Stop getting dating advice from girls

[Mamamialetmego]

Girls will never tell you the truth. They will never tell you what works in dating or not.

They will say things like well it's about personality.

It’s about being nice, kind, good guy.

Haha all guys know minute you act kind, nice and good you get into friendzone.

Girls will never tell you what they really desire and what they really look for, what they really want.

They will say well looks doesn't matter, we love nice guys, we care about personality, we want this we want that.

Or we seek emotional connection, we seek this and that.

But the thing is first girls don't even know what they want and second, girls don't care about you at all.

They want to be with the one who just does it. They don’t want you to fake it. They just want to be with the ones who already are like that. Already hot, already confident, already masculine. So they tell you "just be yourself".

Again girls don't want you to be successful. If you are failure they want you to stay that way. They want natural successful man. They want natural masculine, confident man, successful man.

They don't care about the rest. So stop seeking advice, stop giving girls attention on instagram or online, stop listenning them to get advice.

Most of the time girls will give you fake answers, they will never be direct.

When a man say something they mean it. When a girl say something it doesn't mean that. It means something else.

So this is my two cents...

[Barbaric]

@stickytoes is pretty much correct. They don't even know what they want half the time. Especially younger women. They say they want nice guys and they mean it. They're not lying to you. It sounds logical.

Ever known a girl who says she wants a nice guy, then she ends up with jerks all the time? Of course you have. We all have. This happens again especially with younger girls.

They date a jerk, they break up, she complains that she wants a nice guy, a nice guy asks her out, she says "there's no spark lets just be friends" because she just doesn't fancy him, then she dates another jerk, they break up, she says she just wants a nice guy etc. She doesn't know why she keeps doing that. She probably does see some red flags to begin with, but she ignores them because for some reason unbeknown to her she feels strong attraction to the guy, strong enough to ignore them. She couldn't possibly explain that to you.

What's more, the jerk she fell hard for and broke her heart - do you think she's gonna want to encourage more guys to be like that guy? Nope. She's gonna tell guys to be the opposite. Even though obviously it was certain qualities that that guy had which made her fall hard in the first place.

So I don't think they give bad advice to be assholes towards guys. That happens for other reasons.

Plus, they're women. They're not men. They've never dated as men. They have no idea what it's like to date as a man or what the male experience is. That's also why they don't know what to tell you.

I can't stand this guy's channel because he's a complete dork (Alexander Grace), but someone posted this the other day and it was quite interesting to see what she thought at first, what she did, and what she said afterwards. The girl was challenged to try to use Tinder to get a date, and of course she thought that being a woman she'd know what women want, and that it would be easy. As a guy it's easy to see what she did wrong and how clueless she was - as are most women.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DZTIbHIsIYw

[Mamamialetmego]

Alex is cool man

[Barbaric]

He's a complete pansy. His channel also doesn't really help men to better themselves in any way, it just gives them things to complain/get angry about when it comes to women, feel sorry for themselves, give up on dating and relationships, like any of the MGTOW channels. And he does that because that's what's profitable today, giving people reasons to complain, selling misery. In fact I'm pretty sure he has girls like this working for him too, giving men "advice" for money.

[EnglundUberAlles]

It's an interesting video but it tells you a lot about Tinder, not much about women.

[Tdieseler]

you have to define jerk. every man comes with his own instinct... but women have to have it their way... when they want it, how they want it. Men understand that sacrifices have to be made... let one thing go to get another... women dont let shit go, but want the other ANYWAY.
a woman can tell you she wants a rich husband/boyfriend... but this rich person works his ass off for 18 hours a day... but she still wants him to make time to spend with her... she can't pick one. either you have a rich husband who slaves all day, or one who isn't rich and has time to spend with you.
women want it all... THAT is their doctrination.

[Barbaric]

@EnglundUberAlles

No, what I was getting at with the video was the way she thought in the beginning that she had a good idea of what she'd do and what to expect, but she had no idea at all. Most women would be the same.

[EnglundUberAlles]

For sure.

[Celtero]

Lots of people do that because it reflects positively on their character. But women especially pass up the less socially/physically desireable guys for the hot, charming, dysfunctional ones.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/RJqa9LLpgpY

[Mamamialetmego]

jesus this proves my point :D

[Cherokeehp]

It seems like you think very lowly of women. Perhaps you’re gay?

[Mamamialetmego]

No i love women

[Cherokeehp]

But it seems like you think we’re all either liars or incredibly confused

[Mamamialetmego]

You guys don't aware of themselves.

[Cherokeehp]

What?

[Mamamialetmego]

You say one thing and do another thing

[Boogie_01]

You are

[EmmaMary]

With a mindset like yours it's hardly surprising you're single.

[Mamamialetmego]

Who told that?

[EmmaMary]

I told that.

[Tdieseler]

and now you have met one of them lol... and one who can't even reveal their identity... goes back to how they lie Anyway @Mamamialetmego

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I was super shy when I was a younger man. I too ended up friend-zoned constantly. All my zone girlfriends would tell me the same bullshit about wanting nice guys.. and I would always think, "Hey, I'm right here girl!" only to watch them repeatedly go after the insensitive jerks.

For a long time I was bitter and would agree with the OP's opinions.

However, one day I grew a pair. I realized that women and men both are biologically driven to desire certain things in mates, and shy men isn't generally one of them. A girl WANTS a nice guy, but her desire and libido drive her in the opposite direction. It's not their fault any more than it's a guys fault for wanting to shag many girls.

What guys need to know is that if you aren't attracting women, then it's not them, it's you. Change your game. Begging for a pity F never turned on any woman.

[Anonymous]

This is way over the top, but your premise us correct. Men should generally not take dating advice from women because it will often be bad advice. Not that they are intentionally misleading us; they are just saying what they think they are supposed to say, or what they believe "should be" true, even when they know deep down inside that it's not.

When it comes to dating, don't listen to what women say; instead, observe what they do. Because those two things are often very different, and even contradictory.

[Opinion Owner]

@stickytoes nailed it.

[SpiritBear]

Dude, the reason girls say that is because for your sake, you want to find a girl that likes you for you. If 'you' is so unappealing to all women, that might be your problem that only you can solve. Also, "all girls lie to you" yeah right, every girl has a conspiracy against men.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I follow those "girl advices" and I never had a problem with getting girls.
You can be nice and kind. But you have to notice that they also say that those qualities aren't enough. You also have to be funny and be able to have conversation. And of course be decent looking.
The rest as long as you have a job and are not a slob on the couch they will like you.

[N192K001]

Uh…I take it you either don't have ≥1 sister or don't have good-relations with your sister (s).

If you have agents from the other side who ally with you, you can get valuable info.

[Mamamialetmego]

Women don't aware what works or not. They say be nice, have good personality (what the fuck is that even mean) etc.

[N192K001]

Well, I've seen it work. Following the advise of my female family-members, I've gotten offers of negotiations for betrothals, even marriage-proposals… which I (for better or for worse) ended-up turning down.

[LMNOP123]

I see you’ve been around a lot of immature women your whole life. But eh, you act a certain way that’s exactly what you’ll get.

[Tdieseler]

he really ain't lying.. this is what men face. you know how many times I've asked a female what the problem is and gotten "well if you dont know the problem, they we dont have to talk about it"
"but bitch, if i knew the problem, we can solve it", i say
but women dont want to solve a problem, they want to talk about it, and that time just makes the problem fester and rot... till the relationship breaks apart, and he is blamed. and it sticks, because women will band together (like buffalo) and blame him... but the reality is that he tried.

[LMNOP123]

@Tdieseler But communication between partners often does solve the problem. Now if she's only going to talk to put the blame all on you and not hear your side then yeah, that solves nothing. She's not respecting you and not worth your time. Same with the dumb broads who are her friends. Birds of a feather.
Yeah I will say a lot of broads seem to expect their dudes to be mind readers and I agree, they're being ridiculous and unreasonable. Same with her friends. I don't know for sure, since I surround myself with women who can be reasonable. Sometimes they do overreact to their dude doing something. If they really are being ridiculous I'll tell them so. I'm not going to stand by her just because she's my friend. I'm doing her no favours by validating her so she keeps making the same mistakes again. Again, I surround myself with mature ladies who can be reasonable, they'll listen. They know to expect my brutal, yet respectful honesty. Yes, sometimes they do act like children and don't listen.
Judging by Highschool and even a few I over hear in public there are quite a few. It's an embarrassment to me because then I get lumped in with these morons. I've noticed many many people lack proper communication skills and cause their own problems a lot of the time.

[Tdieseler]

I appreciate that you can see what im talking about... but hon, thats only ONE of you... most women dont have their eyes open like you do

[Anonymous]

Let me put what girls want. They want a guy that looks good. They do want an emotional connection. They want mystery. They want a guy with confidence that is not dependent on others. They want a guy that’s nice on the inside and a bad boy masculine frame on the outside. Your welcome

[zagor]

... or guys. Most dating advice is worthless. It's like experiencing Paris by listening to someone talk about it instead of going yourself.

[DWornock]

I agree the worst thing is getting advice about dating from girls and women. It is not that they lie. Instead, they don't know the truth and they will always say what sounds best.

[amyba]

I will tell you the truth I like dominant men who enjoys taken lead. I don't want a good boy who is a doormat I want good man who has self respect.

[Liam_Hayden]

Sound like the typical advice of someone who has little to no real life experience with actual quality women.

[Gedaria]

You will be amased, they know women better than men. Do why not to listen to them , guys don't know it all...

[stickytoes]

Because we don’t know what we want... when we say we want nice guys it’s not a lie it’s what we THINK we want... doesn’t mean it’s true.

[EnglundUberAlles]

You're right but your username is disgusting and you should change it. No upvotes for you.

[stickytoes]

Hahahaaa

[Tdieseler]

@EnglundUberAlles hahahaha... i like this guy...

[Tdieseler]

Im going to be one of the @stickytoes fans out here who agree... women DONT know what they want, they just see what others have and demand it from whomever they are with. maybe its not a lie to them... but its a lie. it IS hard to know what you want though. As a guy I've tried to narrow it down... women dont even attempt that..."why Diesel... why dont they?"
because women want it all... and just the good parts... can't be any bad in there.

[bamesjond0069]

Girls always lie when it comes to advice, either on purpose or accident but it is always wrong. So just dont even listen to them.

[juliaanita]

you are correct-your post is worth about 2 cents.

[Hunter7754]

If you want advice on fishing, you see the fisherman, not the fish. The fish will deceive you.

[MzAsh]

Yikes. Very unbecoming.

[Anonymous]

I agree to a point, women don't tell the whole truth. They also want the sexy guy.

[Radio4men]

If you dont like sex. listen to females.

[thietbitpp]

Yikes. Very unbecoming.