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Last year I had somewhat of a wild spurt after ending things with my friends with benefits guy. I didn't want to go without sex so I just moved on to the next, and then next and then next...all of the last three were one night stands unfortunately. I wanted them to be my new fb but it just didn't work out like that and I'm not complaining but the 3rd guy really did me wrong. I admit I made a mistake because at the time he was a co-worker and knew he was a man whore and had even been told he never slept with a girl more than once BUT I did it anyway because I wanted it.

I of course made him use a condom since I knew he was a man whore and while he wasn't huge he wasn't tiny in size. I would say he was around average or just below average because I did feel him and he obviously felt me because it didn't last longer than 5 minutes I'd say. I didn't even fully get off before he did which sucks but that was a while ago and I don't care about that now. We both agreed before we did anything that no one at work should know about it and we wouldn't discuss it.

About a month later at work I was informed that some of the guys were talking about how they'd like to "do me" in front of him and he took it upon himself to tell them that we had sex and it was terrible and basically that "it" was huge and he didn't feel a thing along with some other stuff that was very demeaning to me. (BTW: Most of the people I worked with were men)

Obviously it's not the case because he got off pretty quick and I felt him AND no one has ever complained and I haven't been with a ton of guys BUT why did he do that? Why did he try to make me look so bad in front of people I worked with when he is supposed to be an adult and we agreed that no one should know?! I know that it started when the guys said they'd like to do me but I never did anything bad to him and in the end the truth got stretched even further and when I confronted him about it he denied EVERYTHING!

Guys...please help explain this to me! My lesson has been learned for sure though!