Search Results: wait or move on

Wait or go for it?

I started developing feelings for my friend. We have a good relationship but I'm not sure if he likes me back or not. In this situation, should I try to make a move so that he knows I have an interest, or is it best to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does she love me? Do I love her?

I met this girl in 6th grade i was mesmerized by her on going beauty from her gorgeous eyes down to her spontaneous personality I've liked her for over 2 and a half years now i really want her to be mine but im scared she...

MyloveisD

Xper 2 Age: 19

How long should you wait to consider things over?

I met a guy online and we talked for a couple months before we met up. We met up and had fun long story short. But anyway we couldn’t make plans again after two weeks because we were both busy. He stopped texting me about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He says he like me, that we have a special bond and he wants to build something beautiful with me. Why won’t he ask me to be his girlfriend?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about a year now, we talk on the phone a few times a day almost everyday for hours and hangout often. I tried asking him what we were and he says he doesn’t want to rush or force things. He’s...

coconutcream

Xper 3 Age: 27

Other

Can anyone help me I’m crying and sad? am I crying tears of happiness or sadness?

I’m crying because I want move out of this studio and the wait feels like years. I try be strong but it’s hard. I’m crying because my second job that’s a warehosue job where you can choose your own shifts won’t have work...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Was I wrong to reject her?

I loved her and I hated seeing her lonely. But my life is all fucked and didn't want her to suffer with me. She said she understands and will wait for me. I couldn't stand watching her do that to herself. So I rejected...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I ALWAYS wait for his move?

malwins

Xper 7 Age: 32

Why would he ask me to wait if he wanted to breakup?

So about two months ago me and my boyfriend broke up. He told me he was too depressed, focused too much on me and not himself which was totally not true. I helped him clean his apartment, do his laundry and cooked him...

Emilyqew

Xper 5 Age: 28

What would you do?

Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years. We are in our mid 20's. Both have stable jobs. We are waiting to move in together until after marriage. I am ready for marriage, he is not. We both want to move states...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he having feeling on me?

I have this guy colleague. We hang out many times after work for gym and dinner after work. I thought he only treat me as a friend. Cuz we both moved away from our hometown to this place to work, I thought he just need...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have this guy colleague. We hang out many times after work for gym and dinner after work. I thought he only treat me as a friend. Cuz we both moved away from our hometown to this

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How long did you wait to move in with your partner?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Once the woman gives the guy her number, how much would you say the woman likes for the man to always reach out?

So I hadn’t spoken to her since Monday. We both are busy adults. I tell it to friends, one tells me “move on”, another tells me “she’s busy, she’s a single mom and working”. Another tells me “wait til this weekend to hit...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

Should I take a 3-6 month contract job after a bad job expierence to redeem my work portfolio?

I recently moved cities for a role and it didn't workout. I have been looking the last month and am recieving an offer shortly from a 3-6 month contract with likely extension. The recruiter asked if I had friends in the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I need to move on?

I was with this guy. We got along really well and had a great sex life, anyways he broke it off because of his mental health, he said he needs some time to figure things out, and that he isn’t asking me to wait for him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Have you ever had a parent or family member pressure you into getting married before doing anything like living together or sex?

My dad does this all the time but i haven't found the right guy but each time he says this it triggers me because i dont wanna wait till im married to move out and im not a virgin but im not a slut either it just feels so...

Mary087

Xper 6 Age: 27

Why would a guy get so offended I unfollowed him on Instagram? It’s no big deal?

So me and this guy have been off and on a few times because it’s been complicated between us.. his Instagram is private. I requested to follow him when we first saw each other, and did/ we broke things off due to outside...

Anonymous

(30-35)