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Two months ago my girlfriend admitted to me she was having sex with another guy. She was crying and said she loves me, and it was only because she wanted to experience what another guy was like. The thing is that my girlfriend never uses birth control. We already have a kid together.

When came clean, she also told me she was pregnant. She said it could be mine or the other guy's, she didn't know. I said might stay with her or I might not, I figure everything out with time. She said showed me a picture of the guy she was cheating with because I told her if she was cheating with a Black guy then I was done with her. It was a white guy so I at least have some respect left for her.

I had her go for a paternity test and today it came back that the other guy is the father. So she was crying again and begging me not to breakup with her. Back when my girlfriend came clean, she promised her cheating had already ended because she felt really guilty and it was only for a month. She said she really regrets it, regrets hurting me, and promises she would never do it again. I was her first guy and she was my first girl. I have never been with any girls besides her but now she's been with another guy.

My girl best friend already told me that she is willing to have sex with me and she likes me enough that she also have a kid with me. She said she knows how hurt I am and she will help me get even because she loves me and wants me to feel better. So I could cheat on my girlfriend to get even and have a kid with another girl.

What choice do you think I should make? I really am thinking of staying with my girlfriend, but cheating to get even and having a kid with my girl best friend. I want my girlfriend to know how it feels to be cheated on and be hurt, just like she did to me.