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Had an FB for the semester. He was nice and cool (plus he had a brit accent). I didn't want anything serious, so I told him he could do whatever.
Seemed he didn't get it.
Said he only wanted to sleep with me and that he liked me and hinted at a relationship.
I, on the other hand, began seeking another guy (but was open with my FB) and me and my FB didn't have sex for 2 months.
In that time, he continuously said he wanted to keep sleeping together. He began confusing my feelings because he would act as if he really liked me, but would only hit me up in the middle of the night (when we did have sex he would sleep on the couch after).
Things ended with guy #2, so i slept with my FB despite telling him to leave me alone a week before.
We even talked and joked after in my car, and so i started liking him.
Few days later I texted him to see if he wanted to hook up, and he never replied.
I later figured he left to go back to the UK after finals, but I also know the text went through.
My question is, what the hell happened? If I got played, why?

I am having no luck in dating what so ever. I don’t generally date in person because I don’t go out often/have many friends/don’t get approached often in person. I’ve tried match. com twice and the two guys I met on there were not my type or either turned me off. And I’ve been on a few free sites like POF and OKC, but I can’t seem to find a boyfriend. I get a decent amount of messages but I’m either not interested or the guy ends up saying something to piss me off/ghosts me. I’m told I’m attractive but I can’t seem to find a boyfriend to save my life. Is online just a bad idea? I’ve seen it work for others 😞

Is there such a thing anymore as guys who are seeking long term relationships, rather than just hook-ups? Despite the point blank obvious of saying so, how can you tell when a guy is looking or interested in something more serious?
Or is there more to it girls don't understand?