I don't want to be one of those girls who over analysis’s insignificant things. But I liked a guy a five years ago, he teased me for a year always asking if I was going to attend school next semester, suggested we should take the next two courses together and if I wanted extra help with homework he would give me lots of time, I may add he was a acquaintance in class that I didn't know well. So I sent him an email that I was interested too big mistake, he never really rejected me just teased me the next two semesters, then he gave me this “you have expectations about me” speech and turned me down.
So since then I have tried to avoid him on campus but... every semester he makes his presence known he stares at me constantly every time I see him, but I always look away. When ever I have had to email him for school stuff (emergencies) he is super nice, then the following day he will be hanging out where he knows I'll me to see if I'll talk to him I don't. He also does this annoying thing where he will walk up to me really fast, and then stomp on the ground I turn around and he nearly slams into me, like an inch from my face, and then walks off. The worst was when I was sitting by a wall he went out of his way to pass me but the stomp was right when he stomped right near to where I was sitting so he scared me, its like he comes up fast then stomps on the ground and leaves, WTF.
The most embarrassing was when I was with pals before class, he was going to his car and before walking down the stairs he stood on top of them for five minutes trying to see if I would look at him, then I covered my face to block it from his view and as I blocked my face with my arm I just saw his head following tiring to keep eye contact, he had a box in his hand he lifted his hand with the box I don’t know if he was saying hi though, but he gave up as I looked away.
I think this all came to a head as most of the time if he walks ahead of me he turns around a few times, and them today he took the long route to walk right by me I was sitting on a bench in front of the building my class is in, he walked by so close I could feel it and if I stuck my hand out I would have hit him. WTF is wrong with this guy, why does he do this, is he trying to tell me to go away, does he just want attentions.
A little demographic information I am in college in my mid twenties, he is also from learning from a friend of his, that his relationships in the past have been bad, he is very cynical because most of his girlfriends too advantage of him financially, as he believes most women do this. As a matter of fact the women he chose to date over me did this.
So since then I have tried to avoid him on campus but... every semester he makes his presence known he stares at me constantly every time I see him, but I always look away. When ever I have had to email him for school stuff (emergencies) he is super nice, then the following day he will be hanging out where he knows I'll me to see if I'll talk to him I don't. He also does this annoying thing where he will walk up to me really fast, and then stomp on the ground I turn around and he nearly slams into me, like an inch from my face, and then walks off. The worst was when I was sitting by a wall he went out of his way to pass me but the stomp was right when he stomped right near to where I was sitting so he scared me, its like he comes up fast then stomps on the ground and leaves, WTF.
The most embarrassing was when I was with pals before class, he was going to his car and before walking down the stairs he stood on top of them for five minutes trying to see if I would look at him, then I covered my face to block it from his view and as I blocked my face with my arm I just saw his head following tiring to keep eye contact, he had a box in his hand he lifted his hand with the box I don’t know if he was saying hi though, but he gave up as I looked away.
I think this all came to a head as most of the time if he walks ahead of me he turns around a few times, and them today he took the long route to walk right by me I was sitting on a bench in front of the building my class is in, he walked by so close I could feel it and if I stuck my hand out I would have hit him. WTF is wrong with this guy, why does he do this, is he trying to tell me to go away, does he just want attentions.
A little demographic information I am in college in my mid twenties, he is also from learning from a friend of his, that his relationships in the past have been bad, he is very cynical because most of his girlfriends too advantage of him financially, as he believes most women do this. As a matter of fact the women he chose to date over me did this.
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