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I was talking to a guy that I dont think I could marry, but he asked me out on a date and while I do like him a bit our future wouldn't work together ( He doesn't want kids, wants to travel, etc.)

So do you think dating only to marry is good or could you date just to date?

The reason I ask for opinions is because I don’t believe he could ever like me. He is a beautiful 39 year old successful Italian man and I’m just me.

He owns a cafe and I’ve been a regular customer since it opened. We have a very flirty relationship and he does make sexual jokes and comments. He tends to go hot and cold also. He has gotten jealous in the past and he often asks if I have a boyfriend.

Yesterday I saw him and he was saying the man who marries me will be a lucky b*stard. He gave me a hug, pulling me tight against him. He also pulled my head into his shoulder/chest area. He then let me go because he remembered we shouldn’t be touching because of COVID.

Today he showed me some video on his phone. It was just a long video of the water he was swimming in. He was stood so close to me that our arms were touching.

He was telling his colleague not to look at my bum. I said “well I do have a nice bum”. He had a look and said “it’s ok, I’ve seen nicer bums” I think he was joking. He sometimes admits that he’s teasing me.

He then said “I could tell you that you’re the most beautiful girl in the world but you wouldn’t believe me because there is no most beautiful, there’s always someone better” and then said there are people better than him and better than me.

Is there any chance that he could be attracted to me?

This guy and I met yesterday on reddit, he was the one who texted me first.

We talked a bit and he was a bit flirty. I would say 'Stop flirting'. And he would ask 'This is flirting?'

We talked a bit about us, what we study and what we plan for the future job.

He wanted to talk to me on some other social media but I said no.

Today, we talked a bit more and he again insisted to talk on another social media.

So we talked a bit on snapchat and I was telling him about my female best friend, I was praising her.

He started joking around how girls being gay are hot and I should marry my best friend if I like her a lot.

I told him I am not gay, most people are straight and if most people were gay, there would be very few children.

He started saying 'oh naughty girl, now you are talking dirty.'

I said sorry (and he said, why are you saying sorry, it is nice!) and told him that I didn't want him to get attracted to me.

He asked, Why not?
I said we just met yesterday, I don't know you well and I just want a male friend.

He said :
Okay then, I don't need you.
Bye bye.

He has not messaged me after that lol.