I have had more than my share of dating men who are simply; broke. They are broke either because they are financially irresponsible; don't care to put in effort to get/keep a job, don't know how money management works, or simply lie about their status, as they don't care to invest financially into a relationship. They can be as they please, but women need to give themselves more credit!
1. Women need to feel safe too
It's not that I view that it is the men's responsibility to take care of the woman, and be the main/only bread winner. It is that, women need to feel stability and comfort too. If it is just one source of income coming into the household, and the source is the woman- she will feel a huge pressure on her that he she needs to bring money in, or else no income, no family.
2. It's nice to be taken out once in a while
Everyone, whether it is a woman or man, like to be taken out on a date sometime. It doesn't have to be over the top and fancy, but the gesture is certainly appreciated. If a man can't even get his act together to find a source of income to take his woman out, then it really is unfair to the relationship.
3. Long term planning
It's hard to plan for the long term. Children? House? None of that is anywhere in sight when one person is supporting 2 or more people. Sometimes even if the relationship is good... if a person isn't motivated to take care of his family, then wasting time on this person shouldn't be an option.