well about two weeks ago, he started getting super weird. he would be distant when we would talk 24 7. I finally asked him what was up and he said he told me he did not want a girlfriend and he felt I was getting attached and being lead on. I lied and said I was not. after that we texted a little but he started stopping the convos. I did ask if he wants to end it and he said no..but his actions are saying differently.
he basically wants me there in the moment..while I wanted it to lead into something. we are on different pages and I really do like him. I just think it is unfair for me to stay with someone who does not want to be serious. I think he is emotionally unavailable.
so I asked a guy and a girl yesterday what I should do
the guy said : if I were to get a text from a girl saying goodbye, I'd be like whatever ha ha. but if she just stops texting me, then I would be worried.
the girl said: text him what you want to and end it like that. that is when he will realize what he had.
i have no idea what to do. I mean either way I need to leave..i just don't know what my gut wants.
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