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It seems when the problems is ours, it's that much bigger, however being the 3rd person look at it, it may not be that big of a deal.

I just met my significant other (SO) a year ago, we moved really fast due to our age ( he's 39 and I'm 30), we both feel secured and ready (i. e. mentally, physically, and financially) to finally start a family.

I've always been a very confident, independent, career driven woman and he-likewise. I have been 2 long term relationships in the past, wheras he has been in several short term relationships (lasting about 4 months long).

We both are living together, and expecting our little girl come June 2016. we are both very happy and excited for parenthood.

This is the hard part, he says is he is in love with me, wants to be my future husband, wants to be a great father to my daughter, yet he continues to give his attention to any random ladies at the super market. When I tell him how it makes me feel, how he does not acknowledge me in those ladies' presences, he tells me that I am "just jealous and it's not like [he is] cheating, have any intention of cheating, or sleeping with them."

I trust that he is not cheating or sleeping around, but it's just these little behaviors that really gets to me. I would appreciate it if you have read this far along, please give me some insights in terms of my feelings, if it's wrong/right to feel this way?

So, I've always known I'm bisexual, but something is telling me that perhaps my observations may not be accurate.
In my lifetime I have only dated one person and it is a person that I am still currently dating today. It is a man, and I am devoted to him and we do plan to marry in the future, but don't let that stop your conclusions right there.
You know how typically, in the man and woman relationship, the man tends to look at other women and check them out even when they are still in a relationship, but the woman doesn't? Well this case is different for me, and I feel terrible because of it.
The man I'm with now, and the only person I've ever dated in my lifetime, is the only man or person for that matter that I've ever loved and I truly do love him. We do plan to marry in the future, and I am pretty sure that he is my soulmate as we do connect on numerous different levels.
However, I've had other people on my mind and when I walk the hallways of my school, and I pass by hundreds of people a day, I can't help but notice and steal a glance at some women do I tend to think are attractive.
I've seen and have many witnesses that my boyfriend as a matter of fact does not check other people out, and he's completely devoted to me as much as I am to him, but I feel as if I'm not as devoted as I may say that I am. I am not in love or have had a crush on any man except him. Everyone else was female.
Is it wrong that I am attracted to other woman in my relationship? Of course I've never flirted with any of them, and would never cheat, because I am in love with my boyfriend and future husband, why do I get a sense I'm more homosexual than heterosexual?

Can a lesbian only fall in love with one man?

There are ugly girl and hot guy relationships. There are relationships between a young, pretty woman and ugly, old wealthy guy. So many people argue that it's because the wealth makes up for the bad genes. Do you think that a relationship between a hot, poor guy and a rich, average looking female (who makes millions) is going to last? Do you think the hot guy will remain faithful in that kind of relationship? I have realized that not all hot guys are jerks and I know that personality is important too in a relationship. By the way I have had people tell me I'm pretty and I've had people in middle school tell me I'm ugly. Sometimes when I look in the mirror, my face confuses me. If Donald trump can make millions of dollars and have a model as his wife. Why can't I have the male equivalent when i become millionaire? I don't want to settle for anything less because I don't want my kids to turn out less attractive than me. I mean there are couples where one partner is more attractive than the other and the kids turn out better looking. According to evolutionary psychology, women use the double mating strategy. I don't want to cheat on the uglier husband with a hotter guy because I'm not a slut and cheating isn't right.