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Now here is the impact a GAG question can have.. lol , I saw this question about 2am yesterday , and my initial thought was NO NO way ! Would I go though with the marriage.. Then I thought , I will watch the movie and see the story ( honestly , I'd not considered watching it prior to the question , as I thought it was just a silly rom com ) but I found it fascinating..
Now , I note they made her very African American when she was going to shoot , and the moral quandary written in was really interesting , the young lady in the wheel chair and all that.
Made me wonder , if you could stop some of these shootings , Is the outcome of her life realistic? In some cases you'd think so . Left me thinking , in his case , in those circumstances, sure marry her , I like the final scene matching with the start " What say , you wanna , Start again? "
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No. Planning a mass shooting is seriously deranged. I wouldn't be able to give my complete trust to someone like that. I have always been opposed to violence and never had thoughts of murder, let alone mass murder of innocents.
As a girl, honestly, I would take that very seriously. I wouldn’t automatically end the relationship just because of something they thought about at 15, because people can change a lot from that age. But I’d need to understand what happened, why they had those thoughts, whether they ever acted on them, and who they are now.
If I genuinely believed they had changed and there was no present danger, I’d consider the person they’ve become. But if I had any reason to believe they still had violent intentions, I would walk away and prioritize my safety. Love wouldn’t make me ignore something that serious.
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Nah that’s a bit too much lol… I’d have to sit down and REALLY think about that. I know from experience that when someone reveals something that serious, you can’t just brush it off because they were 15. I’d want to know how far they actually got, what stopped them, whether they ever got help, and who they are now mentally. People can change, but I’d definitely take something like that seriously
Honestly, if someone I loved told me that, I’d stay only if a few things were true: they were genuinely horrified by the thought now, had gotten therapy, and there was zero sign of violent tendencies today.
Fifteen is a chaotic age. I’d take it seriously, but context and who they are now would matter more than a dark fantasy from their teens.
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Sure if they understood themselves and moved past it. But there's degrees of planned.
i thought about bringing a gun to school to even a score. I suspect lots of abused kids do. Understanding myself and consequences stopped that.
some people lack the control switches and thats the problem. I never thought about hirting innocents then. Later in life i understood where they are coming from, at least some of the thinking.
hurt people hurt people. Columbine motive… they were hopeless getting girls. Solution…thus…
hopessness is bad…
its all emotional problems.
guys have other risks w girls i tgat their hormones change so much. As well people age and brains can be damaged. All risks. Person on alter may be 💯 solid and some time later… very dangerous.
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It would depend on when they dropped this information to me, what was going on mentally with their life back then as opposed to now in the moment of telling me, if I felt threatened to stay in case of retaliation before having the courage to leave the relationship, how deep their planning was, etc.
Right now I’m single, I’m putting that out there. So I’m trying to think about being in a long committed relationship that is deeply intimate, passion driven, genuine love and devotion for one another, we can’t be apart for a second without thinking and longing for eachother. To have that dropped on you hits like a ton of bricks, the discussion and navigation of the topic would truly make or break it for me.
If they said it as dark humor, like "I hate people and I would shoot up my old school if it meant removing all the scumbags. That's how much I hated everyone in that school." then I think it's okay. But I can't really see anyone making a joke about that, so it's definitely not likely. If they're serious about it, there's no chance. I'd actually be scared for myself, because I'd think there's a chance I'm stabbed in my sleep or something.
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The fact that they didn't go through with it is a good thing. I would have a sit-down talk with them about it and determine what our relationship really is, and what it should be in the future. Then I would decide to marry them or not.
If she bought something like that up it she must have been serious about it. Bought guns amo made explosive or incendiary devices. I'd drop her her brain doesn't work right.
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