My crush is really cute, funny, nice, and I love everything about him. We're not best friends, so I guess you could call us friends, we talk at school and flirt with each other but that's all. So idk. but anyway one day at school someone told me that where your eyes are white, mine were a light blue, so my crush looked into my eyes and like little fireworks went off in my head, and I realized I like him. but I'm afraid to tell him how I feel because I might wreck our small friendship and I don't wanna do that. I found this poem and this is exactly how I feel about him.
So there's this boy and when he laughs he makes me smile. When he talks it gives me butterflies and just everything about his is just perfect. But he can't be mine and that breaks my heart.
And it really does break my heart becasue I can't be with him. I wanna tell him Iike him, but I don't wanna say, "Hey I like you!" I want him to figure it out, But I'm so confused about my life, and even though he flirts with me and asks what's wrong when I cry, I don't know if he likes me back. What should I do?
So there's this boy and when he laughs he makes me smile. When he talks it gives me butterflies and just everything about his is just perfect. But he can't be mine and that breaks my heart.
And it really does break my heart becasue I can't be with him. I wanna tell him Iike him, but I don't wanna say, "Hey I like you!" I want him to figure it out, But I'm so confused about my life, and even though he flirts with me and asks what's wrong when I cry, I don't know if he likes me back. What should I do?
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I gotta agree with what miszevbabyx3 said guys aren't very good at getting those hints. Also if you are already friends with him, it may be hard to figure out what is just friends flirting, and that it's more than friends flirting. It may be super nervous for you but try and just be honest and tell him you like him. Or if you are too afraid to tell him in person, have a mutual friend tell him, then he knows you are interested and will hopefully look at you a little differently also. Don't worry about the whole messing up the friendship thing, I didn't tell one of my friends I liked her and really regret it now. If you tell him you like him, you either become a couple, or there's a little awkward transition period and then things will go back to normal. Good Luck!
boys are so dumb. they can't take hints. if you keep going the way your going he's not going to think you like him. ask him to hang out with you. get a little personal. don't be shy around him that's my major mistake I make around guys. get to know him inside and out before deciding your in love with him. we all make this common mistake. after hanging out and flirting and getting used to each other take another step and another step. take baby steps. have fun. let him see the real you and let him see how great you are. hope this helped
guys can't really take hints. I liked a guy over the summer and he liked me too, but he didn't get my hints so he stopped liking me because he thought I was a lost cause basically. either wait for him to make a move or do something more direct.