So i broke up with my ex bf after few months dating and yes he is my co worker. anyways long story short i and him were good together always having fun and care for each other he is great, carrying blah blah- one day I got really upset (more like disappointing) and broke up w him through texted him (my bad but I wrote it in pretty nice way not hurting or any harmful words i used) anyway, he didn't replay or any acts. we still saw each other at work and small talk when it needs anyways after few weeks we met up and talk about the break up. He was hurt and I said sorry but I told him i only broke up with him cause I felt like his interasted in me was fade away I asked him if he wants to give it a go with me again and he said nope. He was dissapointed on me that I broke up w him through texting and decided about break up on my own. I understood and told him I am srry that I hurt him. this is not the end! But then a couple of week later there was a new girl (younger, nice to guys but girls, lies all the times but guys has no idea) and she has no idea that him and I had history (by that time him and I were started hanging out again like in a small group and texting, he told one of my good co worker (a girl) to take care of me after brake up he was worried about me loosing weight and stuff) anyway that new girl was hitting to my ex bf and I didn't like it well I met up with her once and I told her about me and him and asked her not to getting involved between us. I asked her in a very nice way i even told her if she likes him she could even date him that's not my concern but don't sneak around me if you two wants to go out then I wouldn't mind but pls pls just let me know cause I don't want any awkward moments cause I didn't know they were going out. but ever since I had talk w her she tend to be around my ex all the times. she even made rumour that i was bullying her cause I am upper position at work then her. finally my ex believed her and they are now secretly dating
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I agree with you entirely about HER
understand why HE thinks the way he does
you GAVE UP any "rights" to know anything about personal relationships outside of work, e. g. them dating or not WHEN you broke up
To ask for this privilege (at work or not) DOES smack of using your authority to force an action from underlings, some even seeing this as a veiled threat to their jobs. You can't DO that and if really put to the test in front of YOUR superiors, could be harmful to your job... so cease this. Turn a gblind eye to whatever they are doing.
You have bigger fish to fry and a shopping list that obviously finds him lacking, so DO your shopping looking ahead, for looking backwards will trip you up.2