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This may be a generalization and i am talking about my anecdotal experiences. So what I have seen is that gamers like my sister are playing games like the whole day. So i would not want a patner who spent unneceassary time or more than one hour on a game because he should spent this time on its kids or on me rather than on a game for hours. I personally think that gamers have an unhealthy addiction to games. If my sister did not play any game, she would not repeat a grade three times for example. I really dont understand why someone spent years on games for nothing and noone can convince me that this is healthy or normal. If you have spent this amount of time on an actual sport, you would be professional and could be even a teacher of this specific sport. I am not against gaming as long as it is not exagerated.

I used my one year salary to buy books and enroll for courses (which I am slow at doing because of job , due to covid I'm home doing household work like cooking as mom is ill ) and materialistic stuff which was temporary happiness and had lots of fun too like I went for trips. I feel a bit low that I used up all my one year salary. I have savings of second year salary of which I made fixed deposits of it all. I am 23 now working in a bank since 2 years. Is it a good thing to having spent a year of salary? I am telling myself to strictly save from now on. I don't want to do masters from abroad because it's expensive and not even from my home country because it's expensive too. I'm happy doing small small certifications online in this lockdown to upgrade my knowledge. I feel like to do executive MBA which is cheap after I turn 25 and have certain relevant work experience and little money. I feel low seeing other people directly going abroad to study and spending so much after education. Is it ok if I'm not so ambitious because I feel like I'm happy with my job and want to live with my family and do job in same company and in the same country? Am I going on the correct track?

Witnessing the transition covid 19 pandemic, as far as all of the day to day adjustments regarding close and distant contact with Friends family S O and strangers; I feel like I get a small glimpse into How it would feel too love love and have sex ore A I D S and after. (We can include With A I D S syphilis Ghonorrea Chlamydia Herpes simplex and many other std goodies, but A I D S was most prevalent as national concern )

Sex, once being something people entered into into a lot more freely - with concerns but disease maybe not Being high on the list. Suddenly became something rather disconcerting: Should we , shouldn’t we, Wait period, can I trust you physiologically etc. Completely different world and approach to everyone in it in one lifetime. I don’t think everyone Experiences enormous shifts like that. War is smother of course. As well as liberation movements. For a while people were wirrued about touching anything and anyone near them bc there was so Much mystery surrounding everything. Eventually the myths were gradually struck down, people calmed down and Releasing their vigilant mental grip against A I D S now having a better idea what they were dealing with. You can’t get it from spot or washing hands it touching un lacerated skin. Etc

Well we are in a similar situation - romantically- with covid 19 though its more Challenging in ways bc we have to deal with air droplets skin context and saliva exchange. ~~~ Forget about sex!!~~try making out without any of those ingredients 😎

Now maybe for very young people IF they grow up having to test blood before scoring first base, it will seem normal. But for people who grew up walking into a bar and leaving With a hook up, kissing a date a sweet good night as an indication you are happy with the way things are progressing and would like to continue getting acquainted—This huge potential shift in what “ cautious” means will be very disorienting
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