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I think that men knowing that they have to pay on every single date is a more common thing than wanting to pay on every single date. It makes it feel like a job or chore when one has to do something like going to work a job, one might not want to go to that job , but they have to or they'll be homeless kinda like how a guy has to pay on every single date or its extremely likely that he won't date, its almost like a threat, threatened to pay or else , threatened to approach and ask out or else. Can one be truly happy if they feel like they have to do something? Is having to pay for every single date freedom? One would think that having choices is freedom, but that's not the case in dating. Maybe faking like they want to pay for every single date is a solution?