Women, Please Stop Letting Guys Down Easy

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Listen, I'm not saying that you have to act like a bitch and yell and scream. That's not what this post is going to be about at all. With that out of the way, let's get started.

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I hope you ladies learned some things reading this, and I hope you take them to heart. Thanks for reading this MyTake!


If you fear for your safety upon rejecting an individual, you may forego all these statements at your own discretion in order to buy yourself time. However, I would recommend filing for a restraining order if you feel that unsafe, if possible. After all, why let a person that you're so afraid of stay in your life?2.

If someone stops being your friend just because you rejected their romantic advances, they were never really a friend to begin with. Although it may hurt for now, their leaving may be for the best. After all, why would you want a fake friend? You'd only be feeding their hopes for a romantic relationship, and you'd have to go through this all over again.1.


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Women, I get that it's hard. You're worried about losing the friendship, or you're worried about being attacked/stalked. I get it! But even so, you've still gotta do it. A man can respect someone who rejects him confidently-but-politely. It shows that not only does she respect herself enough to not settle on someone she doesn't want, but that she also respects him enough to not waste his time and just be direct with him. Those are attractive qualities, in a friend sense. However, I'll gladly give some words of advice on those aforementioned issues.The right way to do it



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Women, Please Stop Letting Guys Down Easy

after the incident! Coming from someone who's been ghosted, it just makes you look like an ass. Please don't do it.11 months ! We didn't talk after that, not even once, for 3 months straight. We had a conversation for the first time 2 months ago, 6 yearsLegitimately, I had someone ghost me for being interested. They never said a word about not being interested, and instead thought it would be best to just not look at me, speak to me, or communicate with me. This was someone I knew for
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Ghosting



, extremely fast for this one.friendship, and if you're friends, respectI've seen in other cases where women will lie and/or put off saying anything until they feel they absolutely have to. Coming from just a human being, that doesn't work still, because you're just wasting the other person's time. He can never get that time back. Once he finds/figures out you're lying, you'll lose all his

Lying


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Guys suck at taking hints. Trying to give them hints is about as productive as talking to a brick wall or watching paint dry.At all.I see that in a lot of cases the women don't want to be direct, and just kind of lead him on, hoping he'll get the hint. Well, ladies, coming from a guy, that doesn't work.


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Avoidance

So, I saw a question about letting a guy down easy, which inspired me to write this MyTake. I have noticed throughout my 17 years that women seem to feel guilty about rejecting men who ask them out. Having rejected someone for the first time the other day, I can say that that's normal and even healthy. However...
Women, Please Stop Letting Guys Down Easy

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  • Wow... you realy know what you're talking about. I tell ya, i dont scream or yell or be a bitch to tell a guy i don't want to be in a relationship anymore. I come out and say it how it is, they dont like it tough.

    Great tips, and great take my friend!

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  • I've never ghosted anybody, when I let someone down gently I never need to lie, I tell them exactly how it is in the easiest most understandable way and I tell them I'm not interested or why a relationship needs to end. Now if I lied to them during that process then I'd feel the need to avoid them, but since I don't lie, I don't avoid.

    I've had to end relationships a bunch of times in the past, it never gets easier but the best thing to do is to be honest. You clearly dated someone who doesn't understand how it feels from both sides.

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  • When I was broken up with she was honest and said it just wasn't working, and that I didn't really do anything wrong, the way I act just isn't suited for her. Which I respected, and we're still on good terms.

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What Girls Said 11

  • Thanks for this very helpful and has a lot of good points :)

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  • Is it WRONG to keep seeing a guy who doesn't want marriage and or kids if I do, one day in the future? I'm talking about friends with benefits. Is it wrong for us to keep fucking if I want marriage/kids in the future, but he wants to be a bachelor forever? Who is wasting whose time? It's an open arrangement as of now, so he knows that I'll still be there tomorrow if his one-night stand never calls him again. ;) I'm only 24, so I don't need to settle down right away. Should I keep my eye out for Mr. ACTUALLY Right or stay with someone who makes me happy in the present? :')

    Who do you think is going to end this arrangement? Me OR Him? Who do you think SHOULD end it?

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    • You clearly didn't read any of what I wrote in this Take. I even gave you tips on how to reject people...

    • I'm not even asking about rejecting someone though...

  • The same applies for the guys. Guys often leave girls hanging with that.

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  • Noted

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  • Nice take,

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  • I don't do that

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  • Well, I am guilty of ghosting.

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  • Good take

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  • Interesting take.

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  • True. Things need to change.

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  • What do you recommend a girl say to turn down a guy respectfully but firmly?

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    • Tbh. A good old fuck off i dont like you would have helped me move on. Maybe i would have gotten a grilfriend by now if some girl hadn't just kept me hanging

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    • Just be honest. Say something like, "I appreciate you telling me this, but I just don't feel the same way."

    • Just say boiiiiii ugliest mf in dis dimension then laugh at his home his life his face

What Guys Said 8

  • Women are so naive to how weak they truly are, in both mental resolve and physical ability. Weak men fall into their manipulative traps, but if you just say "fuck this, I'm not here to play games" and walk out on them when they start shit testing or trying to make you jealous, they have nothing,

    whoever wrote this does not want men and women to have healthy relationships. Hey ladies, when you cheat, film it and show to to your boyfriend before dumping him. He may or may not beat you to death

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  • Or you can just walk away from women and the whole dating BS and live your life.

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  • That wasn't a garbage display, at least

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  • The lying part is spot on.

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  • I've never ghosted anybody, when I let someone down gently I never need to lie, I tell them exactly how it is in the easiest most understandable way and I tell them I'm not interested or why a relationship needs to end. Now if I lied to them during that process then I'd feel the need to avoid them, but since I don't lie, I don't avoid.

    I've had to end relationships a bunch of times in the past, it never gets easier but the best thing to do is to be honest. You clearly dated someone who doesn't understand how it feels from both sides.

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  • Yo stop to many words I read 2 words and bro you know they have 1800 numbers fo dis stuff

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  • No, please ladies. You can certainly let us down easily. Why would I want a bitch to tell me off?

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  • Thanks

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