Should I be ok with my boyfriend wearing grey sweatpants in public? Like to the gym or class?

[Anonymous]

So grey sweatpants season in upon us and I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have gotten into arguments over him wearing grey sweatpants or sweat pants in general. The problem is his dick is way bigger then average and like 5-6 soft so it leaves an obvious outline and he circumsized so the head leaves its own giant outline smh. So u can just see his junk and head all swinging around at the size or a regular hard on but u know he not hard cause it's just flopping around. Don't get me wrong it's a turn on and I love seeing it but I don't need other girls seeing it. We gotton in arguments over it and he got really mad because I said I woudnt care if he was small or average but he not and he said that not fair cause just because he large he can't be comfortable when at the gym or class like every else. He also sayes that I like to show off my body at the club. This is kinda true but not completely (I like to make girls jealous of my bod Im not trying to get male attention I love my bf). However he claims he only trying to be comfy but admitted to liking when people realize he bigger then them. I do kinda see his points tho cause I do wear sweats to class sometimes ans I love to be comfy plus I hate jeans. However I can't get over not wanting other girls to see. I get he's large and he can't hide the buldge all the time like it's seems like whatever shorts he wears shows a giant buldge when he sits down. All shorts seem to do that to him so I don't make a big deal out of it even though I noticed girls staring before. I just feel like he can avoid the whole sweatpants thing so I would like him too. So what should I do girls? Should I let him participate grey sweatpants season or stand my ground? Ps he hates wearing boxer briefs to control it cause he saise it squished him and ruins the point of be comfortable. Also do any of u girls struggle with something similar?

Updates

+1 y

OK I accepted I was in the wrong on this one. It's a tough pill to swallow tho any advice on how to get over the jealousy/insecurity?

[Kiwi67]

Yeah I see your point. Tbh I don’t agree with the restriction of him not being able to wear sweat pants. Doesn’t he wear underwear so that his junk won’t flap around? What I’m trying to say is it’s better for you guys to have a compromise. Also try to imagine yourself in his position. You like wearing tight leggings because they are comfy. You have every right to wear them despite’s the fact that they show off you butt. Would you like it if he said you could only wear baggy things because he didn’t like other being able to see the outline of you butt. You’d probably get upset and have an argument. Therefore try to find some common ground of him wearing briefs, or just accepting that he’s comfortable like that. Clothing shouldn’t be putting dents in your realationship.

[Asker]

I told him to wear briefs and if he doing a lot of cardio he does but otherwise he sayes their uncomfortable and ruin the point of sweatpants. This is something I tried and would agree to but he says I wear dresses with thongs so I it's the same

[Kiwi67]

Hmm, I’m sorry to hear that. I know it bothersome that he continues to wear something that you’ve expressed to him you don’t like, especially if you have tried to find a compromise. If I were in your situation I would probably be more bothered at the fact he ignored my feeling on the subject rather than him actually wearing the pants. I’m not sure what to tell you. If you guys are really serious then just let it go and know that he likes you and what he wears or what people see won’t affect your relationship. If you guys are just starting out maybe you should look for someone willing to compromise for the better of the relationship without the expense of the others emotions.

[Kiwi67]

I hope this helped you

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. We our serious besides little jealousy issues we don't have any other problems. tbf I didn't stop wearing thongs under tight dresses when he said he didn't like it but I do pay more attention to if a dress is see through or not now and he does were them less since I brought it up. It's not like he goes to mall in them

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

I don't think you're in the wrong because there's tons of other things he could wear if it's *REALLY* obvious in *those* sweatpants. I mean, you could even get him another darker pair of pants which won't show it off. But there's the basketball shorts or workout shorts that are about knee length. It's a legitimate thing to be concerned about if it's actually exposing him to the gym. If it's not really though and you're just a bit concerned, probably good to talk it through with a friend and see where this worry is coming from. Then you can deal with it easier.

[Asker]

He does wear darker one know but it still shows less obvious tho and shirts are even worse tbh

[coralee]

I mean I feel like the problem isn't really sweat pants and more that he's wearing the wrong size. I also feel like your greatly over estimating the amount of women who are going to be looking at your guys junk. If I ran into a guy where I could visibly see the outline of his junk I'd probably avoid looking at him below the belt. Women are far more likely to be lusting over your guy shirtless then they are to be staring at his junk. Hence why dick pics are the least successful pick up method know to man.

[Asker]

I try loose and tight sweats. The tight work if he wears tight underwear but he doesn't like to. Maybe I worry to much but I already had people ask me to share cause they want to experience a size like that

[coralee]

I feel like you are taking their comments way to seriously. They are probably just trying to relieve the awkwardness. Women are not falling all over him because they've seen the outline of his dick. He's large, so what? There are plenty of well endowed men out there.

[loveslongnails]

There's a comment below siting a comparison to you being told to wear a muumuu. That's not the point. The actual "size" of a girls boobs is not an equivalent comparison. It would be more like "what if she wore something sheer and clingy where you could easily see her areola and sizable nipples."
I think you should ask him WHY he feels the need to let his obviously sizable junk flop around so the whole world can "see" it in his sweats? There are plenty of different styles of underwear to hold his manhood comfortably.

[foxrider77]

You should be excited when other girls are checking out your man, it means you have good taste. I love when my partner wears tight spandex or sexy skirts in public. We have plenty of fun after. If he’s going out of his way to show girls than that’s a different story but enjoy your attractive boyfriend while you can.

[Asker]

Would u care if ur girlfriend walked around with u wearing no bra so her nipples were visible

[foxrider77]

While sweatpants with a bulge is like showing hard nipples or a thong through spandex so I would be fine if she wore a garter and people could see that. Her body part nude isn’t the same, sorry.

[Asker]

Oh was the garter sheer so u could actually see what's underneath?

[AwesomeCookie]

Wow you're concerned about his bulge. How about the simple fact that wearing sweatpants in public is God awful taste.

[Asker]

Well yea but he only does it to the gym or rainy days of class. I tried getting nice gym clothes but he sayes he there to work out not look good so he not wasting money on that

[sejla]

He needs Lashevan. it tucks everything in place while allowing the area to breathe down there www.newswire.com/.../lashevan-the-worlds-first-3d-patented-underwear-that-guarantees

https://youtu.be/WWqvQTdlCKY

[sejla]

I'm adding this one just because he's a handsome korean actor. https://youtu.be/3gSvamDqe5g

[sejla]

Just get him tucked up a bit with something comfortable and let him wear sweat pants. If he tends to be bigger even if he's in dress pants it just will be noticeable. there is no way around it.

[Asker]

Wow this is awesome and thank u for finding it for him. However I was not sure it will work 😣. The underwear points the penis up and I'm worried there won't be enough room. Like I said his thing is really long even soft. He a swimmer and a lot of swimmers place there dick up to give it more room but he coudnt he had to put is sideways and it would legit gtoich his hip. Yea it does show in dress pants and that's the worse cause everyone feels it ok to talk about then 🙃

[sejla]

The guy sung hoon was a swimmer. That was the first thing he did before he went into modeling and acting. I mean I don't know his size so... lol

[sejla]

the guy in the second video.

[Asker]

He 5-6 soft and it grows if he excited... 🙃

[Asker]

My guy is 5-6 inches soft so like a normal erect penis before he erect 😐

[rajni2699]

Stay calm dear and allow your boyfriend to wear what he wants, otherwise it will create differences between you and your relationship, tell him that i got jealous when people see yours in pants like these things so he will understand your concern, otherwise i think gift him tight underwear which makes his outline less.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. He won't wear tight underwear and everyone telling me to just get over it so I think I have to accept the fact the his print will just be there

[rajni2699]

I think u just forget other things and enjoy what your boyfriend had.

[Asker]

Hmm ok I'm coming up with plains to get over it cause I realize ur right thank u

[rajni2699]

Welcome

[Moonchild714]

Be honest you like the men looking at you. Women don't dress just to make other women jealous we do it more to flaunt to men what they can't have. So so what's good for the Goose is good for the Gander... If you don't want him comfy then you stop making yoyr ass comfortable!!! Have faith and Trust in your Man and Relationship or let him Go be with a woman who will appreciate him...

[Asker]

So if ur man had a big dick ull be cool with him showing it off to other women

[Moonchild714]

My man does have a big dick and I don't dictate what he wears. And yes women look and I laugh because I know I'm getting and their not. Also, it doesn't matter what he wears his cock shows very well whether shorts, sweats, jean, or dress pants his cock shows prominently through all. The type of clothing doesn't matter with a big cock. I he with me and only wants me I'm 100% SECURE with Our Relationship and I'm 20 years older than him.

[Moonchild714]

I like how side-stepped youbcan flaunt your body but he can't flaunt. When you know men are Fantasizing about you right there at the Gym, Women look think hmmm and move on, many men linger in the looks and thoughts and they usually talk about the women.

[Asker]

Ur right any thoughts on how I can get past my jealousy

[Asker]

Ur right but I don't know how to get better. Ur guy has a big one too and u dealt with it so I'll really appreciate help

[Moonchild714]

You just really need to realize he chose you, you're the one he's coming to, the one that that cock stands to attention for no one else. I have No Power over Other People if I choose to stay in Misery being Jealous because they are looking and smiling it's me that's miserable not them and then I make him miserable snd that's the last thing I want. I was insecure at first because I would say of our age difference and he kept reminding me he was waiting over two years for me to become comfortable with dating him I'm the Only womsn he's wanted for a couple years not those younger women who only want to know what his cock looks like underneath the clothing. He said I never lingered in that area I always looked into his eyes when we talked and he loved that about me he thought this is a woman who knows size isn't everything...

[Moonchild714]

Remember he chose you you're the one he wants. Yeah it's flattering when others look and find us attractive interested but he knows they don't find him appealing they are curious about his one appendage you are the one that loves him flaws and all.

[Asker]

That's really sweet actually

[Asker]

I saw at another question u go in hot tubes nakes with friends. Does he do that to with u?

[Moonchild714]

Yes, I wouldn't unless he was with me or it was just a girls thing...

[Asker]

OK so u let others see u guys naked of the opposite sex but only if ur together. That makes sense

[Asker]

I don't think I'll ever get there but I am making a plan to get over my problem.

[Moonchild714]

Letting others see you naked isn't for everyone. I could play Strip Poker but wouldn't do the Hot Tub thing wouldn't happen when I was younger.

[Moonchild714]

Try to figure out why you feel threatened by others just seeing a bulge not his actual dick.

[Asker]

Cause it doesn't really make a bulge it kinda just hangs down his leg and makes a print. So I low key feel like there seeing his actual dick. I have a plan to get over it tho

[Moonchild714]

Ok, well if you need help and to talk you can pm me anytime.

[Asker]

Can u pm me actually I would like to pm u but I can't yet since I'm level 1

[Ari_ana]

I would say to just let him be if you do the same. Both of you draw attention so make sure to let everyone else know that you are together. Hold his hand, kiss him if they look. Fuck it, grab his ass or get close to him so others know whats yours. As simple as that.

[Asker]

Yea I'm kinda expecting that I should just let it be. We are very affectionate on public. I worry more about when I'm not there tho. He friendly and doesn't realize when when girls are flirting unless they say something sexual

[Ari_ana]

Anyone can tell when another is flirting. He probably feels the same way when your out in public alone.

[Asker]

True he suspicious of half my guy friends

[Lavinnykins]

So I just read about grey sweatpants and completely agree... never been SO EXCITED as when my boyfriend sold his pair! They were hideous... and let's not even mention the elasticated ankles!!! So it really is is personal preference as to what he wears, HOWEVER, if you are usually out together when he wears them, I'd be so smug if I saw other women staring at his crotch knowing that they're probably jealous and I'm the lucky one with him. Don't see it in a bad way, be proud of that, regardless! Guys like a bit of attention no more than women do when we have a great outfit on, guys just like the looks realising a woman is checking them out... I can't deny it, my boyfriend wears slim fit tracksuit bottoms for work and even I can't resist staring at his little touchie.

[Anonymous]

If you trust him, I don't think it should be an issue. Remember, it takes two to tango. If any girl were to try anything, he can shut it down and not reciprocate. The only way it can turn into anything more is if he allows it to. If you don't trust him not to flirt around behind your back, I would reconsider the relationship, but if you trust him, I'd just let him be comfortable.

[Asker]

Thank u. Thanks for not yelling at me that it's my fault haha I will work on trusting him more. He a good guy and hasn't given me a reason to not trust him

[Opinion Owner]

No problem! It's not your fault, it's pretty natural and common for people to feel the way you do. It sounds like if he's been trustworthy so far, you likely have nothing to worry about!

[Pinky_what_why]

Listen I get the point that u don't want girls to look but they will if he wear them or not. Tbh don't study those girls he's YOURS and that belongs to u, so don't try to stop him from being comfortable because of those... In conclusion just ignore them, apologize to your boyfriend and agree to the sweatpants thing. 😇😇😇💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥💞💞💞❣️❣️❣️

[24brownish]

Aaaand u r from the Caribbean;) yes?,

[Pinky_what_why]

@24brownish Yes

[24brownish]

:) i got that from you "dont study that" phrase. I worked with caribbean management... when i was working in oil n gas... lively people

[Pinky_what_why]

@24brownish Hehehe I'm guessing because we treat each other well u never forget 😊💯🔥‼️

[24brownish]

Haha.. no i hated two of them cuz they were always on my ass..
But rest were so fun to be around with... miss that accent.
They're all like work hard party harder

[Pinky_what_why]

@24brownish YESSSSSSSSSSSS Always work hard do u can party harder 😊💯🔥‼️ Also bush them haters off PERIOD 💯🔥‼️

[24brownish]

Yeah i got in one's face and i was cussing in that caribbean style.. did learn a few things from them.. even their cussing sounded fun 😂😂 especially they pronounce "moders caunt"

[Pinky_what_why]

@24brownish Ita actually "ya mudda cunt" 🤭🤭

[24brownish]

Hahaha yeah thats what i said to the one who got in my face. 😂😂

[Pinky_what_why]

@24brownish Lmao hmu

[ForteExe]

This is hilarious. It's the female version of guys who complain about the girlfriend with a low cut blouse or leggings as pants that clearly show her camel toe. No, I don't think you should be okay with it anymore than I think a guy should be okay with his girlfriend/wife leaving the house with her tits/ass/pussy hanging out. If you show all that to the world, then there's no significance to when you show it to your boyfriend/girlfriend. At that point, you mine as well just have an open relationship.

[ForteExe]

You're not wrong. Don't give in to bad advice.

[peachybaby]

They’re sweatpants, your boyfriend can wear whatever he wants. So can you. He can’t control his dick size, let him be comfortable and not control your boyfriend because it’s gross.

[Asker]

His dick print gross or my controlling?

[peachybaby]

You trying to control him

[Asker]

Fuck...

[peachybaby]

Like I understand your concern but they are not a comfortable clothes. It’s just like a girl wearing leggings and guy saying they can’t wear them because it shows off their ass. It’s not really fair.

[Asker]

Yea ur right thank u

[cavmanier]

Leggings show off way more on a girl than sweatpants do on a guy. And that's not even counting women showing off their breasts.

[peachybaby]

@cavmanier so what, leggings are comfortable and don’t even say anything about a women showing off something you probably stare at in public. Clothes are clothes and controlling what someone wears in never okay. It’s fine if you don’t want to wear something but you have no control over what someone else does. Sweatpants season exist for a reason, just like sundress season for men. Leggings don’t show off anything. They’re just tighter pants but they’re comfortable. Men’s clothes don’t typically come as tight as women’s do. Men’s tights and leggings still exist though. Women showing off their breasts is also just like a man who takes his shirt off to show his “ripped” body. It also helps confidence, which is never a problem.

[cavmanier]

"so what"
I'm responding to her not wanting him to show his body. The so what is that women still show more than men in sweatpants.

Your whole paragraph has nothing to do with what I said. You just assumed a bunch of ways you think that I think. That was an unrelated lecture.

[5yrup]

lmfaooooooo what a pathetic argument, if i were a guy i'd dump u for stressing me over wearing comfortable clothes because you can't see past the sexualisation of a bulge

[Asker]

Well I realized I was wrong and I'm trying to get over it now 🙃 it's tough tho I have a plan

[stardust101]

Is he going commando? That’s the only way you can pretty much see through his sweatpants like you say. And how is that comfortable anyway? Hmm... it sounds like you wear what you want, so let him wear what he wants and your jealousy is your problem only, not your boyfriend’s.

[Asker]

No he doesn't go commando he wears boxers. I think his balls just push up his just more cause there also big... I don't know the outline isn't super obvious but the head is and once u see the head u know exactly what the rest of it is. If the head wasn't so obvious I think I'll be more ok with it

[stardust101]

Get over it and stop trying to make him fix YOUR issue.

[Asker]

Sorry 🙃

[laurieluvsit]

just have him wear a jock strap and it won't "flop around" that way... lol

[Asker]

Are they comfortable? I suggestes compression shorts or boxer briefs but he saying being squished isn't fun and defeats the point of the comfortable sweatpants

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, jock straps come in many different varieties, some do compress and others, called "socks", or "sox", just let it dangle there but there are many varieties in between for the desired fit and look.

And they even have humorous ones that you could buy him as a funny gift



These are the socks. They are also called strapless jockstraps since they have no thigh straps, only the one at the waist

[Asker]

Awesome thank u I'll look into it. I think I'll be less jealous if his head wasn't so obvious. Smh it let's everyone know that that giant thing is definitely his dick 😂😅

[Asker]

Could u pm by chance. I have a plan to get over my jealousy but I would really like ur opinion since u don't have jealousy issues and ur open with the human body

[KatherineJ]

It drives me crazy seeing people wearing sweatpants unless they are actually working out, or just lounging around the house. It makes me think they really don’t care how they look.

[Asker]

Tbf he works out hard and only tries to wear them to class on really cold or rainy days

[KatherineJ]

At the end of the day, only you and his opinion mattter.

[cavmanier]

I find it bizarre that people think sweatpants look bad. They're both made out of the same thing essentially. Sweatpants are just warmer and more comfortable.

[Elliegirl]

I would let him wear sweatpants if he wants to. I know it makes you feel uncomfortable about other girls seeing his bulge, but it’s not worth fighting over. You know he’s going home with you, so if other girls wanna be jelly over what your man has, let them be jelly.

[Asker]

But it's not just a buldge it mostly the outline of the head I feel like that's just to much

[Elliegirl]

I suppose you could ask him to wear shorts under his sweatpants. Maybe the extra layer of fabric will help hide the outline. It’s worth a try. I doubt he’ll complain about being uncomfortable by wearing gym shorts along with his boxers and sweatpants.

[Asker]

That's actually a really good idea thank u

[Steffy33]

I'm totally with you there darlin and I know exactly how you feel. Yes if he is big it will show in anything except for large sagger pants that he wears off ass and it's cool too I ain't sayin nothing else but he likes sweatpants and probably also likes showing off. U don't just like to be on his arm and have the attention of the other bit... staring at your guy and then after at u b all like damn? I think you should.

[Asker]

If u saw a guy with a big print would u stare or no?

[Steffy33]

No I would discreetly check it out and be like damn but I meant it like that I know how u feel cause I also have a very big boy who wears sweat and shorts etc. But I just enjoy people who are looking at it

[Asker]

Are u OK with ur female friends k owing his size?

[Steffy33]

I'm totally fine with it. Actually I enjoy it alright. Them beaches are envious of me. I love it and what would they do? Jump him? They couldn't figure out how to take it.!! No I enjoy everything and I love going places like the mall. I usually make sure he's commando under sweats or such. The people always do that same routine. Look at him, down, one second, up, and then look at me like all damn!! Lol. I know what they are thinking. " How the f..." lol..

[Asker]

Oh I see I don't if u would be better off if I was like u 😅

[Steffy33]

This is true. Is why I wrote you. I think it's a darn shame that you don't just enjoy it like I do. You really should!! Most girls would not have our guys at all. Too scared. And our guys too. They tried girl who they couldn't do because of their "problem " so stop worrying and have fun!!

[Asker]

Is there any way u could pm me so I could ask some advice?

[drummer73]

It does show I get a lot of looks when I wear mine...

[nomazi]

So does he not know you can clearly see his penis outline? Boxer briefs can conceal that pretty well.

[Asker]

He does know but he says it always shows so he stopped caring

[nomazi]

Ahhh

[Alpha09]

Your worried about his grey sweatpants? That's what you guys are fighting about. Sounds like you're bored. He's a grown man and he can wear whatever he wants, same as you. Sweatpants should be the least of your worries in a relationship. My advice, grow up appreciate how hot your boyfriend is. Don't be controlling and insecure. Him and that bulge come home to you.

[QueenTanya]

He just wants to be comfy. Let him. Let those girls stare, it's better to know that he's yours.

[Asker]

Hmm ok I think I'm realizing ur right but would u really be ok with like even ur friends seeing the outline

[QueenTanya]

Sure, I see the problem but I don't see why it's a big deal if your man is loyal

[Asker]

He is, I just don't want other tempting him and I know girls will try of they find out what he packing but thank u

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

Since i saw your update after the reading i'll tell you this. Just remember that it makes things fair if you let him wear em while you wear your stuff to the clubs. That you letting him wear something he feels is comfy means you made him happy on that part at least.

[sapphireruby]

I feel like there is a humble brag in there somewhere XD Anyway this is a tricky situation. I can understand feeling insecure, but try to remember that you do the same thing to make other women jealous. You love your boyfriend you said it your self and don't want any male attention and he's the same way right.
Next time your feeling jealous or insecure repeat a mantra in your head to remind you that you have nothing to fear.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Sure it upsets you but the only thing you can do is ask him
to wear a size bigger , i could never go out in public with
a bulge showing in my sweat pants. When i was a teen
i would show my boner through my Athlete shorts and
this one girl would laugh at me when we all played ball
but that happens when your teen and pops boners all
the time but also look at some girls who wear leggings
have camel toes or form fitting shows their ass off.

[smiledoll]

Mm well u got to look at it from both pespectives.. maybe u can buy him some sweat pants that are blk or dark grey blue something to not show so much I know what you mean... my ex wore my baby blue pjs and you could see it iam just thank full it wasn't hard it was sleeping.

[Asker]

He has started wearing dark colors but the head still shows and when he moves u can see it swinging around

[Anonymous]

Damn. What a read. Can't believe I read all of that. This is really hard situation.

Ok. I understand both you guys feelings on the matter. How about compromise the whole clothing issue? If it's that huge of problem have a whole conversation though I don't think It'll matter much because you mentioned his print shows in other clothing of his as well. . . hmm. Like I said, a nice compromising would do.

The question is 5 days old, hope you guys worked it out though

[Asker]

What would u suggest as a compromise

[Opinion Owner]

Dress each other or seek the other's approval before leaving for the day. Sounds like a crazy idea but it's just a suggestion. I think you mentioned him having a problem with your club wear (I don't remember); maybe you guys can do a trade and turn it into a sexy game only between you two. Or he can just wear underwear so his penis is going anywhere?

[Asker]

Are u suggesting we show more? Also yea he always were under wear but he tends to have a major outline in anything that not jeans

[Opinion Owner]

No don't Show more. When I said between you two, I meant no outside people, in your own space and home. Just a suggestion though. This is a hard situation

[Asker]

We walk around naked at home 😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

then y'all can wear whatever you want as long as you aren't walking around naked. Liking the idea of being admired isn't always a bad thing, no matter if you have a partner or not

[Gottabsavagee]

Lol well I think you are just jealous :D It's ok if he wears sweatpants, but make sure he wears boxers too...

[Asker]

He does wear boxers but it does leave a dick print. Any advice on how I can get over it?

[Gottabsavagee]

I mean other guys might have that print too, it just varies between sizes.

As long as he ain’t giving attention to others, you’re good. Imagine it as you can look but you can’t touch

[Asker]

If u saw a guy walking around with a big print would u be looking?

[Confidenceoverload]

LMFAO WHY DID I READ THE ENTIRE THING
AND FUCK IM SUPPOSED TO BE ConfidenceOverload but you know then you say a guy has a soft dick almost the same size as me hard like ffs
And I’m almost 18 so if you don’t like how I talk you can suck hitlers left testy

[Asker]

Sorry l don't want to hurt ur confidence 😅 my boyfriend size is extremely abnormal so don't let it stress u most people will never see something like his. Also it has its fair share of downsides. Every size has it advantages and disadvantages just learn how to work what I were given

[Confidenceoverload]

WHY LMFAO IM ABOVE AVERAGE SO IM NOT JEALOUS I JUST DONT LIKE TALKING ABOUT THIS LMFAOOOOOOO

[Asker]

Alright my bad

[Confidenceoverload]

Eh don’t worry I could careless
Life is boring so these types of questions make it less boring lmfao

[loveslongnails]

Not "your bad" ? If he doesn't want to talk about it, why answer your post, or even read it? Then he yells at you in CAPS? *eyeroll* Children.

[Confidenceoverload]

@loveslongnails eh elderly i understand it takes you longer to get a joke

[jadoe]

I do understand but u can't tell him not to wear it. He can't help he's blessed just like a woman who's got big boobs she can't hide it. Just trust he's not flirting can't pick fights over something u both can't control.. I tell my guy to wear his sweats just to see his😍😊

[Asker]

Lmao thank u u may be right I'm just laughing cause be almost told me the same exact thing

[jadoe]

😊...

[MrHopper]

I would be more worried about his complete lack of style

[SexyAshh]

Girls wear yoga pants and low cut tops.

I see no issue with it. Of course other girls will look but nothing will come out of it

[Asker]

Yea that's what he told me cause I wear legging all the time...

[SexyAshh]

I wouldn't worry about it

[Asker]

Thank u. Everyone telling me to calm down so I'm thinking he may be right. It's just I know he gonna get approached more by girls cause it's such an impressive size smh I guess I just have to trust him

[SexyAshh]

Yeah i would.

If you can't trust him, you shouldn't be with him🤷‍♀️

[Rfvgtyh]

You sound like you do the same thing if not worse. He’s not even trying to get women attention just trying to be comfy. You’re trying to make people jealous. Isn’t that more wrong?

[Asker]

Yea I see what ur saying but I don't wear see through stuff it's just figure hugging dresses ur can't see me beat ass or nipples plus everyone wears tight dresses to the club. In sweat pants u can see his whole dick...

[Rfvgtyh]

Yeah but you still said you were trying to make other women jealous. I don’t really think anybody gives a fuck what you wear except for men who might be attracted to you

[Asker]

Yea but also sayes he enjoys making other guys jealous of his size so I don't think it's that weird

[Rfvgtyh]

Wtf you weirdos enjoy each other

[zaharaa]

if anything this would probably turn me on more than make me angry at him, fuck it sometimes I show some cleavage and wear tight clothes to show shit off he could do the same type of thing if he'd like

[Asker]

But I feel like his outline more comparable to having ur nipples poke out in a semi see through shirt. Are u Comfortable with that?

[zaharaa]

interesting thought, but I feel like it's a little exaggerated but I mean he is huge sooo I don't know hahaha it's hard to say

[Asker]

Tbh I feel the main problem is the head. It's really big and he circumsized so the thr print always shows so I just fell like it gives a lot of detail

[Asker]

If u saw a guy with a really big dick outline would u be checking it out?

[zaharaa]

this might be a weird question but how big is he when he's hard? and yea it probably is some detail but I'm sure it's a lot better for him than wearing jeans

[Asker]

Lets just say he in the one percent statically...

[Asker]

Yea I do fell a little bad cause I hate wearing jeans myself and wear legging a lot

[zaharaa]

oh my, he's huge I would be scared. and yeah I would just let him wear the sweats

[Asker]

Yea I do still get nervous right before sex and we can't have penitration without good for play or else it's just pain but I do like it a lot

[Asker]

Would u still be turned on by other girls seeing it?

[zaharaa]

of course, a bunch of women fantasizing over my man and only I can have him

[Asker]

If a friend asked to see it but promised not to touch would u let her?

[zaharaa]

hmm if it was my best friend then sure because I trust her but he would have to be okay with doing it because it is kind of odd

[Asker]

Haha ok my best friend asked to see and I was like fuck no 😅 I was just wondering ur what u would do

[zaharaa]

it depends on how much you trust them and to me it's like fuck it you know it's not like she's going to fuck him

[Asker]

Haha I'm conflicted cause I'm also turned on by making other girls jealous but at the same time I'm like really protective of it and like no it's all mine

[zaharaa]

that's fine there's nothing wrong with that but maybe you would really enjoy it

[Aaliyahvcxz]

@funlovinggirl82 watch out, your girlfriend sounds like me, willing to risk it all :P 😋😋😋

[Asker]

@Aaliyahvcxz what do u mean?

[Asker]

Have u ever showed of a partner before?

[zaharaa]

I haven't ever really felt the need too, I've never been with a horse dick before

[Asker]

If u had a guy with a horse dick would u feel the need to show it off? And if u knew a guy that was decently attractive that had a horse dick would u be tempted to hook up with him just to try it?

[zaharaa]

I would only show it off to just my best friend and yeah I would definitely want to try it at least once

[Asker]

So u would have sex with the guy just to try it? Would u want to try it badly enough to approach the guy first?

[zaharaa]

honestly yeah that's the type of person I am anyway 😂 if I want it then I'm gonna go get it my self

[Asker]

Lmao that why Iim nervous I know girls will be trying to smash him left and right if they knew 😅

[zaharaa]

in all honesty I wouldn't do it if he had a girlfriend

[Asker]

OK that does me me feel better

[Asker]

U would just look?

[zaharaa]

yup I would just take a mental note of it

[Aaliyahvcxz]

What I meant was don’t show your “friend” because she could be like ME... willing to risk everything to try him out 🙃😂😂😂😂😂

[BlackRoseFairy]

To get over your insecurity try to remind yourself that he chose you for some reason. He could've been with someone else, but he is with you.
So next time you see him in sweatpants, instead of being jealous, try to think that he's your guy... 😉

[Asker]

Do u think it's a good idea to have him show off around me for a while so I just get over it?

[BlackRoseFairy]

That could also work. although I wouldn't use the words "show off" when talking to him..

[Asker]

Well I already got a plan that involves him showing it off. It gonna be torcher for me but hopefully it helps

[arabgoddess]

Either he wears a larger size trackies so it's baggy and won't show or he wears compression shorts under the trackies to keep it in.. I've seen guys do that at the gym. It's much easier working out without it moving all over the place

[Asker]

He wore baggy but the head still shows a lot and he dosnt like compression

[arabgoddess]

Then change the trackies to a black colour

[Asker]

I did but like I said he 5-6 inches soft so u can alway see it flopping around smh

[AuroraRoseat]

He can wear whatever he wants just as you should be able to wear whatever you want. People are going to look at HIM crazy, not you. And if they assume things about you because of him, that just shows how stupid they are, doesn't it?

[Asker]

Well I know there not looking at me and I'm not worried about their opinions I just worry that girls may try to hook up with him because they want to try a larger size...

[AuroraRoseat]

Hmm. Unfortunately, there will always be those types of women. I'm sure you trust your boyfriend enough to repel their advances so I don't see any issue.

[Asker]

True, I guess it's wrong for me to treat him differently because of his size

[Parakeeta]

Is he comfortable with gay men salivating over his meat?
🤠⛰🤤

[Parakeeta]

Duck tape it to his leg. Problem solved

[Asker]

Eh he claims he doesn't really pay attention especially if he at the gym he just doing his own thing as long as they don't approach its all good. I kinda believe him cause he does seem oblivious when girls are hitting on him and checking him out

[boggboss]

But what he said is fair you also like to show your body off in clubs even if it's not for other guys other guys will have a look so what he is doing here is the same

[Dolph_in05]

You can’t expect him to not wear the sweatpants to feel good about his body, when you wear your club outfits to feel good about your body. They are just pants. Guys see the shape of our tits no matter what kind of shirt we have on.

[Asker]

Ugh ur right but this woudnt be a problem if he was normal sized down there ingotta relax

[Rob171977]

For me I favor sweatpants much more than jeans or khakis because with jeans the waiste is always to big and thighs hips and crotch (mostly because of my size of my dick) is always so tight and extremely uncomfortable especially for long periods of time. Sweatpants contour to the shape of my waiste while leaving plenty of breathing room in the hips thighs and especially crotch which makes wearing them for extended periods of time much more comfortable

[Rob171977]

And briefs especially boxer briefs are the worst and most uncomfortable thing to wear. It squishes and confides my dick so bad which is why I never wear them. The only time I ever wear boxers not briefs or boxer briefs is if I have to go to the ER or hospital. Other than that I won't wear any

[SweetTrish]

sure I am not sure why there should be a problem, I don't think anyone show be able to tell anyone what they want to wear. Have fun with it

[Asker]

U woudnt get jealous if ur friends or other girls could see ur man junk?

[SweetTrish]

no I don't want a to be with someone that would be jealous if someone was looking at me and I wouldn't be jealous either

[Asker]

That sounds pretty fair

[SarahsSummer]

That’s really tacky and if I were caught looking, it wouldn’t be out of admiration. I look the same way at a clown. If he insists on wearing sweats, he should have the decency to wear firmer underwear.

[booprincess2]

if its creating an issue between the two of you and its showing off that much then he should respect you and not do that. for one its not appropriate I sure as heck would not want to see that even if I was single. I sure as heck wouldn't let my other half do that cause its not appropriate

[Asker]

Thank u every other girl here said to just let him🙃

[booprincess2]

and that is why guys do it because this world no longer has women with morals. this is why guys go around with their pant half way down past their butt.. all I know is if my sons do this I will for sure kick their butts.

[Asker]

Oh no he doesn't sag. Do u think it's unfair that he can't wear clothing that normally isn't a big deal or do u think that just a con of having a big dick he needs to deal with

[booprincess2]

yes and no cause within reason women or men should be allowed to wear what they feel within reason. he should take your feelings into consideration and discuss it. and honestly if he doesn't care about your feelings maybe you need to move on

[Asker]

He does care and like I said he doesn't wear them often but he complains that be would like to wear them to the gym or on cold days cause that's what he bought them for 🙃 and now when be dies wear them he uses darker colors to try to hide it I don't think it helps tho

[booprincess2]

well then as long as he takes your feelings into consideration and taking that counter measure of trying to wear darker colors to hide it then I don't see a problem with it as I can you want to be comfortable at the gym. as long as he's only wearing it at the gym or at home and not just out to wherever I guess

[Asker]

Yea I'm still torn but thanks for the advice j really appreciated u taking my side I feel less crazy now

[booprincess2]

no problem I hope it all works out for the both of you. I know what it feel likes to see or feel things and with no actual insight or when no one is on your side you start to feel crazy. glad I could help you feel little less crazy

[Asker]

Yea everyone was telling me I should just be ok with anyone seeing it if I trust him

[flaskhalffull]

I would want my man to be comfortable, and I wouldn't be with him if I couldn't trust him enough to wear sweatpants. People will always look but it's when they touch it's a problem.

[Asker]

Any advice on how to get over the Insecurity/jealousy

[Anonymous]

Is he expected to be ok with you wearing the standard tights as pants (cloth bodypaint), see through clothes, baggy easily over exposing clothes (rompers), jean thongs (booty shorts), and all other general female attire?

and don't pretend you are one of the rare few females who doesn't dress in the attire almost every female 12-40 wears.

[kim45456]

We dont show our vagina

[kim45456]

You male wholre

[kim45456]

You do exagerate. Hiw often do you see a girl with booty shorts?

[Asker]

@kim45456 tbf if u live in Cali like me u see girls in booty shorts or yoga pants like every day of the year..

[kim45456]

Every day? Even in winter?

[kim45456]

I see girls in booty shorts but not often

[Asker]

@kim45456 in socal winter doesn't really ever get below 50 and most of the time it's in the 60. so locals swich to yoga pants but tourist come her for winter to enjoy the weather since it warm to them and u can still see short shorts. We don't really have winter

[Opinion Owner]

@kim45456 "We dont show our vagina"
You all seem to say that, but I beg to differ.




This is so common, it's laughable.
But you keep being a triggered bitch.

[Opinion Owner]

When winter comes... women wear cloth body paint usually without underwear. (tights)

[kim45456]

It is funny how you getriggered by female body and no where I live that is not common

[kim45456]

Most of the girls in pics are at the beach. So thst is normal and I see enough naked old fat men near the sea

[Opinion Owner]

@kim45456 You seem to be confusing a complaint with what you are doing, which is repeat posting multiple entries in succession which shows you sat there at your keyboard and were so triggered you had to repeat post. I didn't. I went about my weekend like a normal human being with a life.

"most girls are at the beach" ... what are you looking at?
ONE girl is at the beach. Jesus lady you are mental. MOST of them are in class or in public areas like parks.

[kim45456]

And? Why do men piss in public. I have seen it a lot

[Opinion Owner]

@kim45456 What the fuck does that have to do with anything? A drunk male pissing in a dark corner is nothing like basic exposure of your sexual parts in basic public and around children.

[kim45456]

Sexual parts like?

[kim45456]

And kids dont give a fuck about it.

[kim45456]

8-10 years old kids do watch porn or have seen a naked female body.

[Opinion Owner]

@kim45456 It doesn't matter if kids give a fuck or not. It isn't right to expose yourself to them. The same could be said about a man exposing his dick or balls to a child, but society wouldn't allow it like they do women because it's wrong.

[Anonymous]

Get over yourself. Unless you tape your boobs flat so that no one can see them you are being a raging and hysterical hypocrite. He should dump you fast for trying to control him because you choose to be insecure.

[binginghockey]

I’m not reading all this sorry and don’t follow me to invite me to your question right after I follow you back

[Asker]

Sorry

[fionaglenanne]

I think it is ok if you are going to a place like starbucks or panera but if you ar going to a restaurant then maybe he should wear pants or something.

[CarpetDenim]

Have him wear compression shorts under them. I don’t understand how he could be comfortable working out if everything is swinging around anyway.

[Asker]

I don't know he wears compression or briefs on cardio days but other then that he hates them and sayes there not comfortable. Tbh I kinda believes him cause when we're home alone hell walk around naked and let evething swing around and he says it's more comfortable for his balls that way which are also large smh

[Anonymous]

I feel you should be okay with him wearing what he wants it's his body and he should be allowed to be comfortable

Does he not wear underwear under his pants if he did surely his dick wouldn't swing around

[Asker]

He wears boxers and he so long that it hangs down a pant leg and it does swing around even with boxers. I doubles checked once if he was wearing underwear and he was

[LowSelfSteem]

Flip the situation around How would he feel if you have/had large breasts and other lads could see your tits and fanny.

[Asker]

Haha I have small boobs but he woudnt like it if others can see my nipples. I show my butt of a little (I don't put booty pics on insta) tho so he feels like I'm already flaunting

[LowSelfSteem]

Say How would you feel If I wore a really tight yoga pants and showed my fanny.

#SmallBoobsClub

[Asker]

Personally I woudnt care and tbh I oy this way with him. I wasn't this way with my exes either. He just large enough were I now girls will have sex with him just so they can say they tried a big dick that's why I don't want him advertising it

[LowSelfSteem]

Fair enough But is he the type to let other girls touch it

[Asker]

No he woudnt he wasn't even a fuck boy when he was single but I know he like the attention he gets from it sometimes. Even guys seem to respect him more when they see it its weird af but I seen it happen.

[LowSelfSteem]

You should put a sticky note on it saying "My dick"

[Asker]

Honestly I would but that would attract even more attention to it 😂

[LowSelfSteem]

When you wear tight tops Do your nipples stick out?

[Asker]

No I'm small chested and I wear a bra when I'm in public

[Asker]

I have a really big butt tho and even when I wear a regular bathing siute my checks tend to turn it into a thong...

[LowSelfSteem]

Smacks @FunLovingGirl82's massive Bum Cheeks

[Asker]

Momma blessed me ok

[Asker]

But only on the bottom half 😂

[LowSelfSteem]

Are you shaven or Hairy?

[Asker]

Haha I'm not comfortable putting that here u can message me if u want to ask more personal stuff

[justcurious2019]

LowSelfSteem you having a little fun?

[LowSelfSteem]

@justcurious2019 Please dont reply to every status I put, I'm starting to think you might fancy me

[justcurious2019]

Sorry @LowselfSteem i was just curious i will not respond to any more of your opinions

[NaughtyWife81]

Does he complain when you show off your chest? Is take the looks he gets as a compliment because that's your man and you get that dick no one else

[Asker]

No he doesn't complain about my chest I'm actually kinda conservative there it's my butt. He gets mad if u can see the outline of a thong through my dress. I do try to hide it tho I don't do it on purpose it just hard to hide sometimes when wearing a tight dress and what else are u suppose to wear to the club.

[NaughtyWife81]

Yeah when they get that tight, you go without lol I've learned that over the years lol

[NaughtyWife81]

I'd say be proud of his buldge lol

[Asker]

Lmao I suggested not wearing underwear but he didn't like that he sayes my butt stretches the fabric and can make it a little see through 🙄 I don't really believe that but I dropped it to respect his opinion he wants me wearing little boy shorts underneath like u would with a skirt smh I don't want to tho

[Asker]

I'm proud of his size lmao but maybe I do need to learn to be more ok with others seeing its tough tho

[NaughtyWife81]

Yeah I guess in just used to my husband enjoying showing me off

[Asker]

Would u be OK with girls seeing ur husbands junk?

[NaughtyWife81]

Absolutely! He never wears underwear and had a very notice and defined buldge like you guy's does

[Asker]

Hmm alright I don't know if I'm there yet but I appreciate ur help and opinion

[NaughtyWife81]

Not a problem

[Asker]

Any advice on how to get over jealousy?

[NaughtyWife81]

Head first into it is my best advice. Repitition in what's makes you jealous

[Asker]

How would I go head first into it?

[Asker]

Oh never mind I think I know what u mean 🙃 I don't think I can do that though haha thanks again 😅

[NaughtyWife81]

Feel free to message me if you want other details or advice

[Asker]

Haha I would love advice and details but we're both level one so I don't think we can message yet

[NaughtyWife81]

That's dumb lol only thing I dislike about this app so far

[Asker]

Yea I don't get it either

[Semasu]

this guy is bigger soft than I am hard jesus christ

[Asker]

Sorry I don't want to ruin anyone confidence haha there advantages and disadvantages to every size u just need to learn what's good for ur size

[Semasu]

it's all good, I think it's funny

[Asker]

Cool keep that condence and don't feel bad my exes are in the same boat as u so my boyfriend isn't normal at all

[Harmseygrace]

I'm sure people can see that you have a chest in shirts, so does it really matter? You seem pretty insecure trying to make girls jealous and stopping your boyfriend from wearing comfortable clothes.

[Aaliyahvcxz]

You better tell him to get bigger sweat pants. I’m DEFINITELY that chick that would be staring at him all day and night at his junk 😋😋😋

[circumstances]

I have the same issue and I try to avoid wearing anything that clearly shows the shaft and head.

[Asker]

Do u ever say fuck it tho and not care?

[circumstances]

No. It's way too obvious if I just let it do whatever it wants. I'm just under seven inches long and over six inches around when I'm soft. If you message me I can show you some of the solutions I've come up with.

[s_alj04]

If you wear revealing clothes it’s hypocritical to force him into not wearing sweatpants

[RHK36]

If you really think it's a serious issue, you go find him the most comfortable pairs of boxer briefs otherwise let the man wear his sweatpants.

[RHK36]

No idea lol, watch some shows about women that murder their s/o? Outside of focusing on yourself and building your confidence up, not really anything you can control. Just have to trust your man.

[Female_assasin]

You are a one annoying bitch , leave the guy alone.

[RobieMon]

Lmao is grey pants a bad thing? I’m a female and I love grey pants I always go to work with pants 😂

[Asker]

For girls no but for guys it tends to highlight there dick print

[VIVANT]

He shouud wear comfortable briefs 🤷‍♀️

Not bc of the relationship... Just for decorum sake.

[updog45]

Society tells men to not tell women how to dress, so I think he should be allowed to wear what he wants also.