Should I be ok with my boyfriend wearing grey sweatpants in public? Like to the gym or class?

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So grey sweatpants season in upon us and I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend have gotten into arguments over him wearing grey sweatpants or sweat pants in general. The problem is his dick is way bigger then average and like 5-6 soft so it leaves an obvious outline and he circumsized so the head leaves its own giant outline smh. So u can just see his junk and head all swinging around at the size or a regular hard on but u know he not hard cause it's just flopping around. Don't get me wrong it's a turn on and I love seeing it but I don't need other girls seeing it. We gotton in arguments over it and he got really mad because I said I woudnt care if he was small or average but he not and he said that not fair cause just because he large he can't be comfortable when at the gym or class like every else. He also sayes that I like to show off my body at the club. This is kinda true but not completely (I like to make girls jealous of my bod Im not trying to get male attention I love my bf). However he claims he only trying to be comfy but admitted to liking when people realize he bigger then them. I do kinda see his points tho cause I do wear sweats to class sometimes ans I love to be comfy plus I hate jeans. However I can't get over not wanting other girls to see. I get he's large and he can't hide the buldge all the time like it's seems like whatever shorts he wears shows a giant buldge when he sits down. All shorts seem to do that to him so I don't make a big deal out of it even though I noticed girls staring before. I just feel like he can avoid the whole sweatpants thing so I would like him too. So what should I do girls? Should I let him participate grey sweatpants season or stand my ground? Ps he hates wearing boxer briefs to control it cause he saise it squished him and ruins the point of be comfortable. Also do any of u girls struggle with something similar?

Kiwi67 · Accepted Answer

Yeah I see your point. Tbh I don’t agree with the restriction of him not being able to wear sweat pants. Doesn’t he wear underwear so that his junk won’t flap around? What I’m trying to say is it’s better for you guys to have a compromise. Also try to imagine yourself in his position. You like wearing tight leggings because they are comfy. You have every right to wear them despite’s the fact that they show off you butt. Would you like it if he said you could only wear baggy things because he didn’t like other being able to see the outline of you butt. You’d probably get upset and have an argument. Therefore try to find some common ground of him wearing briefs, or just accepting that he’s comfortable like that. Clothing shouldn’t be putting dents in your realationship.

yoshi_wanna_ask · Accepted Answer

I don't think you're in the wrong because there's tons of other things he could wear if it's *REALLY* obvious in *those* sweatpants. I mean, you could even get him another darker pair of pants which won't show it off. But there's the basketball shorts or workout shorts that are about knee length. It's a legitimate thing to be concerned about if it's actually exposing him to the gym. If it's not really though and you're just a bit concerned, probably good to talk it through with a friend and see where this worry is coming from. Then you can deal with it easier.

coralee · Accepted Answer

I mean I feel like the problem isn't really sweat pants and more that he's wearing the wrong size. I also feel like your greatly over estimating the amount of women who are going to be looking at your guys junk. If I ran into a guy where I could visibly see the outline of his junk I'd probably avoid looking at him below the belt. Women are far more likely to be lusting over your guy shirtless then they are to be staring at his junk. Hence why dick pics are the least successful pick up method know to man.

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

There's a comment below siting a comparison to you being told to wear a muumuu. That's not the point. The actual "size" of a girls boobs is not an equivalent comparison. It would be more like "what if she wore something sheer and clingy where you could easily see her areola and sizable nipples."
I think you should ask him WHY he feels the need to let his obviously sizable junk flop around so the whole world can "see" it in his sweats? There are plenty of different styles of underwear to hold his manhood comfortably.

foxrider77 · Accepted Answer

You should be excited when other girls are checking out your man, it means you have good taste. I love when my partner wears tight spandex or sexy skirts in public. We have plenty of fun after. If he’s going out of his way to show girls than that’s a different story but enjoy your attractive boyfriend while you can.

AwesomeCookie · Answer

Wow you're concerned about his bulge. How about the simple fact that wearing sweatpants in public is God awful taste.

sejla · Answer

He needs Lashevan. it tucks everything in place while allowing the area to breathe down there

rajni2699 · Answer

Stay calm dear and allow your boyfriend to wear what he wants, otherwise it will create differences between you and your relationship, tell him that i got jealous when people see yours in pants like these things so he will understand your concern, otherwise i think gift him tight underwear which makes his outline less.

Moonchild714 · Answer

Be honest you like the men looking at you. Women don't dress just to make other women jealous we do it more to flaunt to men what they can't have. So so what's good for the Goose is good for the Gander... If you don't want him comfy then you stop making yoyr ass comfortable!!! Have faith and Trust in your Man and Relationship or let him Go be with a woman who will appreciate him...

Ari_ana · Answer

I would say to just let him be if you do the same. Both of you draw attention so make sure to let everyone else know that you are together. Hold his hand, kiss him if they look. Fuck it, grab his ass or get close to him so others know whats yours. As simple as that.

Lavinnykins · Answer

So I just read about grey sweatpants and completely agree... never been SO EXCITED as when my boyfriend sold his pair! They were hideous... and let's not even mention the elasticated ankles!!! So it really is is personal preference as to what he wears, HOWEVER, if you are usually out together when he wears them, I'd be so smug if I saw other women staring at his crotch knowing that they're probably jealous and I'm the lucky one with him. Don't see it in a bad way, be proud of that, regardless! Guys like a bit of attention no more than women do when we have a great outfit on, guys just like the looks realising a woman is checking them out... I can't deny it, my boyfriend wears slim fit tracksuit bottoms for work and even I can't resist staring at his little touchie.

Anonymous · Answer

If you trust him, I don't think it should be an issue. Remember, it takes two to tango. If any girl were to try anything, he can shut it down and not reciprocate. The only way it can turn into anything more is if he allows it to. If you don't trust him not to flirt around behind your back, I would reconsider the relationship, but if you trust him, I'd just let him be comfortable.

Pinky_what_why · Answer

Listen I get the point that u don't want girls to look but they will if he wear them or not. Tbh don't study those girls he's YOURS and that belongs to u, so don't try to stop him from being comfortable because of those... In conclusion just ignore them, apologize to your boyfriend and agree to the sweatpants thing. 😇😇😇💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥💞💞💞❣️❣️❣️

ForteExe · Answer

This is hilarious. It's the female version of guys who complain about the girlfriend with a low cut blouse or leggings as pants that clearly show her camel toe. No, I don't think you should be okay with it anymore than I think a guy should be okay with his girlfriend/wife leaving the house with her tits/ass/pussy hanging out. If you show all that to the world, then there's no significance to when you show it to your boyfriend/girlfriend. At that point, you mine as well just have an open relationship.

peachybaby · Answer

They’re sweatpants, your boyfriend can wear whatever he wants. So can you. He can’t control his dick size, let him be comfortable and not control your boyfriend because it’s gross.

5yrup · Answer

lmfaooooooo what a pathetic argument, if i were a guy i'd dump u for stressing me over wearing comfortable clothes because you can't see past the sexualisation of a bulge

stardust101 · Answer

Is he going commando? That’s the only way you can pretty much see through his sweatpants like you say. And how is that comfortable anyway? Hmm... it sounds like you wear what you want, so let him wear what he wants and your jealousy is your problem only, not your boyfriend’s.

laurieluvsit · Answer

just have him wear a jock strap and it won't "flop around" that way... lol

KatherineJ · Answer

It drives me crazy seeing people wearing sweatpants unless they are actually working out, or just lounging around the house. It makes me think they really don’t care how they look.

Elliegirl · Answer

I would let him wear sweatpants if he wants to. I know it makes you feel uncomfortable about other girls seeing his bulge, but it’s not worth fighting over. You know he’s going home with you, so if other girls wanna be jelly over what your man has, let them be jelly.

Steffy33 · Answer

I'm totally with you there darlin and I know exactly how you feel. Yes if he is big it will show in anything except for large sagger pants that he wears off ass and it's cool too I ain't sayin nothing else but he likes sweatpants and probably also likes showing off. U don't just like to be on his arm and have the attention of the other bit... staring at your guy and then after at u b all like damn? I think you should.

nomazi · Answer

So does he not know you can clearly see his penis outline? Boxer briefs can conceal that pretty well.

Alpha09 · Answer

Your worried about his grey sweatpants? That's what you guys are fighting about. Sounds like you're bored. He's a grown man and he can wear whatever he wants, same as you. Sweatpants should be the least of your worries in a relationship. My advice, grow up appreciate how hot your boyfriend is. Don't be controlling and insecure. Him and that bulge come home to you.

QueenTanya · Answer

He just wants to be comfy. Let him. Let those girls stare, it's better to know that he's yours.

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

Since i saw your update after the reading i'll tell you this. Just remember that it makes things fair if you let him wear em while you wear your stuff to the clubs. That you letting him wear something he feels is comfy means you made him happy on that part at least.

Should I be ok with my boyfriend wearing grey sweatpants in public? Like to the gym or class?

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