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Sometimes when guys approach me at a party they start off very confident but quickly it gets awkward. Because i tend to have a quiet voice and am clearly not confident. Its almost like they look at me with pity -_-

Im 18 but I dont have a lot of experience with boys. I've had 2 boyfriends but we have never done anything and I can't flirt for shiz.

I do almost always become friends with these guys after a while but they more of treat me like a little sister more than a women.

I wouldn't say this has anything to do with my looks or body bc im average like a 6 or 7 /10

So my questions are: Do guys dislike shy girls? How can I seem more confident?

I’m shy I’m general, but when I have a boyfriend, I love knowing that I can talk to him about almost everything. Talking is big for me in a relationship, it helps me strengthen my bond with a person and it makes me feel loved when I know we can communicate well about everything and anything. Big or small.

My biggest issue is that my boyfriend is so quiet, he rarely asks many questions, and having a conversation unless it’s of interest to him can feel like I’m hitting my head off a wall. It just doesn’t flow, and it can take a lot of energy just trying to nudge the conversation along.

I constantly try to make things a two-way conversation, but it ends up with me practically conversing with myself while he looks and listens. It’s such a biggie for me, and just wondered what you guys are like in your relationships?

Just curious.
I'm NOT in a relationship with any controlling person, but it's so common these days.

I find that men who im not even dating
(& who i don't like!),
try to control me & chase off guys I'm ACTUALLY interested in!

~ What happens if these types of men,
end up in a relationship with a woman who's even more controlling & psycho than they are?

~ Would they give eachother a hard time? 😂

~ or would the guy get anxious and just
'suck it up' and go quiet?
(They seem like pussies)

I honestly have no clue what makes me a man repellent. When I even used to work with kids, the little/teen boys were always so rude towards me. It’s always been this way. I’ve lost 80+ lbs. Try to maintain healthy looking skin and hair. Dress casual but stylish. And with these modifications, I’m still invisible to men, however I’m complimented. People tend to believe I am single by choice/out of pickiness, however, that isn’t the case. If it were, I wouldn’t be posting this. I cannot find a date or a boyfriend to save my life. I don’t think I act desperate for attention, I have an active dating app and that’s it. I don’t generally send messages first or push guys to like me. I’m very quiet and even with my weight loss, I don’t notice a change in the attention I’ve received. I’ve seen girls, from average to beautiful, that have guys flock to them. I wish I was a girl with options but that isn’t the case. If I am around a cute guy that I met through a person, they either don’t notice or are kind of standoff-ish towards me. What gives?