HELP! What do guys think of girls who are super friendly with them? Do they think they are being flirty or that they put you in the "friendzone" ?

LucyPag
I realize now one of the main problems I haven't had anyone asking me out or date me yet, is because as soon as I meet guys, I just suddenly start being super friendly with them; even when I have crushes (even tho I could be a bit shy) I just literally become so friendly, outgoing, funny and constantly joking with them cause I want to create a light banter between us and create more connection and things in common.

But I realized that's not what most guys want when they want to date a girl and I literally had no idea about that.
Maybe I should be more silent and mysterious with guys, so that they would want to chase me more.

Even the last time I had a crush i literally had to confess my feelings to his face months after I fell for him, and he told me he had no idea about them.
Before that day, he used to invite me a lot in his room to watch movies with his mates, I was spending a lot of time with him and his male friends (I literally went out to drinks and play billboard with them)
And the worst thing is that I thought I was being OBVIOUS about my feelings and intentions, until the night I confessed and he told me he didn't take up the hints. (Fortunately he said he felt the same lol)
What's the problem here? Should I act differently with guys? Should I be less friendly with them?
If I'm friendly with them, would they think I don't like them romantically?
HELP! What do guys think of girls who are super friendly with them? Do they think they are being flirty or that they put you in the friendzone ?
HELP! What do guys think of girls who are super friendly with them? Do they think they are being flirty or that they put you in the friendzone ?
HELP! What do guys think of girls who are super friendly with them? Do they think they are being flirty or that they put you in the "friendzone" ?
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