in dating me and I rejected him, leading to him spreading ridiculous and irrational lies about me in retaliation. He began chasing another girl after I turned him down, she was mentally ill and fat and handicapped, and desperate for friends, for 3-4 months he spent over $200 a week driving her to expensive locations far away, buying her restaurant food and treating her like a Queen, and than the abuse began. He would tell her she was a S-??? And a Wh-??? And Worthless when she was suicidal, he would mock her for having abusive parents who did not love her and he would scare her by driving his car in crazy and dangerous ways when they fought, and he would hang up the phone when she tried to talk to her parents on the phone or when her parents tried to talk to him, now here is the thing.

The Psychology of Abusers: Some people like abusing others.
- In the same way that some men like hunting deer, some predators like hunting woman
- In the same way that some men like to dominate people in bed, so some men like to injure woman in romances
- In the same way that some girls like to take care of young children, so some men like making people feel vulnerable and will hurt them to get that sense of vulnerability
- In the same way that some people like having servants who cater to their needs, so some men like woman who cater to their anger and frustrations by being their punch bag

What I’m suggesting here is that SOME abusers do not view other humans as the same species as them and are motivated by things other than fear or pain or retaliation when they abuse others.

This is the second abuser at church that I escaped, the first one targeted me when I was between 18-19 years old and in that situation, it threatened my life because the man was intelligent enough to pull of a murder, the second guy was not smart enough to pull of a killing and just wanted to play games with my mind for a while. God rescued me but did not rescue the fake Christian who treated everybody like trash, she dated him and I have not spoken to her since and don’t know how many times she’s been hospitalized by his abusive tactics.

[Anonymous]

Thank god you were saved and i hope that girl is also able to escape the trauma

[cloudspy]

These traits you list seem to me to be of psychopaths.

[Jlegacy]

Broken people break others and Satan is capitalising on breaking people. Thank God for Jesus. Thank God that God can put a broken life into better shape than it ever was.
This guy may have been in church but he is not the church. Jesus is.

[bannacookies]

As you being a Christian, should not you have helped that girl and be Christ like? Jesus would have been there for her.

[jennifer_bloom]

She turned away from me because her boyfriend told her too and my parents wanted me to avoid her because I was being stalked by her enemies for associating with her so I would have angered my parents if I remained her friend.

[bannacookies]

I see.