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Ok so here’s my situation.

I’m talking to a guy I’ve been talking to for 5 months now. We both agreed we wouldn’t get into a bf/gf relationship because he graduates soon and we’re both not emotionally ready for the commitment of the title. We did agree to only mess with and continue talking to only each other tho. He’s always been a busy guy but lately he’s been more busy and I don’t know if I should be alarmed because it’s finals szn. He used to be obsessed with me and now he won’t hype me up when I look good asf, he takes his phone with him everywhere, he’s been trying to lose weight, and he likes the same girls pics on insta. The thing is, these are all bad signs but the other day he cried to me (cuz of an argument we had where he thought I was messing w other guys because of something I said) telling me he’s never slept with anyone besides me since we’ve started talking so I don’t kno what to believe. Some friends tell me to trust my gut and others tell me he’s genuinely just busy but cares. I don’t even know what to do and I need to kno if I really should be focusing on just him. We don’t have a title but I liked the idea of only giving him my attention. I don’t know whether or not I should trust the situation before I take a step back and talk to other people, so please help.

Should I start doing ab workouts even while I still have belly fat?
Can I also lose it while doing ab workouts?
Should I workout my abs when I have considerable belly fat?
Does the same go for the legs, as in, should I do workouts while I still have a little fat?

I usually do ab workouts when I do my legs as well on Mondays
But not sure if it's useless or not

She has never said anything good about me to me
For example:
- I know I'm overweight but I'm trying to lose it by going gym 3 or 4 days a week
Then she's like to me:
"Why you going gym and lifting weights? You're not going to lose weight like that, you're going to weigh heavier - go do YOGA or SWIMMING"
And
"Spin around, I want to see your body, you still look fat"

Today, I had a church wedding
So I bought a cute dress few days ago for it
And wore it today
Then she said
"Don't eat too much after the wedding, you'll get fatter"

Some people complimented me and my dress
Then today after the wedding:
"You look fat in the dress, you look like that guy's fat wife"
And
"Don't eat rice, don't drink soda"

She constantly tells me Im fat EVERYDAY
I get that I need to lose weight but everytime I wear a singlet OR dress, she always reminds me that I'm fat.

It really hurts
I tried to not cry and ignore it
But today... I lost it
I was crying myself to sleep