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Don't mean to sound one-sided and I know both genders have disadvantages in life but I think when it comes to time and commitment, we get affected more and have more to lose if not choosing carefully. For instance it's already hard (but not impossible) finding a man that wants to commit. If all we wanted was dating around and easy sex, that's easy but some of us don't want that.

If we do the whole living together as couple (I never done that and will never do it) while never talking about where this is leading or believing it will lead somewhere one day, the man can spend years of our time and then more than likely that relationship won't last. Then he walks away and we have to start all over. Still, those are years we'll never get back and there is a limited time for us to form a family.

Also, if not choosing right or thinking we had the right person and still get pregnant (assuming the woman decided to keep the baby), the guy can bail out if he's a total a jerk.

I ask this because for a start, we have never had sex. Been together nearly a year now and he's 8 years older. So, he's 30 and I'm 22. I'm also still a virgin.

there's great chemistry and sexual attraction between us. When we met, I'm pretty sure he wasn't struck on the idea of kids. He knew I wanted them a lot and eventually, he came round to the idea.

So, when things are getting frisky... he'll sometimes say 'let's make a baby' or 'I want to make a baby'. He also likes to kiss and caress me sometimes telling me about how we will move in together, then get married and then he'll get me pregnant and we'll have a baby.

He's also told me he thinks I'll make a great mum and sometimes, he'll jokingly say things like he's going to 'kick me in the ovaries' etc. He also blatantly asked me the other day if I was 'up the duff' because I said I'd put a good few pounds on.

So, yeah, do you genuinely think he wants to be a dad? I'm broody and all, but I'm not sure I want to get pregnant from my first sexual encounter. What do you think?