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At the library, sit close to him and ask for a pencil... ☺

At the café and in the hallway it is very hard because he is always with friends...

If you have any other suggestion please comment,
Notice that We don't know each other and we don't have friends in common.

Ok. First of all, I'm just going to say that I am NOT asking this to get pity. I just wanted to make that clear.

You know that friend that gives the best love advice but is always single? I'm that friend. I am turning 20 in 3 months, and I am pretty much the most single person out there. Always have been, and by the looks of things, probably always will be. I never get hit on, guys never approach me or try to flirt with me, and I am getting really sick of it.

Here is a quick description of myself, "Inside" and "outside"

outside: 160cm, 55 kg, developped chest area if you know what I mean lol, shoulder length brown hair, round brown eyes, straight and white teeth, tan skin, people say I have a nice smile. Some occasional pimples like every human being I guess. because of my ethnic background I am quite hairy but I shave\wax everything off. Glasses (I can't wear contacts for allergy reasons.)

inside: friendly, open-minded, hardworking, sensitive, determined, creative, caring.

more info : I play the violin and love music in general, I study law, I work hard but also love parties, although I like being alone a lot. I wear some makeup, but it's pretty natural (thin eyeliner and mascara, occasional lipstick.) I love joking around, laughing is important to me. I care a lot about nature and protecting our planet. I am neither a vegetarian nor a vegan. I like team sports like volleyball

Yeah I guess that's enough info?
Is there something wrong with me? All my friends have boyfriends and it seems like all the guys are taken and I feel so alone and left out...
Please be honest with me, but not rude :)

Long story short: he started this. It's ridiculous because we broke up a whole year ago nearly. He went in a huff and wouldn't speak to me for months.

Recently, we did get talking. Our chatting turned into mild flirting, which then turned into more sexual flirting. Which turned into photos being exchanged and a rather sexual hug.

Now, I asked him at this point if he was flirting with anyone else, because, obviously, if he was... I didn't want to be flirting with him in any manner. He got angry and insisted no.

So yeah, time went on, we had a little misunderstanding and the flirting stopped and we agreed on being friends.

My birthday just passed and he wished me a nice day. Just round about this time, I'd found what looked like evidence he had indeed been flirting with another girl around about the time we had been getting close again. His birthday approached, I wished him happy birthday, but let him know I hadn't felt like it. This of course set off another argument.

He ended up telling me he didn't want to talk again and was raging with me. He told me I was vindictive and nasty. But then he'd change his mind and say I was nice, that he'd always care (that was after he said he didn't care) and then he said he could be nice to me after saying all he said.

I explained why id acted up and told him I knew about the flirting. He didn't deny it, although he said he couldn't remember flirting with anyone else when we were and told me he was considering giving us a second chance at that point. He stopped arguing at this point, he apologised... and we then hugged and left each other.

I honestly don't even know what to believe to honest. Help? What does he want?