Guys, Stop Ruining Your Chances with Women With Your Mindset

[MoniqueTLC]

Too many men have adopted a negative mindset when it comes to meeting and attracting women. It’s self-deprecating, damaging and sabotaging.

(I will never meet a woman, I will never have a long-lasting relationship, I am not good, attractive or tall enough).

The more you repeat this to yourself the more it’s going to get ingrained into your subconscious and become your belief system.

Once this happens your brain will automatically protect you from rejection.

Negative Thoughts – Subconscious – Behaviours that will repel women as a defence mechanism

So, to change your habits, behaviours and thoughts you need to change the negative way you think and view yourself. Be aware of how you think when you’re out. If you focus on improving yourself, how will you not see results?

It’s like consistently going to the gym and not seeing any changes in your body. Yes, it may take time, and be a long-term change, but it’s inevitable that it will happen.

[ManOnFire]

In some sense I absolutely agree. Plus I get tired of hearing guys always talking about "the top 10%" of men who always get women and are having all the sex. All that toxic RedPill and MGTOW talk is literally killing a lot of men.

But, you're still missing something else: women are also breaking men down and destroying the belief in finding a girl. How? Well, women today actually do want it to be difficult for a guy to get a girl, while the women love thinking it's easy for them to get a guy. One area is in many women's talk of having "high standards," which is supposed to make men feel like they need high flying credentials, lifestyles, etc. in order to bag a woman, and they want men to believe that women actually live by these high standards but really don't. They are just used by women as a way to try to control dating dynamics.

This is also next to "icks," something Coach Courtney Ryan covered in one of her videos, which are basically tantamount to "high standards" where women have ridiculous long lists of things that would be turn offs/"icks" for them. Again, which is meant to manipulate men into believing that being juuuuuuust right for a woman is a difficult feat.

Another problem, which I've talked about on this site, is that women enjoy that men are upset about not being able to have sex "like women can." On the one hand women are whining about sexually frustrated guys, "incels," and violence carried about by men who identify as incels, but still want men to envy them about sexual attraction and being able to have sex. And this is what is causing a lot of the frustration with men. Women want the entire playing field to be in their favor, as a power dynamic, and they do want it to bother men if they're struggling to get a date, get laid, have a girlfriend, etc., and women do want to be seen as the gender that is more attractive, more sexually powerful, and more able to get the opposite sex.

So part of your message is true, but there's also the other part that isn't being looked at. I feel like many women want to keep blaming all men's problems on just men themselves, so that they don't have to recognize that there are errors from women that contribute to these problems also.

[KlinkyCoder]

Actively wanting somebody else to be frustrated and envious sounds like a kind of psychopathy.

[ManOnFire]

@KlinkyCoder Then I guess they should think about that.

[TDDMS]

Yeah I agree. The MGTOW and Redpill ideologies are extremely toxic. But with every ideology, it's based on something real. But unfortunately, they, like every other ideology, veer off into the weeds creating bizarre ideas and mythologies. The reality is that there are quite the number of toxic and dysfunctional women. And the per capita seems to increase as time goes on.

[ManOnFire]

@MoniqueTLC Thanks.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManOnFire You have some great takes I really enjoy reading them.
1. I'm a believer in the theory that few men get all the women my number is 20% get about 90% and I count myself in the 20%
2. I agree w/ you theory about women wanting it to be difficult for men to get women GAG has validated that. Anytime men make comments talking about having success w/ women watch the backlash any statement will be responded w/ a nrgative comment. If we can agree that this is a common trait in women the question becomes why. Thanks 2 GAG I think I know the answer.

[Vegasrunner]

A sports apology is easiest for me. When I have the better team, I spend my time working the refs. Women have a built in advantage in dating. (Men pursue women) so they spend their time on the dating rules convincing men that every women is special makes men feel more obligated to tolerate a woman's needs w/out asking for equal value in return 2 biggest things women complain about being honest w/ them and being cheated on. Think about it logically if most guys were honest w/ women, they would lose out but it would save women's time. If most guys were faithful 2 women, they know if a breakup comes they can replace men quicker than vice-versa so they're trying 2 keep odds stacked in their favor. The advantages that men have, ability 2 date younger girls ability 2 have sex w/ multiple partners are shamed by women because it allows them to keep their leverage. Ironically one of the reasons I believe 20% of the guys get women is because the only way 2 know if these r correct is 2 learn from experience. Once you do you simply apply them repeatedly. Thats why women complain that men r jerks because the same 20% are recycling the same tricks back on the 90% of women. I have a side chick rn who shared a formula w/ me. Women are needy, because they are needy they are insecure because they are insecure we dont tell them the truth because we think differently n they can't handle that so we lie to them so much that they believe the lie is reality.

[ManOnFire]

@Vegasrunner This is interesting. I would say a lot of it is true, yeah. Especially about honest men losing out.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManOnFire It's such a facinating circular catch 22. Society does value honesty, however men that attempt to apply that with women, don't ever keep enough women to learn that that does not work. Those same men, are the ones that complain about not getting women, then they go to women for advice who tell them to be honest, and the cycle repeates all over again.

[ManOnFire]

@Vegasrunner I think it's because so many men have been taught to be honest "gentlemen" in a world now that is full of dishonest women. So they think they're winning by showing that to a woman, but like you said, it doesn't work. Because these women don’t have good morals and think that a moral man is weak and unattractive.

[DaveJord]

Totally went where I was going to go with this @ManOnFire. I love how women tend to think men live in a vacuum. Like our negative outlooks came with us straight out of the whom. These beliefs or self doubting, are not a direct result of how we are treated by women.

I also noted how @MoniqueTLC seemed a little self righteous. I mean she's 100% correct in what she says, but don't pretend that women aren't full of insecurities... and they don't project those insecurities on men. So her message to men here, is also great advice to women.

Because female insecurities are ever bite as self defeating as men self doubting.

[ManOnFire]

@DaveJord Right. Projecting their insecurities on men is a big one.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManOnFire I agree, the thing that I can't understand is why do they continue to do this when the results haven't worked for them? I understand women's POV, if I was a women, I would spend my time shaming men into thinking I was special becuase it's a benifit for me. However if you look on here, the majority of the men complaining about not getting women, seem to talk about how well they treat them. It seems like the obvious answer would be to stop placing them on a pedestal. My theory is that because those guys don't have access to a lot of women, they're more suceptible to falling for what women tell them.

[ManOnFire]

@Vegasrunner That makes a lot of sense, yeah. You're right that a lot of guys don't learn the first time with the first slimy woman who played the game on them. But then, I can remember when I was young how I kept being the "nice guy" to more than one woman, until enough experience taught me that this is not the answer, and all it does is benefit them in the end because you're being a simp for them.

At least I learned though. I see men all the time who are my age and still simp for women, and it's so sad cuz I literally wonder when they're going to realize not only just how pathetic they look but that these chicks are using them.

[Vegasrunner]

@DaveJord in my opinion most females are extremely insecure and it's their insecurity that set the tone for the dating market. GAG does a great job of providing data for validating that theory. Notice whenever women discuss being single it's always "by choice" Whenever a guy breaks up with a women he's a jerk, when a women breaks up with a man he wasn't good enough. If more guys simply accepted these facts they would have more success w/ women, ironically because they don't it conentrates the leverage to the top 20% of men who have enough exprience with women to recognize these traits.

[Vegasrunner]

@ManOnFire It's because they lack volume. I was fortunate enough to be a HS and College athlete so I always had my pick of women, but it was my work as a Vegas Nightclub promoter in my late 20's and early 30's that validated my belliefs. in my opinion if every man worked in that industry for 1 year it would instantly change gender relationships. I had the authority to allow or deny access to any women I wanted, and I reached bonus based on how many total hot girls got into the club, because of this no one woman had any more value to me, which meant they would all go out of their way to try to validate their value. I also spent a lot of time being a fly on the wall with groups of girls while they were getting ready or waiting for entry which is how I found out how much women live in delusion. I saw women perform a lot of sexual acts just to get into a club 15 minutes early and then take a call from their boyfriend's acting like nothing happen. I saw women crying their eyes out, because we could allow their two hot friends in, but they had to wait in GA. Most importantly I got a chance to have honest conversations with groups of women after they had 2 or 3 drinks in them, and their filters were down and they would always eventually admit to the tactics females use.

[ManOnFire]

@Vegasrunner Wow, what an incredible learning experience. Gotta say I would've loved to have that when I was younger.

[Guy13]

The problem with men like you are targeting is that they are enjoying themselves and blaming others for their position. Heal Thyself is therapeutic Step 1. They have no desire to get off the dating couch and make the effort required for Modern dating. I imagine most of their professional career is not going well either.

In my view, the last thing they need is to be babied like they don’t know what the problem is. That’s giving them the attention they are seeking and exacerbating the problem…

[OlderAndWiser]

Our current culture encourages young people to find someone else to blame for whatever doesn't work in their life, because that creates a feeling of helplessness that makes people more easily manipulated. Jut look at how these guys are being led by the vocal red pill/MGTOW/"alpha" pussies.

Frankly, IDGAF because every guy who is so weak that he takes himself out of the competition just makes it easier for every other guy who has even a modicum of self-confidence. Maybe this is just social Darwinism at work, and if so, perhaps we shouldn't interfere!

[BlueScorpio]

Yes it's a self full filling prophecy. If you keep saying you will fail, them you will indeed fail cause you already spoke it over yourself. That leads to low self esteem, no motivation to even try.

[coachTanthony]

Well you have plenty of men in the comments who prove you right. Congrats. The whining and complaining will never go away but appreciate you trying to help.

[Shtarnath]

Coming out of an age of toxic and stifling relationship standards, all we've managed to do is create new ones. Guys and Girls think of the other like some alien species. Both sides seem to think that the other is a minefield of treacherous, hypergamous fascists that turn down anyone who isn't some kind of übermensch. So to navigate through this maze of sociopathic Tinder users, you need to be just as cold-blooded, two-faced and back-stabbing... all the 'Red Pill' and Dating Coach bullshit. Truth is that if men and women humanised each other more, this site (and probably a lot of its user base) would be obsolete. On the one hand, we have the 'girl bosses' and self-proclaimed 'modern women' who advertise sex without consequences with whoever as part of their 'liberation'. On the other hand, MGTOW's and PUA's fetishise treating women like property and 'getting' as many girls as possible, ideally at once. Both bemoan the other's 'unrealistic standards' while preaching that anyone who can't live up to their own bar is automatically worthless, Incel, LDAR material. Their advice might help if you're a playboy/girl born into the lucky few, or if you have just enough moral dissonance to ignore the obvious harm you are doing to another person. For the 99% of people who aren't some kind of Nietschean übermensch, however, that philosophy is not only obsolete but harmful. It's essentially a game: you 'win' by having as many short-term, unrewarding relationships as possible, and you 'lose' if you're still a virgin at 25 (oh the horror!). We're turning ourselves into the loneliest, most toxic society on earth. What we need isn't more pick-up tutorials or dating apps. We need to re-learn empathy. If you're a guy like me and you got stuck in the cycle of thinking you're worthless for not being tall or handsome or buff enough, I'd say this: self-improvement shouldn't be aimed at appeasing an artificial standard. At the end of the day, the type of girls that you'd actually want to be with fundamentally want a kind, empathetic man who respects himself but can be vulnerable, not a 'strong', superficially attractive guy who is caught up in his insecurities. For Girls I'd say essentially the same: us dudes aren't gunning for a Supermodel tradwife or a quick hookup 99% of the time. We really just want someone who is loyal, open and loving. So let's get rid of the walls in our minds and stop pretending like the other sex is somehow beyond us.

[MCheetah]

I appreciate your naïve optimism, but... Nah!

Not to offend you, but only a woman (or a Chad) could write this. Try being an unattractive or short non-rich heterosexual man for a day, let alone several years, and see how much that optimism holds up. Men didn't lose hope and start going MGTOW, or Red Pill, or even incels, overnight.

Do women ever have to do anything to "change" though? No, of course not! They're women! I do get what you're saying. But mindset and attitude is largely irrelevant with women. If it wasn't, they'd never date "toxic or abusive" men so often, and every good man would have a decent woman, regardless of his looks. And that ain't reality, or close to it.

[JulianGronkowski]

You’re god damn right.

[Weapon77]

While I do agree with this, it doesn't address why men have these negative mindsets. They come from somewhere, and addressing the source is a vital prerequisite to your great advice. Some men, like me, had some bad things happen like early balding followed by years of rejection, so can you blame them for getting down on themselves? Men are highly inclined to look for logical reasons and solutions to our problems, so if we can't find any we invent them, and if we can't actually fix the problem (like with baldness), we tend to spiral. Perhaps add some advice to address those issues as well because once those are dealt with, the advice you gave will be easier for men to follow and woll work wonders.

Like me, for instance, I've never been able to magically start thinking of myself positively and stop thinking negatively because it is an undeniable fact that I balded at 19 and got rejected by tons of girls because of it. So first I've had to work on just not dwelling on that. For me, it's accepting I'm not all that attractive to most girls and will just have to make up for it by working on my personality. And maybe I'll just have to pay someone to have my children or something I don't know.

[Asad1ONE1]

And yet, many times I hear from girls that "looks don't matter"! "Guys care only about looks, sex, etc"!

Hypocrites.

[Ladybugharp]

I am tired of seeing copious amounts of toxic feminist content plastered over the internet. I think men are treated disgracefully. They have unreasonable and contradicting expectations placed upon them.

No wonder the suicide rates are higher.

Some century in the future, there will probably be no western society. Instead, men will flee to find other women in other parts of the world that can provide them with genuine respect, love and ample support for their aspirations. Allowing men to embrace their masculine energy and ladies their feminine.

[SwellStroke]

The lack of accountability for any that contribute to and promote this kind of behavior and thinking while also teaching it to others is rather concerning and in a way sad.

I have yet to see an actual answer to the topic, rather blaming others that are not ourselves. Why is that? Societal influences? Secret Agendas from shady groups? Who knows, but the inaction and complacency to allow it to continue is just as counter productive, maybe worse overall.

As to the topic, its natural for oneself to have thoughts that can be of a negative nature. Too many factors that can bring them about. Being sick, unfortunate events taking place over a small frame of time. For a couple examples. Choosing as to listen to or understand its a thought to and that you are an amazing individual that may or may not found the purpose of being here. Not only to learn as much as we are able while being here, *personal hopes of at least one new things learned each day* while also bringing about changes for the betterment of oneself, but for those around us, and those whom yet to be a part of the overall bigger picture we find ourselves weaving through together wither we know it or not.

Now remember, DONT PANIC, and always know where your towel is. Now go bring about some positive things around you and yours and to those fellow American members, Happy Thanksgiving may it find you all well today. Everyone else out there, I freaking love ya all, regardless where you are from, what language you speak, etc. have an amazing day!

Now the question I ask for you all. What are some solutions to help not only start a path in an effort of changing this mentality of blame *Insert scapegoat here* "I did nothing to contribute to the negativity" affording a healthier and overall better place for us and the future generations to thrive within.

[MoniqueTLC]

Yip, which is why, on a sub-conscious level men adopt these negative views about themselves, and question their worthiness when it comes to feeling adequate enough to even just talk to a woman.

[SwellStroke]

Its not just men, ever person has a times where they have done such a thing, though most it is likely a flash in the pan moment. But to think its just the men is short sighted and a naïve approach to the topic. *Not directed but generalized*

Again, what would be your suggestions as to solutions to bring about changing the cycle to hopefully result in it not being as influential or to a greater hope non existence in the future?

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes, so leave us alone.

Thank you

[Jimrat86]

I think we are seeing some backlash in the form of youtubers who are also sick of it. It's about time. Why does the pendulum always seem to swing only one way towards the absolute extreme, instead of just chilling somewhere in the middle?

[Moose304]

About a week or so ago I was sent a link to a TIC TOK video where the rather attractive girl was saying basically the same thing that is covered here. Over the last 10 or so years, I have noticed a trend developing on social media. While there are some exceptions generally speaking why is it that it is mostly females making these kinds of videos/comments? They do them at least 100/1 over a male doing it. When you can answer this question you might get a glimpse into the insanity that is social media and how frickin destructive it has become. I am also including all the dang dating sites too!

[Asad1ONE1]

Exactly. Men and women are different because of different life experiences.

Men have experiences at the hands of women that women do not have at the hands of men.

And vice versa.

Everyone has their problems. But it is too obvious that men have it worse. All ultimately because of men themselves.

[hahahmm]

@Asad1ONE1 Life experiences are different but that's not the only reason. We are different because of biological differences. I don't just mean the appearance of sex organs/traits. The actual brain chemistry is totally different as is muscle density. Researchers went to the jungle and threw human toys on the ground in front of some young monkeys. The male monkeys picked the toy cars to play with & the female monkeys chose the dolls to cuddle and nurse. They had zero humans social programming.

Things are changing tho because so many boys have been raised by single moms (or weak dads) and programmed to act feminine.

[Asad1ONE1]

No. Almost everything is "nurture". Everyone is different because of different life experiences and the thought pattern and insecurities (or lack thereof) that emerge as a result.

Body chemistry is not mostly gender specific. And we are not talking about anatomy here.

[Asad1ONE1]

Wtf monkey experiment? Maybe that's nurture too lol.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I think this gets applied not only in girls' case. But literally in everything in life. As @Andres77 said, confidence goes a long way.

As he said in one opinion, be master of one thing. You get confidence in other things too. Master of all is master of none. Hence focus on a particular thing. You get the confidence.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I'm still implementing what he said. But work in progress.

[MoniqueTLC]

I like this a lot!

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes this goes both ways. But differently depending on what we're talking about. Height and other gender specific insecurities are mostly male. Maybe even entirely male lol.

We all know the narratives and how they affect people. I don't know how she can just write something and not show any empathy or care.

And every woman is different and may not respond negatively to make insecurities. She actually thinks she speaks for all women. She doesn't even speak for most lol.

[Asad1ONE1]

... or maybe she's never gotten attention from cute guys and feels the need to mock and patronize.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@Asad1ONE1 Don't go on the personal level. Criticize the MyTake all you want. Never go on the personal level.
And she is speaking for general population. Hence, it seems correct to me.
Why do things that deal with people need to be mathematically accurate? It does not work like that.
Anything can happen. That is basically why doctors call their clinics or hospitals as 'practice' rather than something an engineer would do.

[MoniqueTLC]

@Asad1ONE1 I could delve much deeper into this if I wanted to, and bring up great exercises that everybody could do that could help them become aware of their thought processes and how it affects them, but that's not something I'm going to assume.

Everyone is on their own journey, and been through their own individual life experiences. This take was merely just a surface level brush onto only a fraction of the things that affect us.

And no, I wasn't speaking for 'all women' this was a 'mytake'. Your feedback is appreciated though!

[MoniqueTLC]

@The_Shadow_Dwelller You are correct, and thank you

[Asad1ONE1]

You sound entitled in writing this post. Hey seriously though. The existence of this Take is still not making sense to me lol. Confused 🤔 I've lost count of how many complaints I've heard from women both younger and older than you...

"Why don't men approach me?"

"Why have men stopped approaching women?"

"Why don't guys my age approach me?"

"Why don't cute guys show me interest?"

... and numerous other annoying Qs.

How about you leave us alone and instead let a guy write a Take similar to this instead directed at women. Because that will actually make sense sister 😉.

Tough love ya know 💕. I love you guys though. Can't spoil ya though because you'll never learn otherwise.

[GreenLanternI0I]

I understand what you are trying to say here, but when you have been through a brutal dating meat grinder, many, Many, MANY times, your perspective on modern girls and yourself will change dramatically. And this Never Give Up thing does Great! wonders when it comes down to achieving your goals, such getting a High paying job, buying an expensive car, getting Awesome place to live in, because those things are physically unable to judge your looks, hurt your feelings both mentally and emotionally. BUT, when it comes down to finding a living and breathing human women (I know it sounds weird, but I think you are getting my point here). This Never Give Up garbage and just Keep Trying and Keep Grinding, Does Not Work.

[MoniqueTLC]

I understand where you're coming from, and what you're saying. Women are brutal in dating, I do not deny that for one second!

[Valso]

Ah, but ofc it's always the guy's fault, never the woman's! Even she keeps telling you from day 1 in kindergarden till the last day in the university that you're ugly and no woman will ever want you. Nope, even then it's not her fault for that way of male thinking.

It's not her fault either when she the guy's heart in order to chase another one who parades around with daddy's money and daddy's limo.

You women treat us men like garbage our whole lives and then you have the nerve to say "your self-esteem is too low, do better"! The hubris of this...

[RedPassion95]

Cry harder baby dick

[Vegasrunner]

Kind of a hypocritical statement no? When men express having success w/ women they are usually called liars are told that they are misogynistic. I'm fact the way gender relationships are set up the only input that people accept from men is when they bitch and moan about not getting women. I have personally have sex w/ over 250 women and routinely provide positive advice to about how to get what they want from the opposite sex, howver that advice is routinely attacked and discredited mainly because most people are not comfortable hearing the truth from men. However when some guy post how he would love to find 1 women, the fake sympathy starts. This is why I believe no successful man takes relationship advice from women.

[Kori1236]

I actually agree with this. You’re right about the subconscious thing; it will manifest if you have a negative attitude about it. But women do that too, the all men are bad; why date he’ll just cheat mentality. Change your mentality and outlook and maybe you’ll find someone to be with

[Anonymous]

Personally, I am slowly trying to work on gaining an overall positive mindset. I had abuse growing up. There was a lot of negativity growing up as a part of that. I don't know about "The Secret" or "manifesting yourself" etc... I'm skeptical of that past a certain point... skeptical of the life coach obsession... but there is something to trying to have a positive (possibly realistic?) mindset. To paraphrase Bill Burr - "What's wrong with thinking positive and then when crap happens, you deal with it when it comes, but why NOT think that your life will turn out for the best overall? What's wrong with that?"

It's hard to train myself to be positive. It feels fake being positive, but maybe that's because it's so new.

[FilmGuy93]

There are definitely a lot of guys who think that way. But you might be surprised by how many guys think that women are the bigger problem.

So it’s not just “I’m not worthy,” it’s “I’m not worthy and she’s not worth the effort.”

This dating world is in a sad state of affairs

[YourFavoriteFriend]

In their defense, most women do not deserve the effort if I'm honest.

[FilmGuy93]

@YourFavoriteFriend unfortunately, I would have to agree with that.

[Moose304]

I'm forced to agree. I hear it put this way. "Sometimes the Juice just is not worth the squeeze".

[Asad1ONE1]

Life has it's gifts.

But life is short for a reason.

[chicosuave]

no offense but women are never happy of anything. its a never ending battle. no matter the advice you give to men it will never work. there is no formula to attracting women. just let men die alone and thats it. let men cry and complain and it doesn't matter. the reason why women give advice to men is because they want men to become of something they are not. Most men are done trying.

[Kiran_Yagami]

Men ruin their chances with women by prioritizing women. In reality, you should do the exact opposite. Prioritize everything BUT women. Prioritize family (your parents and siblings), work (making money), more work (making more money), some more work (see previous), fitness (money is useless without health), and your hobbies. Women come somewhere after video games and beer.

[Shy_Steve]

That's not the problem, The Problem is when we do finally ask out a Girl She makes us want to never do it again.

We probably would approach more if we had at least a 60% chance of her saying "Yes", But the fact is it is more like 20 or 30% chance or even less which is why we hardly ever approach.

[Asad1ONE1]

Lol you'd be surprised how many men don't even "look" at women. Yet alone approach or show interest. Not because they can't or are shy to do so. But because they just don't want to give them what they want. That's right you heard me. Men hold the cards in the dating/relationship 🌎

[hahahmm]

Looking back on my life, there were lots of hot women who I passed on getting with on purpose and others where I didn't jump through the hoops they wanted me to jump for. I have ZERO regrets. I try to tell guys it's a good thing if they don't get with every woman who turns their head. The less the better. Our ancestors were wiser than many give them credit for being.

[sassy_receptor]

okay and? just because you ask someone out doesn’t mean they’re entitled to say yes to you. check your entitlement.

[Asad1ONE1]

No one said anything about "entitlement". You're just upset guys don't give women validation these days. So we know who the entitled ones are.

[sassy_receptor]

i get enough validation from my boyfriend and when i’m single i get tons of validation because men are so desperate and pitiful.

i’ve asked numerous people out and have gotten rejection before and not once have i complained. but you have a grown man complaining about rejection 80% of the time and it’s because he feels he’s entitled to get a yes back, that’s not how dating work.

[Asad1ONE1]

Nah you're upset 😡. Men are happier than women. Life sucks. But good for you? Life is short.

[Asad1ONE1]

qz.com/.../

Just ONE of numerous sources explaining the same. Maybe men should have a change of heart and show some remorse? Sympathy? Stop playing victim games? Maybe we are selfish a**holes after all I don't know. Ungrateful? Sometimes you just don't realize how grateful men should be just for being male.

[sassy_receptor]

if men were happier than women the number of cause of death for men wouldn’t be offing yourselves. let’s be real😂

[sassy_receptor]

*one

[hahahmm]

@Asad1ONE1 Yeah, the typical guy's default mode is content. A guy can be happy without women. A lot of guys are brainwashed into thinking that they need a woman to be happy tho. There was a study that found women are happiest when the man they are with isn't happy... and they're the least happy when he is happy. So if a guy cares (too much) about how she feels, he's doomed.

[sassy_receptor]

studies show women who are childless and not in a relationship are happier than those who are in relationships with men. women’s quality of life literally declines when she’s with a woman. be real.

[hahahmm]

@sassy_receptor I would be all for rounding up all of the women who want to be happily left alone and putting them somewhere they can have their wish. Away from the rest of society and traditional minded people.

[hahahmm]

@sassy_receptor Yes, polls in 1st world countries currently show that a huge percentage of1st world women are mentally defective. Psychologists say that most of the people with issues are women.

[sassy_receptor]

yeah put them on the island with the men who are unattractive, poor, social rejects, short, and who don’t have the mentality to provide for women and a family but expect women to submit to them. that’s about 85% of you so send them to that island as well!

[sassy_receptor]

men are killings themselves more than women and it’s the #1 cause of death for me. guess you’re not that happy after all☹️

[Asad1ONE1]

So you're unhappy that men are unhappier? So you care about us? Or are you mocking us? Lol

[sassy_receptor]

you’re obviously not too happen if you’re offing yourself more than any other demographic. that’s not happiness.

[Asad1ONE1]

Well I think you're mocking us because you think women have it worse than men.

[sassy_receptor]

then you’re a dumbass. who sees a group killing themselves at extremely high rates and would be jealous of that. be fr😂

[Asad1ONE1]

Well you're only proving me right with your attitude (and the online sources) that women are more miserable than men. Also, women attempt suicide more often than men. Recent religious and scientific researches have also appear to suggest that women have a higher sex drive, which may affect their desire for men moreso than vice versa. But I disagree with that.

[sassy_receptor]

nothing you said is of value when you’re admittedly disagreeing with “studies” that don’t fit your narrative but trying to utilize the ones you do. me calling out that men are killing themselves more than any other demographic isn’t having an attitude. sorry that you don’t like facts though.

[Asad1ONE1]

Here's a small reminder and just one of numerous reasons of why I think men have it better...

I'm a guy. I'm much more than just my looks.

[sassy_receptor]

yeah at 38 you have to be because you have no looks to maintain anymore. you’re most likely balding wrinkly and using terms like “dad bod” to cover up the fact that you’re actually fat. glad you’ve come to terms with that though.

[Asad1ONE1]

Women have their looks. While men have that and so much more. At least that's how it is perceived by either gender. That really is DEMORALIZING since as a human being we desire to be valued and appreciated by more than just one characteristic.

[Asad1ONE1]

I'm religious. And I don't tell lies. Therefore in all honesty, I've aged pretty well. I actually look much closer to the PFP than you can imagine. And what happened to the lie that women generally prefer older men? Oh ic. Lies after lies after lies after...

And that reminds me of another reason men have it better: they're far less insecure to admit what they actually prefer and want.

For example: far greater women say they prefer taller men than men who prefer shorter women. That is not because they actually do find taller men attractive. But rather because they are far too insecure about seeming cuter and feminine in public (a. k. a. narcissists).

Men generally care less about how "masculine" or big they look in public in comparison to their partner.

[sassy_receptor]

men have literally nothing but physical strength. there is literally nothing else of value that most of you have to offer🤣

[sassy_receptor]

i’ve never told that lie because i know it’s not true. most young women aren’t even second glancing at old men let alone dating or marrying them. anyone who thinks that despite hundreds of stats saying most women date 1-3 years within their age range is genuinely delusional.

you’re making generalizations about the preferences of women despite being a man and that’s where you’ll always lose. you as a man can’t tell me what women like just like i as a woman can’t tell you what women like. you’re making an ass out of yourself. i don’t even have a real height preference but the guy must be taller than me because i want a masculine man who can protect me and our family. that’s literally why women have preferred tall men since the beginning of time. why you guys try to act brand new about it is just laughable.

[Asad1ONE1]

I also think the average woman appears more attractive than the average man. Therefore I think women have the burden of a man's loyalty and whether she is his world, moreso than vice versa.

Good looking guys like me worry less about this and face less competition.

... yet another reason men have it better.

[sassy_receptor]

lmaooo please check yourself into a mental hospital. you’re literally senile🤣

[Asad1ONE1]

Your scripture is only proving my aforementioned point. You are not a happy person. Like most women.

You can say however, that I am upset because women refuse to admit it. I mean... how are we supposed to help you if you don't even admit that you have a problem. How are we supposed to help you if you pretend you have it better than men? Women are a bunch of actresses it seems.

[Asad1ONE1]

Goodnight sis I have work and a date tomorrow... TTYL. Wish you the best honey pie 🍯...

[sassy_receptor]

i literally don’t need help with anything. i have the boyfriend of my dreams, a great relationship with family and friends and my career is going exactly as i planned it. you guys need to help yourselves.

[sassy_receptor]

not your sis but good luck with that

[Asad1ONE1]

You are my sis. Human ya know? I care about ya. I don't know why you're so upset. Nighty night 🌉😘

[Normazoid]

@sassy_receptor Wait a second... OP didn't suggest anything other than not bothering to ask women out. That doesn't denote entitlement, it denotes acceptance of the fact that they're NOT entitled to a date, and therefore will not try to ask.

[Shy_Steve]

@sassy_receptor The fact is Women are ignoring 80% of Men so it Gives you Women less Chance of finding the right Guy because your Dating the same top 20 or 30% of Men that other Women are after.

[Asad1ONE1]

Men are ignoring 100% of women lol

[Random18x]

Yes! Being confident as a man (anybody in general) betters your chances in a lot of things. Wether it’s dating or accomplishing more things because you believe/know you can/will do or get what it is.(to a certain extent ofc).