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Search Results: does first time hurt
Boyfriend randomly asked if I was going to cheat? Why?
So I recently went to a party. I don’t really go out much but every time I do go to a party by myself my boyfriend always says “no sex” or “no kissing guys”. At first I thought it was a joke, he says it as a joke but...
Anonymous
(30-35) I Don't Know How To Figure Out This Situation With My Mom?
I only lived with my mother for the first month or so of my life. She was 16 when she gave birth to me, and really wasn't in the best position. My father was 20 years older than her, and their relationship wasn't exactly...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I wrong for ignoring the ex I am still in love with?
I saw my ex boyfriend the movie theater. We were so close to one another and he looked at me and smiled. I stared at him for a few seconds, sighed and immediately walked away and waited for my friends. At first he seemed...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is there a way to let go of the past?
I liked this guy and he liked me back but things went really bad mid last year. It's been such a long time, just over 6 months, but I'm still hurting over it. He was the first guy I ever loved (and please don't say I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is being naive a horribly bad thing?
I'll be the first to admit that I'm a little bit naive. I believe what people tell me because I'm a very honest person and I just assume others are the same way. I take things at face value a little too often. Sometimes...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I talk to my boyfriend about how this makes me feel?
Hi, So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months now so it's still a new relationship. When we were first just chatting and going on dates before we were official he did speak and sleep with other...
SalvageBeauty
Xper 5 Age: 29 Why is it hard when they give your stuff back?
So I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months. It was short, but we did go faster than we were supposed to probably. There was not one specific reason, but a bunch of little reasons why I had to end it. She was always very...
leroy21
Xper 4 Age: 28 Love for My Black History Month
In recognition of the approaching USA Black History month, I thought I'd explore my own black history! I'm not black, I'm some kinda cream color. Can you relate this to your own life experiences and prejudices? To me, we...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I don't know how to deal with the fact that he still talks to his ex. If it all comes from my own 'past wounds', how can I overcome my fears?
My background: 2 years in an abusive relationship. I get extremely worried/upset whenever something reminds me of situations that hurt me. E. g. my ex would keep a 'pool of girls to fish from' and use them to destroy my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does she even miss me?
I was friends with a girl for over a year, and lately I asked her out. She said yes, and we went to a few places. We started getting close, got lots of I miss you texts, etc (nothing physical yet though), but it’s clear...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is she a rebound?
My ex and I broke up like 3 months ago. After we broke up we stayed in contact and hooked up one night, he wanted to get back together but I had some issues from my previous relationship that I had to resolve with myself,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was she using me from the start or did she lose interest?
basically i had this date, 7 hours long with another girl and she became the first girl I had ever slept with, she was quite persistent and it did take a lot of reassurance I liked her though and wanted her to be happy....
Anonymous
(25-29) Does anyone have any tips for how to get rid of emetophobia (vomit phobia)?
I have since I was very young been scared of vomiting. And everytime I hear someone mention vomiting I can feel myself starting to feel nauseous. This leads to myself fearing that I am going to throw up. I haven't...
Sainukon
Xper 5 Age: 25 Growing Up British Pakistani
#GrowingUpBritish are memes I see a lot around the internet so I thought to myself "hey why not write about growing up British Pakistani because I'm British Pakistani?" Now, if you're also British Pakistani reading this...
MissPeach35
Xper 5 Age: 23 Is metal music ungodly? Violent? Depressive? Etc? These myths debunked by a headbanger herself!
So, what do you think about metal? You see it as devil music? Stuff with evil black masked messages? Violent stuff? That us headbangers sacrifice a goat in the name of a dark lord? Or that it's a phase? These beliefs tend...
OldSchool_Metalhead
Guru Age: 26 Taking a break but staying best friends?
my boyfriend of over a year, even though we have been “talking” love wise for almost three years, decided he wants to take a break. at the beginning of when we first started talking, i was in a very dark place and i was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Has anyone ever been in this situation before?
Long story short, I work with this guy who from the start gave me a comfortable feeling. He felt like home to me. I'm shy and refuse to open up to anyone that is not in my circle of friends. He was different, friendly...
Anonymous
(36-45) I said nothing, was it my fault?
This is a fictional story Warning: this contains strong situations about abuse I sat on the hospital bed naked in a hospital gown. I was too nervous to be cold and shaking too much to even tell if I was. I sat...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 I’m not sure what to do?
My ex and I have been on/off for the better part of a year since we broke up (together for 2). We are off right now and he is dating someone new. I started no contact when I found out that he was in a relationship because...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I get my boyfriend to understand that something makes me uncomfortable and im not trying to be controlling?
My boyfriend and I have been on again and off again for three years. I would greatly like it to work out becusee I truly do care about him and there is such an obvious solution to what causes 95% of our issues. Whenever...
Anonymous
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