There is this girl who works with my boyfriend in the army. She is married with kids and is a religious person... but you wouldn't know it she is quite pretty. Fit. tattoos. boob job you could tell because here boobs were practically coming out of her dress. but when I 1st met her a week ago. She would talk to my boyfriend and was all buddy buddy with him and when he tried to introduce me to her, she walked away... I was thinking okay she might have been just super busy... the next time I saw her at a formal dinner. (Her husband was there) She talked to my boyfriend when he was waiting in line for a drink as well as the other guys there.. I saw her at the end of the night cleaning and I asked her if she needed any help clearing tables. She looked at me shook her head and walked away.. I was thinking that was rude of her. She could have said thanks for asking but no thank you... then when we were leaving she said thanks for coming looking at my boyfriend... i told my boyfriend about all this and he said she's actually so nice you didn't give her a chance she was super busy hosting. I said we'll yah she's nice to you because your a guy. I didn't get a very nice impression from her when I met her those 2 times. .. what do you think?
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Asking why someone would act this way if the other person did nothing to you. But be nice to everyone else?
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Women in the military are typically very horny compared to your civilian women.
(From my experience) that being said, there are also a lot of women in the military who are also lesbian.
I have a Sgt. In my unit that I’m very “buddy buddy” with and she is in charge of issuing our gear. Do I flirt with her? No. Does she flirt with me? No.
Pay closer attention to how they interact. I would say if you know he’s hanging out with her one on one, then chances are there’s something going on.
As far as I know they don't. I know they all get together at their mess every Wednesday night after work is over but it's everyone they work with not just them. he's not the kind who who cheat on me. I have never had a reason to ever doubt him. We are trying to have a baby and just bought a house together. Big commitment. Plus she's married with kids but that dosnt mean much these days though. Il give her another chance when I see her if she ignores me again il have a better indication that I'm not crazy and she dosnt like me for some reason. My boyfriend has friends that are girls. A lot of them fitness models and body builders. Absolutely stunning gorgeous and I have never got a weird vibe from them they are all so sweet. But the one he works with I get a weird feeling about her.
Women in the military tend to be surrounded by men almost all the time. Even the ugly ones.
I like to call this the bee hive effect
That Makes sense. But the weird thing is my boyfriend said "where you giving her dirty looks unintentionally or something?" ... I have nothing against her and offered her help her why would I be giving her dirty looks?
After the fact maybe?
Possibly lol thanks for reading my rant and replying
Yeah he probably caught you looking at her aggressively. I don't know, there could be something going on. But this little interaction wouldn’t point to that 100%
She likes him... even as just a friend... and she's obviously jealous of you... Very neat that she acts all bitchy and competitive considering she works in the army...
If Anything I should be jealous of her she's gorgeous. I'm not a competitive person. I have been nothing but nice to her. I'm totally cool with all the other girls my boyfriend is friends with. I Came across her Instagram. And she posts pictures in the captions it says things like be kind to people. Love everyone. Kind of ironic.
Maybe that's why! ... She's entitled to his attention.. She doesn't like it when you're there... Many girls are like that... She could also dislike you because you're very different from her... You're nice and bubbly and she's kinda mean and conceited... But if everyone says she's nice.. Maybe it's just about you because like I said she feels entitled to his attention and she doesn't like it when you're there.. She gets hostile and jealous...
Yeah that is what I was kind of thinking as well. I am a very Very quiet person I don't say too much. My boyfriend is More outgoing than I am. She matches his outgoing personality more than I do. I think it's weird though that she's married And jealous of somebody else if that's the case.
Yup just like I've imagined it.. Like I said she liked the attention... Maaany girls are like that.. Even when they're in a relationship...
That she dont care to interact with you not sure whatvyoeu really asking tho
I'm asking is why would someone be like this?
She's nice to everyone else but Me
She simply don't care to get to know you or want to I wouldn't say she was rude to you she just treated u like a stranger which u are