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Me and my boyfriend are arguing over notes and they're values. For context I've been playing flute for 4 years and he's been on and off piano, just starting it again and re learning his notes. He showed me a pic of his notes and one of them was a dotted quarter note, eighth note, quarter and quarter (pic below) and he says that because it's a dotted quarter and eighth it would be written as "1-2 +" but I argue that it would be "1 + +" because writing out the whole thing for him would make it "1-2 + 3 4" Which equals 4.5 beats which isn't possible where as I write it as "1 + + 3 4" He argues that I'm wrong and the table he's sitting at says that he's correct... So who has it right? Me him or neither?

They have not met. was planning on introducing them next weekend. Now forget it. 😒

I was so caught off guard when he said that. It was not with a smirk or anything he seemed to think he was giving sage advice. The fact it is patronizing to me is the least of my concern -though it is no small concern.

Now I don’t know if he is just a closeted racist , sexist , bigot or ALL. None are ok. I can not think of any scenario where what he said Would be warranted.

I simply told him About my friend. He is helping me practice French bc I aim to visit distant relatives in France in the Spring. He is awesome I really enjoy his company and he is polite and kind and clever. Nothing in there says “Oof.. be careful you know how these people are”.

Also he is gay so if anyone thinks it’s jealousy.. He knows he is gay.

I can’t really see asking him

“ Why did you earn me to “ be careful” ?
🤔🤨

Bc he is black ; Gay; A guy; From a “ shit hole country” ( I don’t believe this clearly I’m illustrating what I suspect to be the type of attitude , that would compel a person to say what he said.)

My boyfriend has always been very considerate and kind. The worst I can say about him is his life has been un encumbered by any kind of major difficulty.

His parents are not Rich but his Great Aunt is a wealthy Philanthropist and she has always doted on him. She does not hide he is her favorite great nephew- They are close. She has always been very supportive of him.

But mostly this upbringing seems to make him relaxed and boyishly sweet -if sometimes ever so slightly spoiled or entitled. I don’t think this in itself should result in any kind of bigotry- unless you are already an asshole.😒

I am part Chinese part Russian he has never shown any issue with that. I’m Jewish on my fathers side. He on his Mothers. His parents are from Germany. He grew up in the states. I am rather close to his great Aunt.

Shocked. This is absolutely one thing I never thought would be an issue..

So I have this friend of mine who is in a serious relationship for about 1 year but he has been ghosting her and doesn't show his feelings and his emotional side and she really likes him and they have been on and off so when her boyfriend is off she talks to this other guy for a while and both of them are catching feelings for each other but she can't decide whether to stay with her current relationship or just break up and move to the guy she likes now is that a good thing to do if you were in her situation