Search Results: good conversation topics

Alright, to start things off my best friend brags a lot without even realizing she is doing it.

This use to bother me back in high school, but now that we're two young women in our early 20's it's become something I don't know how to talk to her about. As of late, whenever we meet up I realize she starts to brag midway into a conversation depending on the topic. Yes she did this when we were younger, but now the off switch on her brag-o-meter seems to be broken.

For example, we'll be talking about the time we played softball for our high school team and it'll go from fun memories to. "You know, the coach thought I was the best player on the team. It's so true, I came to play on the team mid-season an I did so good that the coach didn't even give me a try out. She put me on the team right away because I was the best." She'll tell this story to anyone and I've only come close to telling her the truth once. (Because a mutual friend asked how I did on the team and before I could answer she said I was ok. -_-) The truth being no one tried out for the team. Everyone was put on immediately because we didn't have many players. Also, the best player on our team was our pitcher who received a full scholarship to college.

Also, when a guy shows interest in her even if it's a little bit she'll go on an on about it. I mean, girls talk about the guys they find attractive. Yet, she makes it sound as though she is the cream of the crop and no one else can compare. Though, it's especially bad if the guy says he doesn't go for her type often. It'll be game over, she'll immediately puff out her chest in pride/triumph and be like. See ladies? I made him want to tap this without even trying. (Yet, she is already married.)

A few of our friends have even asked me if she's always like that. I tell them it's not as bad as it looks or sounds, but in actuality it is. So how do I talk to her about it without completely offending her?

Okay! Here it goes. So I'm crushing this guy at work. He is so funny and nice. A month ago we got paired together. This means we are in a car four hours every day. He noticed that I was smiled a lot. I'm a happy person and smile more than most do. Anyway. That had my heart A flutter. We talk a lot about so many things on our rides together. Says "I've never had such an amazing conversation before hitting so many topics" and "this was so much fun he said." Two weeks ago we had a company party and I probably won't make it due to all his final exams he had to do to catch up on. Well the list say he showed up at the party two hours late, and I notice he is shy so took him a while to work himself over to me to talk to me. Touching my waist and saying how amazing it is having me on the team. My sister her company to the party said he looked like he was very Impressed with me. He hugged me four times before I left. I know he's a shy guy and bit odd but I'm not sure if he's into me. Then the following day after the party. I had asked him who was the girl that he brought with him how long have you known her. He said "I know for two years but she's not my girlfriend."

Ding ding ding! I think you might be into me. It's weird and dont really know how to act I think because I do like him I don't know To get my brain to function the right way. Maybe my problem is I Seem to always want to impress him. I need help. Sorry anyone who loves good grammar. Writing is not my strong suit.