Long story short...
We've known each other for 3 months now and became really good friends and would talk about a lot of stuff including other guys. Well about a month ago we became more than that by...making out [sober!] Oh and that's a big deal because not only was I starting to fall for him but also that he's mostly into guys so I'm one of the rare girls whom he likes like that. We also discovered and are becoming very compatible with each other...not to mention that I think he's super hot and he casually once mentioned that I'm "hot." But a week later after our first make out session, after more hanging out and kissing, he confessed that he wants us to "slow down" especially since he's more into guys and not yet comfortable with having a girlfriend now [though he has had some in the past and even sex with girls] and to hold off the kissing for a little while...but then about 2 weeks later we ended up really making out again.
Well earlier today, after spending some more good time together [though with others], with the help of his mom, he confessed again that we're just friends because he knows I'm more of a relationship person and he isn't. I tried to seem cool with that but I also tried to imply if he meant just friends just for now or for like ever. He agreed that "later our friendship could possibly turn into a relationship."
So what do you think? Does he really mean that, will it work out, and if so about how long from now?
We've known each other for 3 months now and became really good friends and would talk about a lot of stuff including other guys. Well about a month ago we became more than that by...making out [sober!] Oh and that's a big deal because not only was I starting to fall for him but also that he's mostly into guys so I'm one of the rare girls whom he likes like that. We also discovered and are becoming very compatible with each other...not to mention that I think he's super hot and he casually once mentioned that I'm "hot." But a week later after our first make out session, after more hanging out and kissing, he confessed that he wants us to "slow down" especially since he's more into guys and not yet comfortable with having a girlfriend now [though he has had some in the past and even sex with girls] and to hold off the kissing for a little while...but then about 2 weeks later we ended up really making out again.
Well earlier today, after spending some more good time together [though with others], with the help of his mom, he confessed again that we're just friends because he knows I'm more of a relationship person and he isn't. I tried to seem cool with that but I also tried to imply if he meant just friends just for now or for like ever. He agreed that "later our friendship could possibly turn into a relationship."
So what do you think? Does he really mean that, will it work out, and if so about how long from now?
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wow only one answer so far and an answer that doesn't help me at all...
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okay forget the fact that he's willingly [and has once before] have "sex" with guys - not just girls [whom he has 4 times already] - before...just give me advice based on the rest of the story.
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