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Me & my girlfriend Amber have to together for a year. We barely have sex and I’m sexually frustrated. It really pisses me off that amber refuses and makes up excuses most of the time. When we do have sex she acts like she’s doing me a favour.

Every time we have an argument. Amber complains that she doesn’t get what she wants, and mentions that she gives me sex once a week. I know relationships are not 100% about sex. But it doesn’t make sense to stay with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to me.

Amber has a history of being a slut. She herself told me she used to date two guys at once. And for that same reason is why her and her dad didn’t talk for years. She clearly wants the dick and been around the block. So why is she acting like this?

Amber evens talks about her sex life with her ex. She complains that they barely had sex and he cheated. And how she thinks it’s abuse to not have sex with your partner.

Amber talks about marriage, wants to introduce me to her dad in a month. But I don’t think I can go through with this. I feel like I’m a simp, loser, the nice guy finishing last.

I know I’m not the best boyfriend either. She complains that I don’t text her unless I message her first. Which is somewhat true, but. I also forgot to charge my phone at night. Then when I’m at work I don’t keep my phone on me. Due to the fact that I work in a hospital. But still, that’s not reason for her to act like this.

The reason I stayed is because does a lot for me. For example, my car is in the shop and she picks me up from work whenever she has time. And cooks for me when she has food at her house.

So the GAG community seems to uphold the image where men and women are at the brink of a gender war and pointing fingers at the opposite sex and saying stuff similar to "they are the bad and guilty ones" and calling members of each gender names mostly outside the dictionaries but mostly with the blues being the initiators of aggression and the pinks slowly emerging here too. Which is really sad to see and prolonged exposure to it is generally detrimental.

Then I get off from GAG and go outside, catch some fresh air, go to a retail therapy to the mall, eat out and go about my business. No one I have spoken to is hateful or feels like tolerating the opposite sex or what they do or are annoyed by the things the opposite sex does. In fact even those men I have spoken to, who are spiteful towards "some women being like gold diggers" said they don't want to live in a world without women and they don't think, that (all) girls are gold diggers and that life without girls would be less meaningful.

So here is a huge difference in the image of society GAG seems to have versus my real world experience in the environment I live in. I live in a big city (1 million population count) and pretty much not far from the town hall district.

I'm a very simplistic man and my heart gets fucking racing as soon as a beautiful woman just calls me "boy" or "young man" so having an SO call me that would just be incredible but other than that, "Mein Suße" or "Mon amour" for the woman who wants to really hit me in my German or French roots.

But what really gets me going just as much is anything to do with being referred to or even remotely associated with a Wolf by a woman. I don't know why and I can't adequately explain it but I've been tied to Wolves as a symbol for my whole life and when I started hunting with my dad as a boy I fell in love with watching them and being around them and I feel I have more in common with them than other Humans. Amongst my tattoos, two Wolves adorn my body (soon to be three) and referring to me as her "Wolf", her "Pup", her "Cub" or anything in between would get me going. The closest explanation I can think of as to why for that also stems from mein mutter calling me her "Welpe" when I was a very young boy, German for "Pup" or "Cub".

Daddy does nothing for me. Probably wouldn't during sex either unless it was roleplay and I didn't colour my hair. Babe and baby are awesome but not like super ultra awesome like the above and darling, Sweetie or Sweetheart are fine too.
For women I typically refer to them as "beautiful", "gorgeous" or some other endless line of descriptors rather than actual pet names alternating languages into French and German with "mein Suße" (My sweet) or "Schonfrau" (Beautiful young lady). The only consistent two I keep up with are Suße and Schonfrau and I guess Mon Amour is a pretty common and favourite of mine.
What are some of yours?