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I am contemplating writing a series of myTakes about how guys can overcome shyness and become more assertive with girls. I am motivated to do this for a few reasons:

1. I have a sense that there are MANY guys on this site who are shy and who would like to overcome that.

2. When I was a young man, I was shy AND in college, I was two years younger than my classmates. That made the problem even worse.

3. However, I overcame my shyness. Most women who meet me now would never guess that I had been shy as a young man.

4. If I can help a few young guys to become more assertive, I will feel that I have made a positive contribution to this site.

Overcoming shyness is not easy and it is not going to happen overnight. It is something like losing weight; there are no guarantees but constant and persistent effort over time might eventually solve the problem.

If there is interest in reading weekly installments, I’ll begin in the next two weeks and I think I’ll call my class Shy Guy 101. Are you interested enough to participate? Ladies, is this something that these guys need?

If a goal is won via evil standards like lying or concealing things, do you deem it as meeting your goal even if not done the righteous way?

If a goal is won via illegal standards like in a karate match by hitting below the belt when referee isn't looking, do you count it as meeting the goal or do goals need to be done by the moral path?

If goals are met via illegal, evil/immoral means/standards, should we consider them legit?

Imagine losing weight and building mass but using steroids to meet goal expectations, should we credit them for their accomplishments? Why or why not?