Guys, Stop Ruining Your Chances with Women With Your Mindset (Page 2)

[Kingofkings1992]

To be perfectly honest, a lot of men not dating do so because they think so many modern women aren’t worth it. It doesn’t just boil down to a lack of confidence. I do agree with the main emphasis of what you’re saying though. Attitude makes a huge difference in pretty much every aspect of life.

[FunkyMonkee]

Let's not talk at all about the mindset of women!! I hear WAY more of you belittle yourselves!!
Part of your problem is, you have shit taste in men and can't see the good ones standing right in front of you!! I've even heard women say that!! Which is worse, having a negative self-attitude but still getting lucky once in a while or knowingly picking shit instead of gold?

[findacure4wokeness]

I know many women who have hit the wall and can't find a man that wants them anymore. Women need to have realistic exceptions and men need to realize that if a woman has given your the best years of her life, She and your children deserves your effort in keeping the marriage together.

[Normazoid]

Dating apps do more to reinforce these attitudes than 1000 videos they might watch. The acid test for attractiveness has always been rejection.
This quitter's attitude is something new though. Getting shot down in flames was always seen as part of the journey. But nowadays guys seem to be just stepping away from the game altogether.

I'll never insult anyone's road to happiness, so as long as they're not hurting anyone, good for them!

[Voldra]

Good men sacrifice for those they love, unfortunately women don't value that. I observe & what I see is either be a provider or convict. I'm not too concerned in investing in that & I'm unwilling or unable to conform.

[Asad1ONE1]

Yea how about she write a Take on "why men feel this way and don't like women"?

[Voldra]

I like women just fine but they're not the end all be all of my existence.

[Asad1ONE1]

"Stop Ruining Your Chances with Men With Your Mindset MoniqueTLC!!"

... or rather a mindset that doesn't even exist. And one that should be there. That is why men don't show interest in you, yet alone the attractive ones. We love ya you know. But when reciprocated interest isn't there AND empathy isn't there AND lack of entitlement isn't there, then it leaves "quality" men no choice but to protect their self-worth and avoid walking into an unknown entity.

[hahahmm]

True. And also I have written about how to a man, taking a bullet for his woman is a duty. Any relationship a man gets into could potentially lead to the end of his life, if he chose the wrong woman who creates a situation that puts him in harm's way. Women don't have a duty or plan to take a bullet for their man so they can't possibly understand relationships the same way a man does. A lot of guys don't understand that if a woman is jumping into 10 different relationships, it's NOT the same as a man jumping into 10 different relationships.

[Asad1ONE1]

Huh? How is that not the same? Both men and women DESPISE their partners sleeping around.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

How do you justify this "just get over it" oversimplification to men suffering through abusive relationships? How tf is a guy just supposed to get over it when he's been called names, emasculated, and/or other abuses?

[Raaj4you]

It's difficult to understand women and what they want? No matter, how good you are, what you do, women don't like it. All women want a prince or a billionaire. How do I become a prince or billionaire overnight?

[dustybiker]

Truth. We are what we project out to others.

[Anonymous]

You can see all the time why so many men are single just by what they post on here.

[TopTier]

There are definitely guys who shouldn't even try. Their time is better spent doing other things. So that negative thinking turns into being something positive. And perhaps one day theyll have enough leverage to attract a girl.

[Jhunitor]

Wow, dating advices for men who struggle that don't treat them all as just losers or misogynists but with empathy? I am speechless.

Joke aside very good advices.

[es20490446e]

Do you think that because a woman is attractive, she generally requires a man to be that attractive too?

[Deserter]

Why do you think only men have this mindset? They didn't just wake up and have it, you women make everything more difficult than it has to be.

[RedPassion95]

Nah you micro dicks make it hard on yourself.

[Deserter]

Fool

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Do you realize you’re not telling them how to do that?

This is why guys say don’t take dating advice from someone who doesn’t know what it’s like to be a man

[Rangers]

Acknowledging the inevitable won't increase chances of failure, but it may save them the embarrassment

[TheNameIsRob]

I agree completely. Our attitude is one of the few things we actually have control of and get to choose each day.

[Anonymous]

This only matters / works if you're attractive.

[Anonymous]

You fail to mention MeToo with the statutes that'll send any man foolish enough to approach a woman to prison for life or placed in front of a firing squad

[AdithyaR]

Well at least it protects me from rejection and pain. So doesn't seem like it's too bad.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And are you sure it's just men ruining their chances with women and not vice versa? You better check the other side of the story first.