Guys, Stop Ruining Your Chances with Women With Your Mindset (Page 3)

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And are you sure it's just men ruining their chances with women and not vice versa? You better check the other side of the story first.

[giantgoblin]

Men are raised under false pretenses that they cannot show emotion or be weak, so they keep their issues to themselves and in return feel inadequate to those around them.

[hahahmm]

You think this because somebody programmed you to think this but I assure you that 99% of women will mock you & look down on you if you're weak. Not only that but it's hard to solve problems if you are focused on being a victim and crying about how life is harsh. Most guys try to solve problems instead of endlessly talk about problems. Yes, you can become more feminine and act like typical women if you want but don't expect straight women to find it attractive, regardless of what they say to the contrary. Remember, what they say is not always really how they will act. And actions are more important than words.

[lucas262]

It's hard to be positive in the face of constant negativity

[ODC2112]

So you say that I have to be a psycho-manipulator.

[saucyduck23]

I disagree. With this today generation with woman being entitled and "Feminism", your basically telling us to fuck off.

[allogenis96]

I would if they actually were social around me and didn't have a spontaneous urge to get away from me without knowing me at a social place.

[Anonymous]

Since you're so concerned for them, you should just date them so they could shut up lmao

[Watdsas]

Would it also apply when you're scared to ask out a friend that seems to keep giving up signals?

[Andres77]

Confidence goes a long way

[NewYorkCity]

That is so not true. When it come to attracting a woman, confidence cannot exist if you have no looks. You cannot sustain your confidence level without constant supply of you knowing for a Fact that you are a handsome looking man, because of all the looks and compliments that you get from woman around you.

[Aerissa_Jade]

You know the saying... how do you get confidence? by being successful. How do you get successful, by having confidence.

I say, just don't care what others think, that in a way is confidence.

[Andres77]

@Aerissa_Jade
Sometimes it starts with finding your focus and just getting better and better at it. Thus confidence starts to grow

[hahahmm]

@NewYorkCity Wrong. Accomplishments in life can build confidence. People who don't have a lot of accomplishments find this hard to understand tho. Typically guys build confidence with age/experience unless they're being too lazy or putting too much energy into women and not enough into other things. You could be the hottest looking man on earth and get zero women if you lack charisma. Charisma is naturally to a guy with confidence. And guys who say you need looks ignore all of the fugly dudes who get women whenever they want.

[hahahmm]

@NewYorkCity The other thing is if you put vagina on a pedestal you will mistakenly think that ANY woman is a prize and that if you see a guy with a woman it means she's some kind of good quality and that he is too. Nothing could be more wrong and it becomes clear when you can see beyond the surface stuff.

[Aerissa_Jade]

@hahahmm Exactly, I know a 350 pound guy that is not attractive, yet great personality and he is in the triple digits 100+ sexual partners with women he didn't hire.

I see him as a giant huge teddy bear, sweet and kind.

[hahahmm]

@Aerissa_Jade Sure. Not that I'm into non-serious relationships BUT there was a famous comedian named Patrice O'Neil who wasn't attractive and could easily get women. In one case, vouched for by some other famous comedians who knew him personally, he went into a bar and picked up 3 hot women AT THE SAME TIME. He figured out some rules to do that in his sleep and would joke about it too.

[Aerissa_Jade]

@hahahmm See good example, this guy was married, but she cheated on him and left him and he vowed to never get married again, or have a serious long term relationship again.

Looks may help but not required.

[Wisdom-Strength-Love]

Ay, thanks. I needed to hear this ✊🏽

[Alwayreckles93]

Read girl wash your face by Rachel Hollis.

[anon1903]

That's the ultimate omega cycle

[magiusX26]

y'all stop repeating all that first.

[RedPassion95]

Men are shit. Point proven in here.

[TroyDT2]

Yup.

[Anonymous]

Yeah you are a queen

[Nahid1707]

Good words