Search Results: when a husband and wife cheat

Wife cheats on husband 7 years ago with Alpha male. Would you stay?

We met in college and have been together ever since. We recently had a 10 informal get together/reunion with our group from school. While there my wife spent a good amount of time talking with my first roommate from...

bobbydigitaloa

Xper 3 Age: 35

Relationships

Wife cheats on husband with Alpha male (7 years ago). What would you do?

Roostah

Xper 7 Age: 38

Relationships

Would you be okay letting your significant other travel out of the country with a friend or sibling when you weren't invited?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My wife came up to me and told me about this trip she wanted to take with her brother, asking if it would be okay if she could go. Well, I'll never tell her she can't do anything

My wife came up to me and told me about this trip she wanted to take with her brother, asking if it would be okay if she could go. Well, I'll never tell her she can't do anything (except cheat) and said "sure".

What I'm trying to process is she told me she didn't think I would care if she went on a trip with her brother. Well, I'm okay with her taking a trip, but going to a third world country in South America is a little different than going to Disney World... At least in my opinion it is.

Another issue I'm struggling with is we never took a honeymoon and now she's planned a very exotic trip to a foreign country with her brother and not her husband. I don't want to be Mr. Controlling, so I haven't really said much about it, although when the trip is brought up, I feel a bit sad inside. I believe the fact she didn't even consider how I'd feel is what's making me a bit bummed, because if I were ever presented with an opportunity to go anywhere I wouldn't even think of doing so without my wife or at least making sure she was invited. But, I guess we're all different.

She did throw me a bone and said I could come "BUT" she was afraid if that happened, her brother would feel like a third wheel. First of all, I did not ask if I could come along, but she ended up lobbing a half-hearted invite out of duty because I was a bit confused about it (I didn't get mad or mope, but she could tell it bothered me). Secondly, there's no way I want to make somebody resentful by stuffing myself into something where I was not part of the original plan and I feel like I'm being offered out of duty.

I don't feel the need to be involved in every detail of her life. She went and visited her brother last year for the weekend, and that sucked as I missed her, but she is entitled to visit friends and family and have a good time. I just find it strange she talked about going on self-help retreats with her brother and then sprung the trip on me while I'm sitting here thinking: "Um, you have a husband that mig

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Relationships

About cheating, what would you do if you caught them?

Guys and Girls what would you do if you walked in on your boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband cheating on you? Let's say you were away because of work for a long period of time. And you just happen to come home to that?...

MrChadeo920

Xper 6 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Truth : Women finally appreciating the nice guy later in life?

Are you a generally good guy who treat people well? Are you that guy who cares for a girl and helps her out whenever she needs you? Are you that guy who your female friends keep saying your such a "nice/great guy"....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Would you have a LTR with an asexual (without cheating)?

Would you have a bf/gf/wife/husband that has no sexual desire at all?

Fugue

Xper 7 Age: 36

Would you have a bf/gf/wife/husband that has no sexual desire at all?

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Husband of 20 years cheat on me?

My niece lets me borrow her account because I really need advices. I'm 20 years married to my husband. We meet in college when we were both 19. I never thought this day would happen but he cheats on me, with this girl...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

Why do many people choose their future spouse based on their parents and the society's preference?

By preference here is like their parents and society have certain characteristics or criterias of which man or woman who is considered as marriage material. For the women, she must get married to a man who makes more...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

When is the worse time of the year for someone to cheat?

Among all the days of the year, if you found out your partner or wife/husband cheated, when would suck the most? To the point it would totally disgust you...

GreenSpice

Xper 6 Age: 32

Among all the days of the year, if you found out your partner or wife/husband cheated, when would suck the most? To the point it would totally disgust you...

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Girl's Behavior

Wife Hired A Male Personal Trainer. Good or No Good?

Been married 20 years and have never entertained the thought of my wife being unfaithful. Unfortunately, me cheating is always running through my wifes mind because of my indiscretions in the early years of our marriage....

LuvMyWife

Xper 4 Age: 58

Guy's Behavior

My husband got angry, very confused?

My husband was talking about how much he wants kids last night and I was so excited to tell him I was pregnant. Just as I was going to tell him he had to leave and head to the hospital for emergency surgery. ( he's an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, do girls who were 'bitches' stay bitches after they marry or do they let down their guard?

I want to ask a question about bitchy moms. *I do not use the word bitch as a derogatory term but rather a way to express a character trait as an adjective. Now first off, this is not about my own mother. God bless her...

Thrifty

Yoda Age: 39

Family & Friends

Does it work when two cheaters are in a relationship?

My dad is a cheater and has remained married for along time. It seems cheaters do get long lasting relationships. His wife is as arrogant as he is but she cheats on him money wise. When two selfish people get married...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is it worth myself getting in this program?

There is this program that I am thinking about getting myself into. You can start at 16 anyways. You are living alone in a house, but you are working a lot. This program helps you pay rent and everything else. This...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Gone Girl: A Story About a Girl Gone Bad?

If you've seen the film, then there are so many questions that left me scratching my head. Do Americans REALLY believe marriage is such a hell that the only way to keep the status quo is by literally sleeping with the...

BelgradeBeauty

Xper 6 Age: 49

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Relationships

Why would someone cheat on their military spouse while they are deployed?

OK so I had a big crush on this guy who used to work at the gym I go to... Long story short he hit me up on Facebook telling me how he was always attracted to me & how he was wanting to chill with me (I know he wanted to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is revenge justifiable? If so, under what circumstances?

There's been a lot of revenge talk in the media. Examples: Jordan executes ISIS prisoner. University aged girl gets revenge on elementary school bully. wife beats cheating husband to death. and so on. What do you think...

loveskittens

Xper 6 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Please give me insight on "husband touching stripper" (I am desperate)?

About two weeks after my husband and I married we went on a honeymoon to Vegas. It worked out good because his childhood friend was getting married there as well so the trip served two purposes. While there he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do you discriminate against the widow?

I 'm in a little town of China. Everything goes well until last September... My husband died in a accident in his workplace when I was two months pregnant... Why he die? Be murdered or suicided? No words or testament...

sapphiramor

Xper 4 Age: 38

Relationships

Is this inappropriate? Cheating?

I work closely at a school with another teacher. We spend a lot of time together. We both have the talent to talk, and are pretty open with one another as well. Our conversations deal a lot with work but we also talk...

Anonymous

(36-45)