How do I tell her about how I feel?

[Anonymous]

So there's a girl at work I really like who is currently in a relationship but they are ever so close to breaking up due to constant arguments etc, We are all good friends and we talk sometimes out of work and stuff... IF they do break up how do I go about telling her how I actually feel & How long should I wait... Obviously It'll not be instantly as she even said herself that she would be broken and at the same time if they were to break up, She wants to move on...

The girl and I are good friends compared to me and the guy.. Still friends, Just closer with the girl to the point of she trusts me enough with her "deepest" secrets...

So in regards to the actual question,
How long & How do I tell her how I actually feel?

[arodriguez664]

Depending on the length of the relationship I'd say a month to about 3. I think it would be beneficial when/if you tell her how you feel to just be honest and concise. Reading a long winded paragraph about feelings I personally would find hard to sit through. But perhaps she is the kind of person who would enjoy that? I think you should really think about her personality and use emotional intelligence to figure this out. Best of luck!

[Anonymous]

Just be there for her, be her shoulder to cry on and don’t make any moves on her just yet - she’ll appreciate it and she’ll know that you’re actually genuinely just trying to be emotionally supportive. I broke up with my ex and one of my close guy friends immediately made a move on me after a week and it was a major turn off… so I say wait until at least a month?