My crush is bisexual, what now?

[Anonymous]

so me and my crush are really really good friends and I've fell in love with him so today he told me about him being bisexual and i was like "what..." I'm the only one who knows and i don't know how to feel about this, he told me that he can't have feelings for guys and i asked him if it's only sexual and he said yes and i told him he just might be bi-curious but he denied it and said "no fully bi" and i know that he's still hiding something from me.. I'm so shocked he's a really popular guy, has many friends is surrounded by a bunch of girls everyday i just can't belive it... i love him and i don't know what to do guys! it just feels so wrong and he does not act like a bisexual guy at all! he even said that gay p*rn doesn't turn him on at all and i just don't understand what's wrong at first i thought that he just might be confused but he's already 20, what should i do guys? i don't have anything against bisexuals or homosexuals but i don't know if i ever could date such a guy? are most guys like that? do you have any feelings similar to his?

[Esplorare]

To each is her own, but personally, I think it's an absolutely horrible idea to date a guy who is bisexual for the simple fact that he can up and leave you because you do not biologically possess one of his needs. That's not fair and depending on how emotionally and mentally invested you have been by that point, it can be a huge smack in the face. I think it's smarter to avoid that type of heartache while you're ahead.

Not only that, but this guy sounds like drama. Listen to me girl and STAY AWAY FROM GUYS WHO ARE DRAMA. Once a guy shows you that he is going to consistently test your sense of peace, emotional stability, and happiness: STAY AWAY FROM HIM. EXILE him from ANYTHING ROMANTIC OR SEXUAL. Unless he can prove that he is truly a grand, one of a kind, amazing human being who's pros outweigh his cons, THEN KEEP IT MOVING AND DON'T GIVE HIM A CHANCE.
You're young: enjoy your youth without it being disrupted by someone else's dramatic baggage.

[Anonymous]

It's to him if he says he's bisexual and doesn't appear to act like it. From what you wrote, though, it seems that he's just merely curious. But he's 20 and you haven't reached the legal age to be considered as an adult yet. Please don't become involved with this guy, you don't want the both of you to get in trouble.

[Asker]

what do you mean with "it's to him" ? :) I'll turn 18 in a few weeks and he's in my class

[silverfeline]

well why don't you evaluate hoe deep your feelings go for them if they are shallow then break it off. If you really like him for his personality and everything else then this is another thing to like about him.

[Zendrya]

You don't have to be sexually attracted to guys to be bisexual... why couldn't you date him? He is just a normal guy...

[Asker]

how can someone be bisexual then? I'm just confused and it just feels so weird because he didn't tell me sooner

[Zendrya]

Bisexual mean you are emotionally and/or sexually attracted to both genders. So someone can be sexually attracted to women and emotionally attracted to men and women and still be bisexual technically that is heterosexual biromantic but most people would just say bisexual. But he is your crush not your boyfriend so he was never entitled to tell you

[Asker]

well he said he can't hqve feelings for guys nor is he sexually attracted to guys but he just got these times where he sees a beautiful boy and is like "omg wow" and gets a fuzzy feeling inside and we already kissed he even told me that he loves as well but we still don't know

[Zendrya]

Well then he is bisexual.. You can have a preference so he obviously prefers women. If he says he is bisexual he is bisexual. But you guys aren't official so he didn't owe you anything not to mention he told you anyway.

[Anonymous]

He probably wanted to tell that to someone he trusted. You shouldn't be concerned if you really like him. He already told you he has no feelings for another guy, so he won't cheat. Nowadays, there's plenty of bisexual men, yes. Feminism has turned everyone into a faggot.

[Asker]

your last comment though hahahahahhahahah

[Asker]

thanks for answering 😂

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome, ha ha!

[Afrochick]

I agree with your last statement though LMAO

[neoagent1]

If it doesn't matter to you date him. From all this stuff you said in your question, even though you said it doesn't, it really does seem to bother you. If it does, find someone else. If it doesn't, go out with him some time.

[Alyssa_123466172]

A lot of guys are like this. This says a lot about him, as 90% of guys that are bi will not admit it. This shows that he trusts you. Many girls are into watching a guy blow another guy... He will not treat you worse than any other guy. I would stick with him as he trusts you.

[Anonymous]

If he's bisexual then that shouldn't be an issue at all for you, just make sure that if you start dating that he'll stay exclusive with you, from both guys and girls.

[HereForTheDay]

Wow. Well that would give you a lot to think about.

[Anonymous]

Sad but stop with him unless you can change his mind of being bisexual. But it would be pretty toughf.

[Phancrashheart]

If you mind him being bi you don't deserve him, end of story.