Men: Have you ever wondered why women have gotten very defensive when you’re just being yourself? Isn’t it irritating when girls feel as if you’re just playing a role to get in her pants?
”I won’t have sex with you, okay?”
”But I wasn’t looking for sex... I want to get to know you.”
”Sure you do!”
This is all caused by the other two categories of men: The Pervs and The Warners.
The Pervs
This group of guys are the ones who are actively switching roles and masks in order to get into a girl’s pants.
The motive for him to act this way is to try and make himself feel better about getting women (not seeking to get with one woman in particular). He looks for those who are naive enough to trust him, and not smart enough to trust their own female instincts. He doesn’t care about himself or others, hence his risky and reckless behavior.
The Warners
This group of guys is called “The Warners” for a very simple reason: They warn women about the good men AND the pervs, without actually analyzing the situation. They mix the good men and pervs and place them in one single category, without even thinking about it.
Why do “Warners” tend to do this? Maybe because they’ve bought the falsely-based claim that men are only in it for the sex; that men are wild animals that can’t think like a decent human being. This, in turn, makes women basically avoid the types of men who seem “too good to be true.” Or maybe because they simply want the woman to believe it.
As women, we tend to ask our male friends or male users in sites like G@G, about the behavior that men exhibit. “You’re a guy, so you could probably give me some insight on his behavior.” But when Warners always spew out comments like these, it makes women not be around men. They start to reserve themselves from men, and are too careful with them.
Pervs and Warners: Don’t do this, because you’re ruining the chances of genuinely good men out there! That’s why women are so confused by men, since one man says “he’s a perv” but the other says “he’s just trying to get into your pants!” Without a second thought.
Example:
Girl: I like this guy, and we’ve been fiends for so long. He’s starting to flirt with me and he’s never done this. What do I do?
Warner: HE JUST WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. THAT’S WHAT WE MEN DO, hehehehe.
The warner only wants to talk negatively about his own gender without realizing it.
As a final note, I’d like to thank the good men who value a woman for being a person, instead of valuing a woman’s body parts over her humanity. You guys rock! Keep being you!
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