Does it seem like my boyfriend is trying to body shame me in a sneaky way or am I overreacting?

Turquoise26
We've been dating now for almost six months and I've noticed that once in a while he will try to make jokes or comments about my body that seem harsh to me. When I try to talk about the situation with him and how it makes me feel he gets defensive and says he sees nothing wrong with it and that I am overreacting. Most of the time if I bring up something he said that hurt me he will deny saying it even though I looked at him and heard him say it. He said if he calls me beautiful all the time and that I look like a model then the other things he says shouldn't matter and that I shouldn't doubt him. Sometimes I question if he's attracted to me because I feel like I get mixed messages. Here are some examples of jokes and comments he has made:
"Ooh it looks like your boobs are getting bigger"
"Those pants make your butt look bigger"
"If I keep ******* you like this your going to be thicker than a snicker."
"I'm going to give you a new booty (during sex)"
"Your body looks good in this dress and your body feels so soft." "Do you have hip pads on underneath it?"
"Who cares if the top on you is too small." You've got a little girl body babe to be honest but that's a good thing though because when you get older it will work in your favor."
Does it seem like my boyfriend is trying to body shame me in a sneaky way or am I overreacting?
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