All of these reasons are the burdens that men bear right when they are born. Very selfish that some feel like they can't even do half of one of these reasons. But that is the typical man-hating era we live in now, unfortunately.
Do guys date rich girls? I'm not sure, let's ask all the stay at home mothers.
I can agree with you that men should have some money to provide things like food, shelter etc. But if He doesn't have lots of money to provide a specific house or brand clothing than I think that's shallow and silly on a woman's part.
"It's not that I view that it is the men's responsibility to take care of the woman, and be the main/only bread winner. It is that, women need to feel stability and comfort too. If it is just one source of income coming into the household, and the source is the woman- she will feel a huge pressure on her that he she needs to bring money in, or else no income, no family." I mean dude, you could at least read it. Lmao.
@FaithfulGuardian Right... but your one comment is complaining about how women should be financially responsible too and she says it in that paragraph right there?
@DevikaButts95 So you think that guys don't feel huge pressure when they are the ones who have to bring income in? Guys don't need or want stability and comfort?
@sovetskii13 I don't understand do you guys not know how to read or something? Like really? Not only have I not said myself any sort of opinion on the matter but even in her mytake she herself says she expects the woman to be financially stable too.
@DevikaButts95 Don't be such as Butt, obviously it is you who can't read. She mentioned it could be equal then on other part, she hinted men are supposed to have a more financial stability then the women. Go figure.
@DevikaButts95 good girl, and no, it is not stalling but an eye exam... for you. Apparently you failed at it since I have given you so many attempts yet you still couldnt find it. it is "Everyone, whether it is a woman or man, like to be taken out on a date sometime. It doesn't have to be over the top and fancy, but the gesture is certainly appreciated. If a man can't even get his act together to find a source of income to take his woman out, then it really is unfair to the relationship", so what the op is saying is the guy has to do all the work when it comes do having dates/activities.
@FaithfulGuardian "Everyone whether man, or woman, like to be taken out on a date sometime." First sentence of your quote. Lmao. She says outright they both like to be treated. Remember, this is a mytake geared towards woman, so almost no surprise, she focuses on the aspect of woman, because if a guy is financially unstable, he's never going to treat her out and it's unfair into the relationship. At no point does she say anything about the guy being the only one to treat the woman. That's an assumption on your part. Lmao. You never quoted her saying that. Likewise, with her beginning with "everyone, whether man or woman, likes to be taken out." it's a better assumption to guess she thinks both should be treated out. Hell, I'd outright say that's what she meant to try and type with that sentence, just didn't word it good enough. But hey, at the very least there's evidence to suggest that assumption. Lmao. Reading comp bro.
@DevikaButts95 At first she was talking about both genders by using the "Everyone, man or woman...", but later turned it against men by saying "If a man can't even get his act together to find a source of income to take his woman out...". It's either bad writing or she was trying to sound innocent at first only to turn against men later.
@sovetskii13 Probably bad writing? If your SO can't or won't treat you out, it's not fair to the other person. Guys, reading comprehension. Seriously. You can figure out from the multiple other times in her writing she says both should be financially stable. Use a little logic. Lmao. Like this is geared towards woman. Amazingly, she's talking to woman when it's geared towards woman.
@sovetskii13 I do. It was just a typo, or typos rather. I was rushing off somewhere. And I don't think you do use logic. You couldn't figure out a typo? Lmao. Plus you didn't even try to defend yourself there? So like, unless you thought me making a typo was a defense (which it's not), is that a realization of where you went wrong?
@DevikaButts95 So you're saying that she is only talking to women in this myTake. Ok, I can see that. But it's still sexist to say that the man is the one who needs to feel pressured into doing all the financial work. Each family has its own system. Many factors lead to the agreement. It should not be expected for the man to always be the one who brings income and pays for the woman.
@sovetskii13 She uh... didn't say that. She just said men should be able to treat a women out. That is not a statement that excludes women also treating their men out. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 You seem to be obsessed with Lmao. Such a weird and overused acronym just like lol. Anyway, seems like we just have different views or understandings about her language. We will never reach an agreement in who is right and who is wrong.
@sovetskii13 I type Lmao when I laugh. And I mean, like sorta but like, even if I'm wrong, which based on her language I don't think I am, it's not really fair to say you're right. Like, by that I mean she says nothing about what you're implying, at all. You're filling in that assumption because she doesn't directly say "Men should also be treated out". Mine is also an assumption, but like I'm taking the fact of what she said earlier about how both should be financially responsible, and that she mentions that both like to be treated out. And regardless, and I don't know if you did this but @FaithfulGuardian did this in his first comment, being mean and saying "Be a good girl and don't be a gold digger now." is certainly not warranted with this being a baseless assumption at best.
@DevikaButts95 apparently, you don't see anything wrong because your mentality align with the OPs where men should be responsible for the most part of the relationship. I feel sorry for the victims that dated you.
@FaithfulGuardian Lmao nope, those words are missing from my mouth buddy. A woman should treat their man out just as much as a man should treat their woman out. Lmao. But nice try, that was actually hilarious af. I don't think you could demonstrate my point in a more effective manner that you just don't understand reading comp. Lmao.
@FaithfulGuardian. Wanna try again? That was a lame and pathetic response from you. Lmao. Like was that all you could come up with? Hell dude, even a "touche" would have been more respectable at that point. Not the "pfft you didn't have a good comeback" excuse, which I think is worse considering you tried to use "Lmao" to try and prove that? Lmao. Literally, I'm laughing at you, that's why I type it. ;) Not to mention my point was properly defended too so like? Double Lmao at that?
@FaithfulGuardian So like, you done with the petty ad hominem "I'm too stupid to argue my point anymore and I'm clearly wrong but god forbid I maturely admit it like an adult" thing or are you still gunna continue with that? Lmao. It's really not as insulting as you think. If anything, it sounds like you're projecting about your own inabilities to secure a relationship, probably because of how you are. Menawhile, I already have a guy to hug and literally could go out and get someone even if I didn't. Lmao.
@FaithfulGuardian Lmao. Keep trying buddy. Maybe you'll have one insult that actually works. And also actually makes sense. Like you're so desperate but you're just getting trolled hard right now. Lmao. It's funny.
@FaithfulGuardian You were constantly wrong about everything! Lmao. Hell you even assumed my opinion on something and I literally followed up in response clearly stating how I did not think that. Lmao.
@independentman Lmao. "Argue." His ego is hurt so he just started saying random insulting stuff. This hasn't been an argument for a long while. Why do you think I'm just messin' with him at this point? Lmao.
@independentman dont mind her, she just doesn't accept the fact that she lost an argument so all she can do is just doing "lmao" combos all day long. i am doing her a favor of keeping her company since she seems pretty lonely.
@DevikaButts95 so you are sitting on a guy's face and you still haven't forgotten about me and still replying me. Admit it, you just can't get enough of me, your actions betrayed you. Typical woman behavior.
Based on these comments, I've never seen so many bitter, angry men who obviously are not happy with their financial status ergo the amount of vitriol. This just goes to show that everyone needs to state their needs/wants/preferences/expectations on the first date. If neither person agrees completely, not tolerate/cooperate, I said AGREES 100% to what the other person wants, they don't need to go on a second date. Period.
If you wanna live that struggle life, go after that broke guy/girl. If you wanna live that glam life, go after that rich guy/girl.
Hmm she's trying to tell women to date guys who are financially stable and could share responsibility with them... And that would make her a gold digger? Good point, dude lol
Would you ever date a broke girl who is a loser and isn't careful with her money and plus... Has no responsibility?
@Rachel_is_gay Quick question, is it true that every broke person is a lazy couch potato loser? No its not. People are very unfortunate in life. I know dudes barely making money but they have the mental toughness to grind through the day to get a tiny little paycheck and not resort to selling drugs. Are these kinds of people losers? No they're not. And to answer your question yes I would date a broke girl, not broke to the point I have to pay for everything but even a shitty job making minimum wage wouldn't bother me. It would only bother me if she's ok sitting at home doing nothing with no money.
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damn, that backlash... especially guys
I agree, some women do need to find better partners.
I agree, there's a lot of losers on this site
For the most part, yes. For the sake of not being barefoot and pregnant. Income on both sides is good.
cough cough literal prostitute
All of these reasons are the burdens that men bear right when they are born. Very selfish that some feel like they can't even do half of one of these reasons. But that is the typical man-hating era we live in now, unfortunately.
Do guys date rich girls? I'm not sure, let's ask all the stay at home mothers.
Hahahaha, I'm loving your takes... and I should say I'm loving even more the angry reactions they are causing XD
Hey, do one about small penises next!
I can agree with you that men should have some money to provide things like food, shelter etc. But if He doesn't have lots of money to provide a specific house or brand clothing than I think that's shallow and silly on a woman's part.
I can't see the point of long-term planning if a couple is only "dating."
So you see men as disposable ATM machines only? Typical women.
Dumbest myTake i've read in a long while.
I see so many people are against this lol and I don't know if this is gonna make you mad or not but... It goes both way lol
Ah, I hear the trumpets sounding!
'tis the call to arms from the anti gold digger brigade!!!
Great take! Number 3 is golden.
I find this sexist, it you want to talk about equality, women should be responsible financially too. Be a good girl and don't be a gold digger now
"It's not that I view that it is the men's responsibility to take care of the woman, and be the main/only bread winner. It is that, women need to feel stability and comfort too. If it is just one source of income coming into the household, and the source is the woman- she will feel a huge pressure on her that he she needs to bring money in, or else no income, no family."
I mean dude, you could at least read it. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 Um, there are more than just that paragraph... Butt
@FaithfulGuardian
Right... but your one comment is complaining about how women should be financially responsible too and she says it in that paragraph right there?
@DevikaButts95 So you think that guys don't feel huge pressure when they are the ones who have to bring income in? Guys don't need or want stability and comfort?
@sovetskii13
I don't understand do you guys not know how to read or something? Like really?
Not only have I not said myself any sort of opinion on the matter but even in her mytake she herself says she expects the woman to be financially stable too.
@DevikaButts95 Don't be such as Butt, obviously it is you who can't read. She mentioned it could be equal then on other part, she hinted men are supposed to have a more financial stability then the women. Go figure.
@FaithfulGuardian
Lmao quote it.
@DevikaButts95 what?
@FaithfulGuardian
Quote her saying that, since apparently I can't read. Lmao.
'Cause I reread that and saw nothing of the sort you were talking about.
@DevikaButts95 you didn't say please ;)
@FaithfulGuardian
Okay. Please quote it. Lmao. Is this some sort of an attempt to stall? Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 good girl, and no, it is not stalling but an eye exam... for you. Apparently you failed at it since I have given you so many attempts yet you still couldnt find it. it is "Everyone, whether it is a woman or man, like to be taken out on a date sometime. It doesn't have to be over the top and fancy, but the gesture is certainly appreciated. If a man can't even get his act together to find a source of income to take his woman out, then it really is unfair to the relationship", so what the op is saying is the guy has to do all the work when it comes do having dates/activities.
@FaithfulGuardian
"Everyone whether man, or woman, like to be taken out on a date sometime."
First sentence of your quote. Lmao. She says outright they both like to be treated.
Remember, this is a mytake geared towards woman, so almost no surprise, she focuses on the aspect of woman, because if a guy is financially unstable, he's never going to treat her out and it's unfair into the relationship. At no point does she say anything about the guy being the only one to treat the woman. That's an assumption on your part. Lmao. You never quoted her saying that. Likewise, with her beginning with "everyone, whether man or woman, likes to be taken out." it's a better assumption to guess she thinks both should be treated out. Hell, I'd outright say that's what she meant to try and type with that sentence, just didn't word it good enough. But hey, at the very least there's evidence to suggest that assumption. Lmao. Reading comp bro.
@DevikaButts95 At first she was talking about both genders by using the "Everyone, man or woman...", but later turned it against men by saying "If a man can't even get his act together to find a source of income to take his woman out...". It's either bad writing or she was trying to sound innocent at first only to turn against men later.
@sovetskii13
Probably bad writing?
If your SO can't or won't treat you out, it's not fair to the other person.
Guys, reading comprehension. Seriously. You can figure out from the multiple other times in her writing she says both should be financially stable. Use a little logic. Lmao.
Like this is geared towards woman. Amazingly, she's talking to woman when it's geared towards woman.
@DevikaButts95 I am using logic. And do you know the difference between "Woman" and "Women"? Apparently not.
@sovetskii13
I do. It was just a typo, or typos rather. I was rushing off somewhere.
And I don't think you do use logic. You couldn't figure out a typo? Lmao.
Plus you didn't even try to defend yourself there? So like, unless you thought me making a typo was a defense (which it's not), is that a realization of where you went wrong?
@DevikaButts95 So you're saying that she is only talking to women in this myTake. Ok, I can see that. But it's still sexist to say that the man is the one who needs to feel pressured into doing all the financial work. Each family has its own system. Many factors lead to the agreement. It should not be expected for the man to always be the one who brings income and pays for the woman.
@sovetskii13
She uh... didn't say that. She just said men should be able to treat a women out. That is not a statement that excludes women also treating their men out. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 You seem to be obsessed with Lmao. Such a weird and overused acronym just like lol. Anyway, seems like we just have different views or understandings about her language. We will never reach an agreement in who is right and who is wrong.
@sovetskii13
I type Lmao when I laugh.
And I mean, like sorta but like, even if I'm wrong, which based on her language I don't think I am, it's not really fair to say you're right. Like, by that I mean she says nothing about what you're implying, at all. You're filling in that assumption because she doesn't directly say "Men should also be treated out".
Mine is also an assumption, but like I'm taking the fact of what she said earlier about how both should be financially responsible, and that she mentions that both like to be treated out.
And regardless, and I don't know if you did this but @FaithfulGuardian did this in his first comment, being mean and saying "Be a good girl and don't be a gold digger now." is certainly not warranted with this being a baseless assumption at best.
@sovetskii13 It is because she is a silly little girl.
@timesplittersxsxd
Uhm?
@DevikaButts95 apparently, you don't see anything wrong because your mentality align with the OPs where men should be responsible for the most part of the relationship. I feel sorry for the victims that dated you.
@FaithfulGuardian
Lmao nope, those words are missing from my mouth buddy.
A woman should treat their man out just as much as a man should treat their woman out. Lmao.
But nice try, that was actually hilarious af. I don't think you could demonstrate my point in a more effective manner that you just don't understand reading comp. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 the fact the you used so much "Lmao" tells me you lack of good comeback to defend your point so all you can do is laughing at yourself.
@FaithfulGuardian.
Wanna try again? That was a lame and pathetic response from you. Lmao.
Like was that all you could come up with? Hell dude, even a "touche" would have been more respectable at that point. Not the "pfft you didn't have a good comeback" excuse, which I think is worse considering you tried to use "Lmao" to try and prove that? Lmao. Literally, I'm laughing at you, that's why I type it. ;)
Not to mention my point was properly defended too so like? Double Lmao at that?
@DevikaButts95 See? I was right you, now you even have to double lmao. i guess not having a man to hug at night really gets to you huh?
@FaithfulGuardian
So like, you done with the petty ad hominem "I'm too stupid to argue my point anymore and I'm clearly wrong but god forbid I maturely admit it like an adult" thing or are you still gunna continue with that? Lmao.
It's really not as insulting as you think. If anything, it sounds like you're projecting about your own inabilities to secure a relationship, probably because of how you are. Menawhile, I already have a guy to hug and literally could go out and get someone even if I didn't. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 so that's a yes? Ok.
@FaithfulGuardian
Reading comp buddy. Lmao. You're still bad at it! Like holy wow!
@DevikaButts95 and you failed to use lmao correctly, double wow!
@FaithfulGuardian
Lmao. Keep trying buddy. Maybe you'll have one insult that actually works. And also actually makes sense. Like you're so desperate but you're just getting trolled hard right now. Lmao. It's funny.
@DevikaButts95 Face it, you are tearing up inside.
@FaithfulGuardian
Lmao dude do you genuinely even believe that? You're the only one with their panties in a knot right now over anything. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 yea
@FaithfulGuardian
I don't think you even believe yourself. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 I know you believe in your lmao since you can't take a dump without it.
@FaithfulGuardian
... What? Like is that one even supposed to make sense? Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 Which one?
@FaithfulGuardian
Reading comp. Probably the comment to which I responded to? Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 which one specifically?
@FaithfulGuardian
Lmao dude can you really not figure it out?
@DevikaButts95 Neither can you, you know why? because I was right about everything, that's why.
@FaithfulGuardian
You were constantly wrong about everything! Lmao.
Hell you even assumed my opinion on something and I literally followed up in response clearly stating how I did not think that. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 I didn't assume, everyone knows you are wrong but yourself.
@FaithfulGuardian
Nah. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 nah what?
Nah. I'm not wrong.
@DevikaButts95 yea you are.
Nah man.
@DevikaButts95 yea you are
Nah dude.
@DevikaButts95 yes you are
Nah.
@DevikaButts95 Why you guys argue so much?
@DevikaButts95 yah
@independentman
Lmao. "Argue."
His ego is hurt so he just started saying random insulting stuff. This hasn't been an argument for a long while. Why do you think I'm just messin' with him at this point? Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 Messing with him? 😂😂😂 Who's gonna clean after that?
@independentman dont mind her, she just doesn't accept the fact that she lost an argument so all she can do is just doing "lmao" combos all day long. i am doing her a favor of keeping her company since she seems pretty lonely.
@independentman
Probably him too. Lmao.
First person who gives up won actually!
@independentman
No, I won long ago.
He just finally realized how to stop losing. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 nah
He's back! Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 I know you are lonely, So consider this a charity work.
He just doesn't learn. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 who is he? the guy that left you?
No, you.
@DevikaButts95 woah, me? We were never together, looks like your loneliness is getting severe...
Literally sitting on a guy's face right now. Lmao.
Of course we were never together. You can't read. I need a guy who can at least read. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 so you are sitting on a guy's face and you still haven't forgotten about me and still replying me. Admit it, you just can't get enough of me, your actions betrayed you. Typical woman behavior.
Actually me and him both find it funny to waste your time.
@DevikaButts95 is that why you didn't use "lmao" because you actually find it funny and laughed?
Nah you're mostly boring now.
@DevikaButts95 it's because you are boring and now you are making me boring
No it's because this is just sad. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 why you are sad?
Really need that reading comp boi.
@DevikaButts95 you forgot your lmao again, make up your mind already lol
I am not even going to read this my take, this is stupid
LOL I can already hear the beta males and "nice guys" tapping away lmao.
Surely all you can hear is the sound of change dangling in mens pocket as that is all you women are interested in.
@timesplittersxsxd aww I'm sorry you didn't get that promotion. It's not women's fault you can barely financially provide for yourself :)
Based on these comments, I've never seen so many bitter, angry men who obviously are not happy with their financial status ergo the amount of vitriol. This just goes to show that everyone needs to state their needs/wants/preferences/expectations on the first date. If neither person agrees completely, not tolerate/cooperate, I said AGREES 100% to what the other person wants, they don't need to go on a second date. Period.
If you wanna live that struggle life, go after that broke guy/girl. If you wanna live that glam life, go after that rich guy/girl.
And if I just want to die?
@independentman You need to see a psychiatrist, not a random on the internet
Why? You know you sounded so mean to me
1000's of scholarships just for women. Girls only leadership programs in every single school. How could this happen?
Wow this was pretty awful!
You seem worse than a prostitute. At least if a guy paid them he wouldn't have to hear this nonsense.
So greedy, selfish, and sexist.
Okay, entitled gold digging cheater. Men, stop dating broke women goddammit.
I am broke I dated only once to see how I feel and I felt like shit even she agreed to pay everything
"she will feel a huge pressure on her that he she needs to bring money in, or else no income, no family." like the pressure men had for decades?
And we're trying to tell you not to date gold diggers lol
Men are more valuable than his amount of money.
Tell me something about what value you're refering to?
His sexual value or dating value.
I don't have any of these :))
Too many of you gold digging whores walking around. No wonder so many guys just want to pump and dump.
Hmm she's trying to tell women to date guys who are financially stable and could share responsibility with them... And that would make her a gold digger? Good point, dude lol
Would you ever date a broke girl who is a loser and isn't careful with her money and plus... Has no responsibility?
@Rachel_is_gay yea I would be with broke girl why? Cuz with girl is much rich than money.
@Tiger288 I would agree with you, but only if the person isn't lazy, irresponsible and laid back as fuck.
@Rachel_is_gay Quick question, is it true that every broke person is a lazy couch potato loser? No its not. People are very unfortunate in life. I know dudes barely making money but they have the mental toughness to grind through the day to get a tiny little paycheck and not resort to selling drugs. Are these kinds of people losers? No they're not. And to answer your question yes I would date a broke girl, not broke to the point I have to pay for everything but even a shitty job making minimum wage wouldn't bother me. It would only bother me if she's ok sitting at home doing nothing with no money.
That's what I'm trying to say, dude!
@Rachel_is_gay Oh, yeah I just read your last comment to Tiger288. I just don't like when people think all broke dudes are bums.
I don't think all broke dudes are like that, it depends