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I've known this guy named Drew for almost two years. We actually work together (that's how we met) and he's been a sweetheart to me & there was chemistry between us from the get go. We had to remain friends at the time because we were both in serious relationships. I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago due to many issues. He broke up with his girlfriend 4 months ago for many issues as well. We got closer as friends and our feelings made it to the surface. We really like each other... A LOT but we both don't want relationships right now because we both want a break from the drama relationships can bring and to work on ourselves. I've asked Drew if he has feelings for his ex and he said he does not. The only thing he has is anger towards her because of the crap she put him through. It's the same for me with my ex. He put me through a lot of shit, I was angry at him for a while but now I'm over it.


However, when Drew and I had sex... It was amazing. We held hands during and after. We cuddle afterwards and he doesn't want me to leave. We both have admitted getting attached to eat other. Outside of the bedroom we are basically inseparable. We see each other three times a week (outside of work; he works in a different department so I don't see him anymore at work) we text and call each other every day. We actually go on dates in public with each other. We both know that we like each other. But today... Well first off I have the flu. He actually came by my house and brought me Gatorade, water and soup. I was amazed because no guy has ever done this for me. It was a really sweet gesture and it warmed my heart. It was 10pm and he had to get up early for work tomorrow but he didn't care. He wanted to bring these things to me and didn't want to wait. I live with my dad so he knew sex was not happening and respected that. When he left he gave me a kiss on the forehead because he was worried about catching the flu. So... Does he like me?

I met a guy and very quickly he was trying to see me almost every day. Out of the first 12 days I knew him I saw him 8. One of the nights I didn’t he called and we talked for 2 hours. Things were getting heavy quick. The only physical part being kissing here and there and cuddling. We kind of got into it last Friday because he cancelled plans last minute and asked me to come over instead. The next day we planned to meet up in the evening. That evening he reaches out and we start misunderstanding each other as we both have been drinking. He tells me to come to the bar they are at. I show up and he is acting a hair distant but it felt like because we had disagreed. This girl walks up and chats him up for an uncomfortable amount of time and I end up introducing myself to her and she immediately walks away. He shortly after goes up to the bar where once again this girl latches on to him. I walk up to him and ask who she is. He says a friend you really aren’t doing this right now are you? I was like why is it that every time I walk up she disappears? It was odd. The rest of the evening he spent talking to everyone but me and I left not to long later because I didn’t want to bring down the mood. He told me he was going to come to my place when he left the bar. I never heard from him and woke up at 4am seeing if he was ok. He said he ended up taking one of his friends who passed out at the bar home and was with him. He told me he wished I was with him and so on. The next day he talked to me a little saying how hungover he was and he felt like he should have talked to me more. It has now been 2 days and I haven’t heard from him. We always at least used to touch base with each other. Do I reach out? What do I say?