Search Results: how can you tell if a guy is just shy

HELP! What do guys think of girls who are super friendly with them? Do they think they are being flirty or that they put you in the "friendzone" ?

I realize now one of the main problems I haven't had anyone asking me out or date me yet, is because as soon as I meet guys, I just suddenly start being super friendly with them; even when I have crushes (even tho I could...

LucyPag

Xper 5 Age: 26

I want to approach this girl but my friend might have ruined it for me?

There is this girl at work that i really like, but didn't get a chance to actually meet, she works in the same department as my friend and i asked my friend if he knew she was single or not, and then he just went ahead...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I break this awful cycle?

I (M/27) am getting to the point where dating is becoming quite fusterating for me. I got divorced last year after a miserable short marriage and while I enjoyed being single again I started feeling lonely so I hoped back...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When is a good time to kiss him?

So i met this guy on bumble almost 2 weeks ago and he is wonderful. We hit it off super well. We have gone out twice and text a lot. He is so super sweet and fun but I feel like physically he is a little more shy? I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Does my neighbor have romantic feelings for me?

I am a single 26 year old female and my neighbor is a single mid-30's male. I'm super shy so I'm not the friendliest person with that being said I find my neighbor is always waving at me, saying hi, smiling and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says that be doesn’t mind?

So there’s this guy that I’ve been really flirty with, he’s really shy and can be reserved most of the time. He’s the type where you have to make the first move and he’ll just kind of follow along but he is really and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Initiated a conversation with my crush. Felt like he avoided me afterwards. Did I blow it?

I could have sworn this guy had a crush on me too. He’s kinda nerdy and hasn’t had a girlfriend before. I noticed he gets quiet around me but to others he isn’t. We work retail together. He tries to be around me but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do when I’m too shy to talk to crush and he’s too shy to talk to me?

We haven’t spoken a lot. Since the first day we met I could tell how he looked at me that he was attracted to me. It seems like we’re making subtle hints but that’s it. We’ve made conversation only a couple times and once...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

If a shy girl showed interest, but avoided me after I made a move, was she just leading me on?

A shy girl would indirectly flirt a lot, and constantly gave signs of interest. She would often look away really fast if I caught hey looking. If she flirted intentionally, it was awkward and tense, and she'd stumble...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the cases in which a guy kisses you for long, but doesn't like you?

Let's leave out Hook ups.. if a friend whom i confessed my feelings to decided to spend time with me and then initiated a long kiss, is it possible that he only did out of pity? We have only been friends for less than a...

LucyPag

Xper 5 Age: 26

How to get an outgoing guy to notice the shy girl?

I have a mild case of social anxiety that I’ve struggled to overcome my entire life, so when I like a guy my nerves tend to skyrocket. I can fake it and appear to be somewhat confident when saying hi, but trying to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you think my coworker was into me, then decided he wasn't anymore? Or do you think it was just all in my head?

there's a guy i work with who i thought was into me cause he asked me if i had a boyfriend, asked me non related questions, and wanted my opinion on things and often times i can see him glance at me and I don't know it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I can't tell if he's flirting?

Im talking to a guy and things have been going pretty well. He takes a while to answer which honestly doesn't bother me that much because we both have jobs. He is a pretty shy person and to himself most of the time but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I tell if a shy guy likes me OR he likes the attention I'm giving him?

I tend to be the one who talks to him first whenever he's around me. Would smile at him when I see him. How to know if he just likes the attention or he likes me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I ask out my butcher?

I've liked this butcher guy for a while he's super nice and I think he's really cute. He's so cute that I never would have even tried or thought to talk to him if my mum hadn't told me he was staring and smiling at me....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My crush has been opened up a lot to me since closer to me , is it good sign?

Hi guys , i've been close with introvert guy since second semester. We met each other since first semester , but we were just a friend. Especially , i was close with my ex crush. At first , he was pretty private to...

kurosakitachibana

Xper 1 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

I don't know anymore, what can I do?

I'm tired of telling this story but I just don't know anymore.. A girl working in a supermarket has been staring at me for months, she sometimes came standing close to me on purpose. She looked really shy when she walks...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls: Dating 101: True Love Waits

This is going to be the first in a series of Dating 101 myTakes I will be doing. I will take one very common question, scenario, dilemma or subject, and unpack it, decrypt it, explain or explore it. Some will focus on...

AmandaYVR

Influencer Age: 53

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